Hi - I'm new so bear w me if I don't know all the rules and lingo.
I left my husband of 8 years (together 10) in February. He's a good person, bad partner. We were good at fun stuff, not at real life and family...which is incredibly, incredibly important to me. He was more into career and extracurriculars (bands, volunteering, etc.) The tension got terrible - I wanted him to be something he either can't or won't. I just left one day - not intending to, never planned.
That was months ago and he's never said a word about our relationship. He never said he loved me, or asked me to work or stay, he just let me go. The up side is that he has COMPLETELY stepped up as a father and done many of the things I begged him to do for years. So, my kid has a better dad, which is great. And I don't want a bad, neurotic, neglectful, selfish partner back.
BUT, I can't figure out how to move on since he won't talk to me. I can't find closure. I need to find a way to stop being angry and hurt and move forward, because I'm not going to get that from a conversation with him. We're amiable and working well together for our kid. We're almost friendly. I've asked to talk about it a couple of times and he just says he can't or refuses.
How do I find closure? How do I move on?