I've had numerous partners
Probably well over a hundred. As soon as I emotionally feel a man has betrayed me, I begin the search for another.
I'm 35 & I too identify with having experienced fluxes between hypersexual & asexual behaviour. My poor partner met me during the former, & is now struggling, as am I, to overcome the latter, as our relationship is suffering due to the intimacy its lacking. 😕 This has cost me relationships in the past, so it worries me, but it's hard to address it.
I can completely relate to asexuality right now.
@blitheSun94 old post, but funny you mention asexuality. My partner and I recently came to terms with the fact that she is asexual (not demi or gray, just pure ace). I respect and love her regardless, and I love that we now know what has been happening, bc for years I have craved sex but thought her refusal was because of my behavior.
I do go through spurts of not even thinking about sex and not really wanting it, but it's just a sore spot at the moment that we need to work out as partners. How have you and your husband worked this out when you are in an asexual place in your life?
@cedarlakeMy
My husband and I are now separated. I wish I could answer this better. :/ I've recently come out as a lesbian. With a lengthy history with women, I can tell you we're all different and communication is everything. Kudos to you for being loving and respectful. 👍
@blitheSun94 I'm glad you came out!! Hopefully it's a relief to you, even though I'm sure the separation process has been painful. How are you doing personally?
@cedarlake
Thank You so much! It is difficult, but I am doing well and have a lot of support. My son is very understanding. He even picked up on the fact that my husband is not my wife without ever having the sexuality discussion with him. (He's only five). I feel free and true and it's worth every pinched penny and sleepless night. ♡
