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New to the Relationship Stress Community? Introduce yourself here!! ❤️

ASilentObserver August 1st, 2018

Greetings from the Relationship Stress Community!!

Are you new to the Relationship Stress Community? Tell us some things about yourself and get to know others that joined the community this month!
Question prompts:

What brings you to the Relationship Stress community?

What is one thing you love most about yourself (or, perhaps, your loved ones)?


Benefits of being a member of the Relationship Stress Community:

Give and receive support from others who are in relationships.

Share your relationship journey (memories, struggles, challenges) in relevant topics comfortably.

Participate in community activities and events (eg. Check-ins, Icebreakers, Forum Discussions)

Plus, members who participate regularly could become part of the Relationship Stress team, as well!


Here are some quick links for you to check out:

our taglist! Join in to get updates on discussions and events.

check out this post for updates on weekly discussions!

check out our newest check-in here!

check this post with more information on how to navigate the community.

If you have any question, do not hesitate to contact KatePersephone (teens and adults) or reply on this thread!


Do not be a lurker! Join us and introduce yourself here!!


tagging our newest subcribers: @determinedHuman6138 @delicateVision3519 @helpfulJar5066 @Volkswagen97 @Sleepingsnail427022 @jessihazel @andrewtan99 @tidyLand6622 @indigoChestnut8502 @sloven86 @Letstalk7 @limegreenPenguin1163 @ShamrockViking @creativeFig154 @warmheartedPenguin281 @KevinRodriguez @NiceThinker @neatmarii4ta @turquoisePond5890 @proactiveDrum6829

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Are you new to the Relationship Stress community? Introduce yourself here!

Do you want to be the first to get updates on discussions and events? Consider joining the taglist!

Do you want to be updated on the weekly discussions in the Relationship Support Room? Subscribe to this thread!

Do you want to help out in the Relationship Stress Community? Consider becoming a forum supporter or a room supporter!


Edited by KatePersephone on 11.11.24

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m00oonbunny February 4th, 2019

Hi! My name is tori. Me and my partner are trying for a fresh start after 5 months of seperation. I

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@m00oonbunny great! that is a good news bunny. We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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navyGrapefruit2162 February 4th, 2019

My boyfriend is 17 years older than me and Im scared that Im unable to give him everything he will want before me (kids, marrage, etc.) we really do have something special together and I dont want to leave him, but I dont want to let him down.

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@navyGrapefruit2162 okay, I hear you, navy. I hope things get better for you both. We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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cecbit February 8th, 2019

Hello everyone, happy to have found this community. After a series of unfortunet events I have realized that I need some help with coping with everything that life has suddenly thrown my way. Hope everyone is having a great day smiley

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@cecbit awesome cecbit. We appreciate you. Welcome to the community. We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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Quietone8717 February 9th, 2019

Hi, So I've never been in a true relationship in my life when it comes to the 'romantic' type, mostly because of my own emotional damage and fears, but I want to one day, but I know I need to get in a better place for that. I am hoping to find support in this because right now I am two halves battling, one side saying "forget ever meeting the right person so don't even try" and the other half saying, "You are worth more than you think, don't worry so much on the future and being hurt is apart of life"

I have cared for people but either wouldn't say anything until it was too late or would push them away until one or the other get hurt, but I also don't attract the best guys either and I think it's because of how I view myself. So yeah, I'm working on it, haven't had the best examples of healthy and positive relationships so I'm hoping someone out there has had them and give me some hope that I can have that too one day

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@Quietone8717 I hear you Quiet. It makes sense and I appreciate you to join us and share your thoughts.

We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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Fed80it February 9th, 2019

Hi everyone

I had few bad experiences and now I'm sure woman want relationship not for real love but for something in exchange in my cases:

Economic security

Successful sex

I'm feel so bad

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Quietone8717 February 9th, 2019

@Fed80it

I am so sorry you have gone through such things, i really hope that you find the right person and happiness <3 we aren't all like that i promise

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Fed80it February 12th, 2019

@Quietone8717

Thanks for kind words and support, I hope

I've nearly lost my faith in that

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@Fed80it I am sorry to hear it Fed. We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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Zombiekittykate February 11th, 2019

Hey there.

My names Kaitlin Im 21 years old and I just recently got broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years. My friends and family tell me he was abusive and that I should move on however he wants to be friends and possibly have a relationship in the future. He dumped me on Christmas because he said my mental health was too much to handle and that when I got better maybe hed be with me. The confusing thing is he still acts like my boyfriend and wants every privelage of being my boyfriend without having the commitment of being my boyfriend. He lies and changes stories all the time. He told me for those years I was crazy and making it up so I started writing down everything he said to me and referencing it later on and I could physically see the proof of him lying to me constantly. Now that I dont live with him anymore I feel depressed and confused and like I dont know who I am anymore.

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@Zombiekittykate I am sorry to hear it Kaitlin. That was a lot to deal with. I think you made a good decision to separate as when someone cannot support you and accept who you are. There is no point in staying with them once you get better.

We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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WishfulCrow February 12th, 2019

Hello, everyone. I'm WishfulCrow, I just signed up today.

I've got a handfull of good friends, but we've all moved away from eachother over the last few years so I no longer have any local ones, so it gets lonely at times.

Also as much as I'm looking forward to the day, I haven't found a romantic partner yet... I'm non-binary and asexual, as well as introverted, so that makes it hard. I haven't even had my first date yet, at 23.

Also, I have an online friend that I've been feeling lately might be bad for my mental and emotional health, but I'm not sure what to do about it... I'm very confused. I try to always be there for someone when they need me, but this is becoming too much.

I suppose I'm here to clear my head, maybe hear if anyone has any advice, and to meet some nice people. :3

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ASilentObserver OP February 12th, 2019

@WishfulCrow We appreciate your presence in the community Wishful. Glad to have you here. We all are here to support and listen to you. You are welcome to message me or any listener if there is anything you want to talk or discuss.

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peachymeech February 12th, 2019

Hey everyone!

i joined 7cups on February 11 2019 because I decided it was time to take control of my life again. With my dads passing in September 2018 I have unresolved emotions about our relationship. Growing up in foster care for 10 years I still feel the abandonment daily and struggle because I crave stability in every part of my life. These issues from the past affect my current life and relationships with my boyfriend , friends , and family. Hoping to find some healthy tools on this site to find some clarity and hope.

tommyasia2019 February 15th, 2019

Hi everyone. My name is ana.

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saikiran7 February 17th, 2019

@tommyasia2019 Hi. im Tyson

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tommyasia2019 February 21st, 2019

How are you

@saikiran7

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AveryLove February 21st, 2019

@tommyasia2019 hey ana. welcome to our community. glad to have you!

tealPapaya2834 March 9th, 2019

@tommyasia2019

Hi I'm Skypony. How is everyone? I hope alright.

mija123 April 27th, 2019

@tommyasia2019 Hello ana :)

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peachymeech February 19th, 2019

@ASilentObserver

Hey everyone! New here! Looking forward to connecting and sharing useful tools to use in everyday life to help strengthen and build positive relationships in my life.

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AveryLove February 21st, 2019

@peachymeech hey peach, glad to see you here and were happy to have you as part of our community!

tealPapaya2834 March 9th, 2019

@peachymeech ok

mija123 April 27th, 2019

@peachymeech Me too! I hope we get some good ideas:)

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