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LonelyD97
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25 and alone
Relationship Stress / by LonelyD97
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August 3rd, 2022
...See more So I'm 25, never had sex or a gf, and the only time I kissed a girl (last year) she stopped when she found out I was a virgin. I have been repeatedly told by women how ugly I am with the only compliments I get being useless ones. "You're funny, you're sweet, you make me feel safe". But too ugly for anything more than tolerance. I've tried just about every major online dating app out there, tinder, bumble, hinge. Nothing. Not a single match. What am I supposed to do when women don't see me as anything more than some sort of pet?
Tired and alone
Relationship Stress / by LonelyD97
Last post
June 24th, 2022
...See more Hello, So I'm a 25 year old guy. I have never had sex, and definitely never had a relationship. I only kissed a girl for the first time last year, and when we sobered up she regretted it and no longer speaks to me. I have tried to talk to over 200 women in social enviroments in person, and attempted online dating, which nearly lead to 1 date before she ghosted me 2 days before the date. At my new job I can't get any respect, and am instead used as the group "punching bag" as it were. I get given useless compliments by women "you're so nice" "you're so funny" "you make me feel safe", but no interest. I'm too ugly for that. At work I get soft compliments "Oh you're relaxed, you're laid back". It doesn't matter. I can't afford therapy, so I'm hoping someone here will tell me something that I haven't heard before as to why I'm an unfuckable sub human. Have a nice day D.
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