Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
  1. Forum
  2. Relationship Stress
  3. Tired and alone

Tired and alone
LonelyD97 June 23rd, 2022
.

Hello,


So I'm a 25 year old guy. I have never had sex, and definitely never had a relationship. I only kissed a girl for the first time last year, and when we sobered up she regretted it and no longer speaks to me. I have tried to talk to over 200 women in social enviroments in person, and attempted online dating, which nearly lead to 1 date before she ghosted me 2 days before the date. At my new job I can't get any respect, and am instead used as the group "punching bag" as it were. I get given useless compliments by women "you're so nice" "you're so funny" "you make me feel safe", but no interest. I'm too ugly for that. At work I get soft compliments "Oh you're relaxed, you're laid back". It doesn't matter. I can't afford therapy, so I'm hoping someone here will tell me something that I haven't heard before as to why I'm an unfuckable sub human.


Have a nice day


D.

3
sallymae3459 June 24th, 2022
.

@LonelyD97 might just have bad luck hard to say since idk u but you have to keep trying there are always dating apps if you are into that if not meet up groups maybe.

LonelyD97 OP June 24th, 2022
.

Yeah I've tried tinder, and bumble, and hinge, and plentyoffish and okcupid multiple times. Nothing. And any event I go to, women will 100% go for a more conventionally attractive man, no matter what. It's tiring and humiliating.

sallymae3459 June 24th, 2022
.

@LonelyD97. yeah that's too bad I am sorry there is another app called Iris that uses artificial intelligence to match people might be worth a try i tried it wasn't for me.

*Support Forum Disclaimer
My communities
Community guidelines
Report an issue
Talk to an expert therapist
Hi, my name is Melissa and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor.  I hope...
Talk to Melissa Now