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Listeningsarinn December 11th, 2021

(if you are in a rush, just read the bold parts, that’s the info, the rest is a message and explanation)

My very beloved 7cups family,

I never knew how hard it would be to type this out one day, i literally am crying, but I needed to do so as I have been delaying making this post for too long already

Before any of you start to get worried, no, I’m not leaving, but I’m afraid this is gonna be a long while away; a one on which I will miss you all too much..

if I am to be honest, I haven’t been doing okie lately, I’m under a whole lot of stress due to my studies for an upcoming exam, this particular exam is so very important for me and talks lots about my future, in means of my to be job, income, immigration plans and long story short, doing good on that exam is a must if I am to reach my dreams or get anywhere around them.. and at this point, I am having a really hard time coping with all the stress and pressure from my teachers, school and family as well as my own over thinker mind… which is causing me a major burnout

I need time to heal from that burnout and I think it will be healthier for me to do so while not on cups

And even after getting myself in a better coping state, I will need to study even harder as I am not doing well on mock exams right now.. not at all

All these going on in my personal life has made me unable to be available and present for many of you in times I wished badly that I could be, and it has made me unable to hold some of the promises I have made, this is something I am deeply and dearly sorry about and I hope you can forgive and understand me for.. my lack of presence is not about you, or because I don’t care, I still care and love you, a bit more than before, I have just been going thru a rough to handle time

Note that: Starting from Monday (December 13th), I will be deactivating my account and putting it on self-care break for a month and half, during which time our chat page will disappear from your list of chats, after being back I will update you on how active I can be

you are welcome to leave me messages on this thread, I will be seeing them, but can’t reply until the one month and half is over, It will make me smile and feel at home to see your names on my screen tho

you are loved, you are gonna be so missed, you will never be forgotten.. I will be sending you so much love and craving the day I get to talk to you all again

remember, I believe in you, and I know so well you can make thru every bad day and to the days you will smile lightly on

my dear leaders: please note that I am stepping down fully from all my roles other than newbie hub room moderator role and will reapply for them when and if my situation and daily schedule has changed

for your reference, these are the roles I am stepping down from:

chatroom mod (trauma support and lgbtq+), chat support and peer support, subcommunity teen star (lgbtq+), teen forum star (needs reply), subcommunity team project agent (needs reply), anonymous evaluations, team lightship, LD, verifies team

it has been a great pleasure workring with you all, you have taught me by experience what a team really means and you have made me learn so so much, thanks for existing and thanks for what you do for this community

ps: will try to respond to every pm i have before monday

with love~ sarinn

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Mack December 11th, 2021

🥺 im sorry you’re having a hard time. I love you so super much and Im gonna miss you so much. I hope things get better and easier and your exams go well. You’re amazing 💕

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@TayTayy

thanks sweetie <3 i love you super much too, and i'll miss you more uwu

take care of you for me okie?? can't wait to be back, attack hug you incredibly hard and get the updates

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EmmaE December 11th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn

hi sarinn!

thank you so much for letting us know <3 i'm so sorry to hear that you're under a lot of stress and it's causing you to burnout :( this exam sounds like a really important one, so i completely understand how challenging this must be for you! it's so amazing of to recognize that you need to step down and take a break to focus on your real life and studies. i'll miss you so much and will be thinking of you! best of luck on your exam, you got this and i hope everything goes well! stay amazing ❤️

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@EmmaE

aw emma <3 thanks love, this was a message i needed to read today <3

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sunshinegiraffe123 December 11th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn

im gonna miss you Sarin.. you’re one of a few teen listeners who truly understood me 😭

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@sunshinegiraffe123

i will miss the one and only allie too, will be back soon enough, take good care of yourself for me til then okie??

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emotionalTalker2260 December 11th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn

🥺 awww sarinnnn *huggles tightly* sorry to hear *cries with you* 🥺 i will miss you *hugs again*

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@emotionalTalker2260

*hugs back tightly* tata is loved

and i'll miss you too love, but i guess this is a step i really needed to take <3

will be back soon, take good care of the pikata

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bookworm274 December 11th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn

Thank you so much for letting us know sarinn - you are an amazing person and I am so sorry to hear about all this stress you are going through ❤️ I wish you the best of luck in your exams - we know you can do it! Take care, always here for you 💜

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@bookworm274

aw thanks book <3 this was a really sweet message

also thanks for being one of the most awesome people i've ever met and the greatest team-mate i could've asked for <3 thru the past few months and with my very much extended breaks, you have been handling all about NR as well as helping everyone in the team which is something i truly appreciate and adore you for <3

stay you <3

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QuietMagic December 11th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn

That absolutely makes sense. Sorry that things are so difficult, thanks for all you've done, and I'm glad you're taking that time for yourself to try to manage everything. 💜

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Listeningsarinn OP December 14th, 2021

@QuietMagic

thanks lots magic🍃💜

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ouiCherie December 12th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn *hugsss*

Thank you for informed us Sarin, will surely miss you.

Wishing you the best for the exam and the future 💜

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@ouiCherie

so will i cherie <3 thanks <3

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juliak1968 December 12th, 2021

We're here for you any time! I hope some of your 7cups habits lure you back really soon!

Blessings, Day

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@juliak1968

aw thanks day <3

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xinyii11 December 12th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn Awww sarinn I'm so sorry to hear that. School and exams can be really tiring - I myself have been feeling the signs of burnout too so I get how hard it can be. Good luck with your break! I'm proud of you for taking care of yourself first <3 We'll be here when you get back, and we'll definitely miss you very very much :)

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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@xinyii11

thanks a lot xin! <3 just a reminder that you too deserve putting yourself first~ when and if feeling signs of burn out, self care can be your best friend <3

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Bluelove13 December 12th, 2021

@Listeningsarinn


Blue gonna miss sarin a lot...Take care 💙💙💙



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Listeningsarinn OP December 13th, 2021

@Bluelove13

i'm gonna miss blue super much too,

and i'll be thinking of blue and sending so so so much love your way

be kind to the one and only blue til when i'm back??


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