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EoYC - Anonymous shout outs - Holiday edition!!

pray4theheartless December 22nd, 2015

Behold all radically amazeballs earthly beings, aliens, timelords, unicorns and octopi! We present to you, HOLIDAY ANON SHOUTOUTS *distant cheering* *whoot whoot*

Yes, calm down grasshoppers, and let me lay down the deets!

WHO

YOU ya silly blonkytacks!

WHAT

Anonymous Shoutouts! To your listeners, members, peer supporters, mods, mentors, CMs, unicorns... ERRBODYYYY! (rock your bodyyy) (oh whoops, I did not just lapse into a backstreet boys throwbackism.)

WHEN

All week long! Yeap, you heard me. ALL WEEK LONG. Get those love bombs and cupcake cannons out, lets do this!

WHERE

Somewhere over the rainboowwww. Erm. I meant right here! Well be posting all your shoutouts right heresies!

WHY

Because nutella and love. Always because of nutella and love. Also, I am sure theres been many people whove inspired you or helped you loads on here. Anonymous shoutouts are a way to remind them they are loved and appreciated <3

HOW

Using → THIS ← link to submit your anon shoutout! You can choose to have it posted here, or even have them receive it as a special PM! <3 Send as many as you like~ the more the merrier!

You can also send them a special GIF/video, make them a doodle/flipbook/sketch or even a voice message!

☞ Making a doodle/flipbook: http://www.benettonplay.com/toybox.php

☞ Making a random sketch: http://sketchtoy.com/

☞ Voice recording: http://vocaroo.com/

Well then, what is you waiting for? Get lovin! ♥ You have until the midnight of New Years Eve, or the carriage will turn back into a pumpkin! ;)

psst. Thats 12AM EST 31 Dec! <3

(psst. PM either @pray4theheartless or @221Skye if you have any questions or comments! <3)

(psst psst. Tag your friends to alert them to the existence of this fabulous thang!)

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gloriousPurple97 December 28th, 2015

Sounds cool :)

December 29th, 2015

HI GUYS!!!!

WISH A VERY GOOD NEW YEAR!!! filled with all the good things you want...want to feel better than ever....forget the past....leave sorrows behind...keep up joyful spirits...carry them with you like bells....of luck...

Love and many warm hugs

221Skye December 30th, 2015

This SPECIAL one is to the wonderful @GlenM from an anonymous personage ❤

This is an appreciation message to you, Glen, but also to the 7 Cups experience as a whole.

I've been here almost exactly one year now, on and off at various times as member and listener. I found your site going through Tumblr of all places, when I had just started coming down with depression and didn't really feel I had anyone to turn to.
7 Cups seemed perfect. 7 Cups seemed like the sanctified haven I desperately wanted without even realizing it, a place that promised compassionate listening and the freedom from judgment. I checked out the support rooms first because those seemed the most approachable, and I felt absolutely welcomed. It was so... genuine. Everyone helped out each other, everyone had a story to tell, people joked around and connected with each other, asked for and gave support, and I wanted to join in.
And after a few people had thanked me for helping them, I felt encouraged to become a listener.

It's hard to describe the experience, or what I'm even trying to say. But I think in essence, I met some of the most inspiring people I have known through this site. The majority were members I talked to as a listener, and I cried and laughed for them, for the stories they had to tell, for the brilliance and admirable cores of their personalities, for the small triumphs they were happy to share with me amid all the dark times they needed support. I don't think I could call them friends, exactly, because I wasn't sharing much on my end. But in the limited manner through which I knew them, they were dear to me.
And admittedly, I saw refractions of myself in them. When I was venting as a member, distractedly searching for some form of validation, some sort of understanding, *something*, I used my members' words and the perspective I had while I was listening to them, to clarify my own emotions and combat negative thoughts (or try to). One member frequently talked about their teacher and how supportive he was, and I think that in part led to me eventually opening up to my own teachers and counselor. I dared to call a suicide hotline when I had suicidal thoughts, because I'd done research on ones all over the country and outside for members, and if I wouldn't even use a resource, why would I recommend it to others?

