Issues? What issues?
I don't know where to start. Husband has decided that my patents should send him money for rent instead of me because he said I make things hard and I complicate things. I had just asked him a clarifying question and that apparently was all it took for him to decide that. He is coming home from work tonight and tomorrow, after delivering his goods, is going to take our son out but leave me at home cause that's where he leaves his troubles. And he wonders why I tell myself that no one loves me and that no one cares. I ask him to just be nice to me and he can't even fathom the idea of it. I'm sad and hurt but this is a normal feeling that I've been going through for so long that i feel shouldn't be happening in a marriage.
@Stargazernow
Oh, honey, we love you here on 7 cups! Please try not to listen to anyone who labels you as trouble or complications. Remember that critical feedback is only valid if it comes from a place of love. Do you think your husband was expressing love at that moment? If not, then the feedback has no value and should be ignored. Of course this is hard to do, because things like that hurt so much. But feedback is like a gift, if you don't accept it, it remains the property of the giver. Don't accept bad feedback and it remains with the person who gave it.
I recently read a book about not letting anyone else write your story, but to take back the pen and write what you want to write. What would you write about you? Do you feel that you are trouble? You don't come across as trouble, but intelligent, caring, conscientious and trying your best. You sound like you have a lot to give.
I hope this finds you feeling better, but if not, remember that someone here cares about you right now.
Love and best wishes.