Texting
So I might have a bit of a weird problem- I hate when people are attentive in texting. I know it's polite of them to say good morning to me each day and such, but I literally talked with them once on a dating app and now they're doing that. I know I should feel cared about, but I don't like it when people respond too quickly either. It's probably because I have a really busy life right now and when someone wants to talk too much I run out of things to say. I guess I'm just not someone who wants to talk for hours out of a day unless I actually know the person and the idea of getting to know someone through that process exhausts me. I know it's not polite, but I've been ghosting because I just don't have any energy to respond. :/ I definitely want someone in my life, but I'm not looking for anything serious and texting me multiple times a day feels like too much when I barely know the person. I'm thinking about just unmatching but idk if this is a big enough issue to do that, because I feel like they're just trying to be nice and the problem is with me.