Back and forth I went, using 7 Cups as a member in my bad moments, being a listener when I felt collected. The last year of my life is inseparably intertwined with this site. I showed 7 Cups chat logs to my family in an attempt to explain why I was struggling, when I was too freaked out to actually speak. I argued with my parents to defend the helpfulness of this place and my reasoning for being on here, when they felt it wasn't the healthiest.

And well, 7 Cups wasn't the absolute haven I'd hoped it would be. It's a very human site, and using the most cliche analogy, humans aren't perfect. I've had and have my fair share of complaints about 7 Cups, but in the end, they can't outweigh the sheer influence the mere *existence* of 7 Cups has had on my life and that of others. And I'm awed at how many changes have been made and how much it's been growing in the short span of a year. I can only hope it will grow ever closer to its founding vision.

It's a powerful idea, a "Rivendell" that stretches worldwide. You're amazingly ambitious to have sacrificed so much to create this startup.

Thank you for creating this site, Glen. Thank you for all of the time and resources and effort you have put into getting this movement going. Gratitude is small repayment, but I hope some day you will see your dream and the goal you had in mind attained and surpassed.

Take care, and the best of wishes to you.

- Anon

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GlenM December 30th, 2015

@221Skye Thank you Anon! What a lovely post. I identify with a lot of what you write here:

-helping others helps us
-seeking help on here when struggling is validating
-we are growing and learning

and...yes...we are human. We make mistakes. We make bad decisions. We can be messy. All of this is what makes us alive. Fortunately, being human, also means learning, growing, getting stronger.

Thank you again for your warmhearted note. I do also hope very much to see the vision fully realized. For now, I'm very thankful for all the loving people that have joined me thus far in helping to create a Rivendell. The last homely home :)

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221Skye December 30th, 2015

AAAANNNDD WE HAVE ANOTHER NINJA KICKING BUNCH OF ANON SHOUTOUTS, GET READY!

@anchoredwithhope Dear Twinny who is SUPER AWESOME! Thank you for your awesome sauce Christmas message of HOPE. I think it is so important that no matter what any listener/member is going through that we NEVER give up hope and keep moving forward step by step and never give up! Your message gives me hope, your support and care is fantastic:) You are an amazing person and I feel so honored to call you my TWINNY!:) (doodle for ya)

Love you loads,
@peacefulSoul8 aka Jess

@friendshipisforever You have been sweet and a straightforward person.You are stubborn and rebellious but that makes you cute. Have a great 2016! -anonymous

Have an awesome New Year :) - Anonymous

@help333 Hm, well, I just barely started talking to you~ And I know things are hard, but I really want you to be strong, okay? - Anonymous

@TheHulk Let there be light! !!Let there be Sun and enjoy your Sunday to Friday because this Friday is New Year!!Then eat a cake and say oooolalala !!!Dont drink too much of KF but eat a lot til infinite years 😊😊😊😊Happy New Year ☺☺☺☺ ~Powerful Girls ☺☺ - Anon

@sensiblegrapefruit Let there be sound,let there be watermelon,let there be pony tail,let there be showers of happiness ,love and prosperity in 2016. Let there be statistical distribution of grapes. "There is power in our praise when it becomes an instrument in the hands of the Spirit to drive back the works of darkness.". Now that was too spiritual :-D Happy New Year in short :) - Anon

@proactiveTiger3409 Merry New Year Bravo ~PG

@essdee Yo yo ess ! Ess you are a cute person Have a Prosperous, Happy and Safe New Year ~Powerful Girls

AANNND that's it for now, lovelies, but I'll be back with more real soon! :D

221Skye December 30th, 2015

SAY HELLO TO ANOTHER BURST OF LOVE

@FlawZ Hey there FlawZ,
Know what? You're an awesome person and go out of your way many times to keep the mood light in the Depression Room. I reckon you're one of the best people I've met here. Stay awesome and have a rad day! -Anon

@beautifuldreamer98 You're an amazing person and I'm so glad I had the chance to talk to you! Thank you SO much! And I like your name! Suits you really! Forever be this amazing! Girl from pacific Asia sends love your way! -Anon

