How to break up?

@KittysPetJoey first realize why you don't want her anymore. Then tell her how you feel about her. See what her reaction is. Plus is there anything she can change about herself to make things better? Communication is #1. Honesty too. Be honest and straight up with her on why you dislike her or just dont want to be with her.

@Victoriarush Thanks for the advice. The problem is that the relationship is long-distance, and that is just not working. I am also not attracted to her, and I thought that that wouldn't matter at first, but I'm beginning to realize that it does. Every time I think about talking to her, I feel terrified. I'm so scared I'm going to hurt her.

Have you watched the movie "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days". Yoou may find some ideas that you can use.