let it go or see how things unfold...
I had an almost relationship with someone and I really never got closure because he practically friend zoned me without me knowing. I really want to talk to him about this it's been about five months since it happened, but I really don't know how to approach it. I still really like him and we talk occasionally, but not like we use to. I'm just not sure if maybe I waited to long to approach the situation. There's a whole lot more complications to this.
What are those comlications? It is quite tough to answer your question based on what you have written. I can, however, feel that you aer confused both about him and how you should act or behave around him. It is understandable and you cannot help feel this way. If you feel confused about approaching him directly right now , you can take your time to do this. there is a very hge gap between being friends and being involved romantically. And in the middle lies the grey area where two people come close and move away periodically. You have to find out what is making him move away and you can try and making those changes around you and in your relationship. Try spending more time with him. Hope you find your way!!
Thank you. The thing that makes it complicated is he has two kids and is back with the mother of his children even though he told me he was tired of being mistreated and feeling unappreciated, but I know how things are at the moment with them so I'm just going to take my tim. I don't want to get involved if the feelings aren't there anymore then feel even more heartbroken. I'll just keep him as a friend and have to deal with the fact that that's all we'll ever be even though we connect so well. I hate how selfish I'm sounding I just want him to be happy.