@Charli Charlii! Where do i start? :D Your kind caring, amazing, supportive and just so amazing and super friendly and just a super robin too!!! Im glad to have you on here as a friend and fellow listener!!! Thanks for everything! :) Your super awesome! -Anon

@MelAllyouneedislove Mel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for everything! Your have been super amazing and super caring. Your messages bring me smiles to my face everyday. You make everything so much easier for everyone on here. Your an amazing Teen Star, Mod and Peer Support! I dont even know that there are enough words to describe how supportive and amazing you are! Thank you for everything your amazing you really are :) - @Casscass

@RebeccaEmily Rebecca!!! :D Wow words are not enough! Your amazing kind caring, supporting to everyone! You give everyone smiles and hugs, your an angel in disguise as far as im concerned ;) Stay amazing you! - @Casscass

@GlenM Thank you for making an amazing site for all of us, for accepting everyone of every language, race, religion, gender, sexuality and everything else! Your amazing, inspiring, thoughtful, kind, caring and have shown how just a small thought and act of kindness can transform not just one but many lives. You taught me and so many people so many new skills on here. Shown us success stories and even given us rewards such as badges to show how far we grow as members and listeners. I think i speak for everyone here and not just myself when i say you have changed millions of lives across the globe. Im proud to have found this site and to have been able to be apart of an amazing community too. Thank you so much for everything Glen! - @Casscass

And, with that, this round of shoutouts comes to an end! :D <3 Stay tuned for the next one!

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Mel December 30th, 2015

Thanks, Cassie!! You are so so so sweet! @Casscass

FlawZ January 1st, 2016

Ooh thank you soooo much for the lovely shout out! This just made my day! ^_^ I hope you have a great day and a great year ahead! ^_^

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221Skye December 30th, 2015

MORE MORE MORE LOOOOVE

@tebbybear4ever Thank you to you, tebby, for all you do here at 7 cups, and for your support and encouragement of so many persons here. :) -Anon

@smilinghooman Thank you for listening to me ramble and go on and on about this, that, and the other. Even though many people say thanks and not to get all creepy on you, but I really mean it when I say thanks. And if I ever get annoying, don't be afraid to tell me and if you need a break form me, let me know. I don't get offended that easily from people I respect. -Anon

@221Skye I love you and I miss your face and it's dark and lonely here. SKYEPIE <3 -CupkaykeMH

@amazingrea Thank you so much for being such an inspiring listener and just an amazing person! I was losing hope on finding a listener until I met you! You have made my worse days and nights into some of the best ones. You are such a caring person and I appreciate that a ton! I hope in 2016, you become even more of an amazing listener! (If that is even possible). Thank you so much for being you! The amazing, friendly, incredible, and silly you!!! -Anon

@justkeepsmiling26 Hmm, you're just an incredible listener that's for sure. You really impress me. You are always there for me and if you're not, you always apologize. You helped me through the toughest of times even when you were going through tough times too, you have definitely inspired me. You are always so sweet to me and super caring! I always looked forward to talking to you because I knew you would make things seem better! Happy New Year! -Anon

@NewRomantic677 You are just sa silly, amazing listener! You can make me smile and laugh at 1am when I should've been crying. You also the cool mod. You are extremely easy to talk to as well, I also felt comfortable and safe when talking to you. I hope you all the best in 2016, time to be even more cool, if that could even be done! -Anon

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tebbybear4ever December 30th, 2015

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW thanku for the shout out <3 ur very welcome iam over the moon <3<3 u know iam here when ever u need a chat my door is alaways open for u any time

@221Skye

NewRomantic677 January 3rd, 2016

@anonymous, dream on about being anonymous xD thank you for the lovely sweet amazing shout out that absolutely made my day

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amazingrea December 31st, 2015

Err, so apparently I have been living under a rock of TOO many notifications. Blaming @221Skye for taggerising me in too much stuff ~ reasonable, I know. But, to everyone who has shoutouted at me:

THANK YOU

*falls into a puddle of mush from all le love*

Over and out peepsicles.

pray4theheartless OP January 1st, 2016

Another round of lovely shout outs!

