Navigating breakups and the journey after
Letter to everyone
Hello everyone, Tina here!
I recently got out of a serious 2 year relationship a month ago and have been navigating my life ever since. It got toxic and was difficult to realise that in the situation. We get so used to being with a person that the pain and chaos we feel after the separation is almost close to losing a very important friendship and sometimes comes in waves like grief. That's completely alright!
My intention of writing this post is to motivate all others who are stressed out and confused and trying to figure things out. The movie "Someone Great" really talks about this topic and helped put things in perspective for me personally. That being said, spend time with your friends, people around you and family if you can. Take your time you kind soul! Give time to your hobbies, and for yourself to process all these emotions.. You didn't deserve any of the bad things that happened to you and I send you soo much love and strength to help you on your beautiful journey of life.. I am here for you if you want to talk about anything at all, even if not related to this topic!
There are people, so many people who care about you and love you (Most definitely including me!🧡🌻🦋) I love you for being so strong and brave and for trying to figure out things for yourself, no mater what you are going through. I know it's difficult and daunting, and it may feel like you wanna shut yourself off in moments.. It takes a lot of courage, so take a moment to just be proud of yourself for how far you've come and how far you can go! Life is a beautiful journey and we have wonderful opportunities, all of us, to grow from adversities, learn our lessons, heal and become better versions of ourselves while being here for each other.. I am so glad you're here, it sometimes may not feel like you're doing enough, but you are! I promise you time will heal everything. And if you have breakdowns, that's completely okay: It is okay to not be okay sometimes. Just remember to smile once you've cried or thought about things, because you're a beautiful and awesome person and you got thisss.. To all of you reading this and whoever needs to hear this: It is not your fault. I repeat. It..is..Not..your..fault! Wishing healing for all of us and for us to eventually love and accept ourselves as we are~
Have a great day/night and keep being yourself!
With love,
Tina🧡