Confused
My biggest pet peeve is when I ask someone how was their day and they don’t ask back. Which is something my boyfriend does not do which drives me insane. I don’t really want to put us in a bad place because I decide to speak out on it but it’s really affecting me because my last boyfriend was kinda like this and he ghosted me and I don’t really want that. I’m probably overthinking this but because of this I kinda have sleepless nights.
@reservedPark4029
Hey, thank you for reaching out. I am starting to be open to listening long term for any issues. Please feel free to message and I'll be happy to listen and acknowledge what you're doing through. Peace. x
@reservedPark4029 Hi i also had that experience of feeling unheard and disrespected but with friends not a boyfriend, i can't give you advice because I was the one who did the ghosting. but think about your worth really, do you deserve it? if your boyfriend couldn't care much about your day and feelings, you be okay with that? is that even love? would you really waste you time and emotion to someone uncaring towards you? remember small things matter.
think about it really hard, and settle within yourself, before you take action. It's really up to how much you care and respect yourself, your values, and your boundaries. As long as you did your part in expressing your thoughts and emotions, it was enough you did your part,
just so you know i'm catholic but now devout, i don't blindly follow the church, and even if you are not a catholic let's agree that this verse make sense.
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV)
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
if you think this doesn't make sense, check your religious book say about love, start from there understand it, and hopefully, you find your way into what real love is.❤️
@reservedPark4029 I know how that feels, I tend to overthink things all the time and am so sorry this is happening to you. it can be frustrating to deal with but i promise other people probably arent as self aware as you, not realizing that they're being rude by not responding in the same way by reciprocating your mannerisms. I had an ex that did this as well and i overthought it a lot, but i just want you to remember to never forget your worth because the fact that he isn't doing it isn't a reflection of your worth as a person. It's a reflection of his.
if you ever need to talk ill always be here. lots of love <3