Everyone on 7 Cups - Hey guys, I know this is meant to be anonymous but i don't often do what I'm told. Its Joe and by the time you'll read this I'll have probably left the site! :'( I want to tell you a few things:
1- I love you all and will never stop thinking of how amazing you all are
2- have courage. Problems come and go! You're strong when you are weak.
3- things happen for a reason. You may not realise it at first but they do. You just need to keep an open mind
4- try to have fun. Laugh. Eat cookies. Watch funny videos. Play with toys (I like Lego!).
5 - the future is yours! I've left to focus on mine. But you can do great things in your life. Have a family. Write a book. Own a business. Etc....

Bye guys, I love you all very much. I'll try to keep you guys up to date with my life. See you in the future, Joe, Joey, Bob, spoey, jia, bae, bff, Joseph + whatever else you know me as xx

@221Skye - Skye! You're silly. Thank you.

@MelAllyouneedislove - You are such an amazing person. I was scared to pm you at first because you were a mod but you proved to be an amazing moderator and listener. You would always be so caring and considerate. You also do not and never will deserve any of the mod hate you have received! Even through all the hate you have received, you still manage to be the amazing you. That takes courage and strength which you got!! I hope you all the best!!

To group moderators ​- So, I think every moderator deserves a shoutout. Without you and your amazing powers the groups would be crazy and not very good. All the mod hate you guys get makes me sick. You guys are just some amazing, inspiring, silly, helpful, talented human beings who are trying to make a difference in this community! Mods deserve love not our hate. You all are very strong; going through all the stress you must deal with and the hate but for 2016, I hope we destroy mod hate and create mod love! You moderators are very, very, very helpful and definitely looking out for us. One day we will all see how truly amazing you all are!! Also, maybe we will stop using you as a threat to make someone follow the rules. Never loose sight in how amazing you are at your job even if us members disagree Mods are amazing!!!! Happy 2016 Moderators! - Hopeoverfear

@slightlyodd99 - You are awesome, Thank you @slightlyodd99 somewhere you gave me support and a bit of sense that hope lives! Thank you so much! <3 (x)

@Anomalia - You are an amazing person, so dedicated and involved in this community. I am happy to be your mentee and to learn from you. I am sure you are such a great person for this community and that we should all be thankful for your presence! I hope you never leave! - @cristiana33

@PetrificusTotalus123 - BODYBIND!!!!! you are the most awesome 7cupper in the whole entire universe!!!!!You make me feel complete and our shared love for Tom Felton and food on top of our unbreakable Harry Potter bond make us the raddest pair alive. Whenever I feel sad, you Slytherin and make me feel better.Thanks for being there for me. @wittyBranch3648

#Idon'tthinkyou'reaputo

"Well done draco"

@Random28 - Heyya! It's going to be 2016 now and wow it's been one tough year. Congratulationa though, YOU MADE IT! :D Just letting you know how much I appreciate you as a friend on this site and just being so amazing. I think you're a really strong person for being able to go through so much and yet still be there for others. Personally, I would like to thank you for always hearing me out and making me feel like I still have hope. Life is hard but it goes on. Wishing you a blessed 2016 and may you be all that you wish to be :) Lastly, keep smiling because you're just awesome and you need to show that to the world xD

Sending lots of love and internet hugs ♡ Thank you for being my friend on this site ^^ (
x)

@TheHumanBeingBeforeYou - You are such an amazing member. You were one of the first members I had connected with. I was unsure when connecting with you but you are literally amazing. You have been so supportive of me even when I should've been supportive for you. You are makes me smile, I don't know if I would've lasted last night with all the stress if it wasn't for you. I owe you so much support because you have given me more support than I could ever return. Thank you so much for being an amazing member! Happy New Years - Olivia (Livetolove)

@221Skye - Thank you so much for everything you've done for me Skye. You're the only one who makes me laugh when really all I want to do is cry, and you're the only one I can cry with when really all I want to do is hide. It means a whole lot to me, and you're completely incredible bae <3 Thank you so much, for making me feel like Batman (and occasionally calling me that xD).

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Anomalia January 1st, 2016

@cristiana33 - Thank you so much; that's so sweet! <3

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