Need advice/input

Update: I got a response but it was a no. Trying again hurts again but not as much as the 1st because it was expected. I guess some people just like to share their stories and not really want to be your friend or just want to enjoy the moment and don't care to see you again.

@Temesgen9

Sorry to hear that. She has a right to not want up be friends, just as you're allowed to want to be friends. I know it's hard when those don't like up.

In the future, I might not resort to the police thing. That's very intrusive and can be off putting.

Best of luck going forward and I hope you find someone else again when the right person comes along. <3

@Bananan

Thanks. Yeah, I had 2 friends advice me to call the police. I couldn't think clearly at the time.

@Temesgen9 maybe its best to move on its hard to know if she will respond if you were to write a letter if not maybe it means that the friendship is over and that does happen sometimes people either change or go seperate ways.

@kitkat34567 thank you for your feedback. I only have one other experience of having a really close friendship & that turned out really bad since that person was only using me. In the beginning it was the highest highs so the ending really hurt. I still have that person constantly in my mind & this was 5/6 years ago. Maybe I am taking friendships too seriously?

@Temesgen9 Maybe since friendships take time to delveop if the person got scared its probably best to move on and not contact them.

@kitkat34567 makes sense. I think you might be right... Moving on seems to be the best option.

Hey everyone,

I recently broke up with my boyfriend for various reason about 4 days ago. We were fighting a lot and it seemed like I barelt got to do the things I normally wanted to do. I put on a lot of weight as well whenever I was dating him. I normally am super super active and love working out, but like I said I never got to do things that I wanted such as working out because he never wanted to. However, I am missing him a lot, we dated for almost 2 years and it kinda sucks not having him around. I love him I do and Im wondering if what I did was a mistake or if its whats best for me. I need some input guys, this is stressing me out a lot.

@jadele hi, you mentioned while with him, you never did the things you wanted to do. Was he controlling and maybe did not want you to do fun things without him?

Maybe its a good time to put your mental and emotional health first and give yourself the space to make this decision. Workout and get some rest and if you get the urge to talk to him, try writing a letter of what youd want to say. If the topic of convo seems healthy enough, perhaps try reaching out if youre ready. But if you find yourself happier on your own, maybe its best to keep the letter to yourself.

/all the best

@tallMaple4202 yeah he always wanted to do things with me, and if I wanted to hang with someone else for a change it would result in a fight.