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Boyfriend has finished our relationship

courteousBlueberry4361 November 19th, 2017

My boyfriend of four years has just finished our relationship and I'm feeling so lost and alone right now . We had an argument because he accused me of checking his phone , which I hadn't done and I got so angry that I said I was gonna leave because he didn't trust me and even though he tried to calm me down I wouldn't listen . He then finished it this morning saying he couldn't carry on like this and had to do what's best for him . He is my soulmate and I don't know what to do now

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selfconfidentTangerine1778 November 19th, 2017

@courteousBlueberry4361

I am so sorry to hear this has happen to you and you are struggling right now. I have a similar experience. For starter I didn't know at that time that my ex boyfriend had dump me because of how he had did the break up when he gave me mixed signal that had left me confused about what he want from me. I didn't feel that I could move on without checking with him first because I had thought that we were getting back together if I had change myself or if were patient enough. So I wasted five years on him because I had thought were getting back together because I still had hope. Take sometime to grief and then do something fun for yourself.

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courteousBlueberry4361 OP November 20th, 2017

@selfconfidentTangerine1778

I'm sorry to hear about your experience with your ex , I hope things are improving for you now .

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Lee14Smith November 20th, 2017

I am in the same situation , was with ex for 4 plus years we have a beautilful son together. I thought i would be happy not together in every because our relationship was very abusive, i put with so much with him , the name calling , the aqusation, the all around abusive in every form. everytime he left , i took him back when he decided to come back. i thought i was starting to fall out of love with him and getting tired of all the disrepsect and fighting. and i always told myself my son and i are better off without him because he not a good role model but after seeing him and seeing how he easily just moved on hurts. it hurts to know that i gave my all to this guy , a ga

lightHouse8806 November 21st, 2017

@courteousBlueberry4361

my boyfriend was just like that. We were dating for 2 weeks and ha decided that he " made my decision" now I hate him and I always will!!!!!

Helping2findaway November 21st, 2017

Sounds like you guys are having a challenging time in our relationship.. But if 2 people truly love each other they do found ways on working throught problems. Hope all goes well ..hugs@courteousBlueberry4361

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courteousBlueberry4361 OP November 21st, 2017

@Helping2findAway

That's what I want more than anything , to work through things but he won't even talk to me

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Helping2findaway November 21st, 2017

@courteousBlueberry4361... that much be heart breaking.. i can only imagine how much your hurting

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courteousBlueberry4361 OP November 23rd, 2017

@Helping2findAway

It is heartbreaking because in 4 years we haven't gone a day without communicating in some way . I just feel so empty inside , like I've lost a part of me

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goodLake2424 January 28th, 2018

I contact : ( .. this Email:dr.mack201@(gmail). com to restore my relationship and after 3 days my lover was back