Is it jealousy?
Hi! I have been with my bf for a few years now and just recently he has gotten reaally close with his girl best friend. Normally i wouldn't mind but I have felt like things have been different lately.
Like for instance they call each other every single day, and so does my boyfriend with me. But he talks longer to her. Also they hang out alone a lot and when they do, they cuddle the same way that we cuddle. For me, even my best friend in the whole wild world, i dont cuddle with when I'm alone with them. I cuddle with my friends when we are in a group and then everyone is cuddling everyone. They also hold hands.
They also text all the time: I love you with lots of hearts.
He has also said on several occasions that she is attractive, cute and what not. And when we have arguments he compares me to her and says that she never does this.
When she hangs out at our apartment he only gives her psysical attention and not me.
My heart hurts when i enter the door and he doesn't even stand up to greet me but is lying on the couch with her.
The worst thing is that I have told him about this. He knows my insecurity with her. Not her as a person but their dynamic. And he doesn't change anything. He sort of turned it on me.