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I realised i have nobody at 20+. It's just me, my ptsd, my parents' issue and guys who only want me for the physical

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I don't feel well. whatever i do to go to bed early i always wake up nauseous at the middle of the night, wanting someone around. my dad has a new house now and it hurts me i will never sleep in the same place as him ever. he's a doctor and always helped me when i was sick. since i was born i was nauseous. now my therapist said i want a boyfriend to replace my dad. i do feel comforted by men but then repulsed as they say it "you don't want to sleep with me, you only want to really sleep". I need to see if i can trust them. not risk my emotional and physical health for people who only care about the physical. so another night im alone. I actually never met anyone. it ends at texting as they see i have no intention and that I'm physically and mentally unwell. and need help as a human being

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@intellectualGrapefruit6085

Hey , i'm Josh alr , im from your same age group , i know such shet happens with some people like us  , even i was going through smth like this , later i recovered , id love to hear yours tooo , count me in !

Hi Josh, would love to hear how you recovered

@intellectualGrapefruit6085

Hi,

I understand what u are feeling. U are craving for human touch and comfort. A guy to hug and cuddle and sleep with. Someone who can pamper you. I understand its hard to deal with. But Its better to wait for the right person. I have been waiting still. 

You can connect with me or text me If you wanna talk about it and feel heard

Thank you. It's essentially hard when dad left

@intellectualGrapefruit6085

That must have added up For you. I understand must be difficult for anyone there with u with whom u can talk ?

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