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purpleSail7825 December 17th, 2018

Heyo all. Somewhat new here (under a month). Found this site when I was really just having some exceptionally difficult times in my head, and needed someone to talk to.

Been here for awhile and enjoy reading the threads, and responding if I feel I have any constructive input on a matter. I'm 36 male from the midwest states, but only had very few relationships, so I don't usually have much to say. More soaking it in.

Had what I thought was a very good start to a relationship that then just evaporated into thin air with no warning, or even really knowing that it's over. (Silence after 2.5 months of progressivly better dates, more intimate, more frequent). I very possibly pushed her away more by being very anxious when she stopped talking to me. (I posted the actual story on the relationship board).

Now I'm here for support, and to return the favor when I am able. To help me move on past this confusion and pain and try to get back to living life. See if there is any hope in the future to reconnect (fate can be mysterious?), and try my best to work on myself in the interim.

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freshLight64 December 17th, 2018

@purpleSail7825

I remember reading your situation, I'm glad you decided to work on things. I know the other person meant a lot to you, but you will succeed in life whether the person comes back or not. I'm sure others will appreciate your help around the forums.

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purpleSail7825 OP December 17th, 2018

@freshLight64

Indeed. I appreciated your input and sharing the youtube information. And yes, regardless of that particular person, (who I still do have some strong feelings for), I will get out the other side better. Even though my story may not have painted it well, they really were quite sweet to me, and opened my eyes to the fact that I do deserve to be happy in this life and that there are people out there that can make me feel that way.

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freshLight64 December 18th, 2018

@purpleSail7825

Im glad it help you. Im sure you will do great from now on.

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