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CatDaddy60 July 6th
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I struggle with a porn addiction and excessive self gratifying behavior. 7 Cups has been a blessing and I seek to bless others. 

If you see this post, no matter when, today, tomorrow, next year, please ask me to share where I am in my journey out of the darkness.

Hold me accountable. Thank you.

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toughTiger6481 July 7th
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@CatDaddy60

keep going ........ and update us .... not just for us... but writing it down make you see how far you have come. 

mytwistedsoul July 7th
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@CatDaddy60 You got this! Sending good vibes and rooting for you! 

CatDaddy60 OP July 7th
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Thanks tiger and twisted, today was mostly a good day. Compared to three days ago it was a great day. Tomorrow will be even better, I'm taking it one day at a time.

mytwistedsoul July 7th
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@CatDaddy60 I'm glad today was mostly good and I hope tomorrow is just amazing for you! 

CatDaddy60 OP July 9th
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Avoided two stumbles though clearly was trying my best to fall down. But I didn't.

mytwistedsoul July 9th
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@CatDaddy60 I'm glad you caught yourself! I hope today is a good day for you!

SparkyGizmo July 7th
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@CatDaddy60

Hi CatDaddy! 😊 ❤️

Thank you for your forum post! That must have taken a great deal of courage and I admire you! ❤️


While I don't struggle with what it is that you do, I find your bio as well as your forum post incredibly impressive! Ahhhhh, my friend, you are stronger than you think! Based on your forum post, your bio, you are taking a great first step in holding yourself accountable! 💡


Thank you for joining 7 cups and for being a part of the team! You have come to the right place. By showing vulnerability, you are showing your strength as well as being an amazing example for others that it's okay to share and to seek support. My sincere hope is that others may come by your forum post, root you on in your journey and or seek comfort by being here with you as well. 


Well done! 😊


*high fives* 😊 and *hugs* ❤️

CatDaddy60 OP July 7th
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@SparkyGizmo thank you sparky, it has been just what I needed to get my head back on straight and get moving in the right direction. Thanks for your encouragement I hope to do the same for others!

SparkyGizmo July 7th
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@CatDaddy60

❤️❤️❤️

KatArtemis July 7th
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hi CatDaddy60.


Where are you in your journey towards a brighter place?

CatDaddy60 OP July 8th
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Hi Kat, thanks for asking.

Today has been a day when I have not let things overtake me. I'm discovering New Perspectives on my issues. Helping me to recognize the difference between what is a problem and what is not, and how what is not a problem can be related to what is a problem. I felt like some weight was taken off me as I'm working through those thoughts.

bloomingtea111 July 8th
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@CatDaddy60

Hey. How was today's progress?

CatDaddy60 OP July 8th
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So far, so good. Started to drift onto a slippery slope, but recovered. Being active at work is a good thing.

Thanks for asking Bloom!

easyMoon4237 July 9th
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Hi there,


I struggle with the exact same thing. It’s a *** of a disease, addiction is.


Where are you in your journey?

CatDaddy60 OP July 9th
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@easyMoon4237 thank you for asking. Over the last few days I've managed to get myself to a place where I'm not overly consumed. I had two episodes yesterday where I started down the path of looking for some online material but then veered away from consummating the Act so to speak. That was a pretty big step because normally the power of my addiction is so great that I can't stop it. But I did. That has given me power back.

lovelyBlossom5344 July 11th
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@CatDaddy60 Hello, how did today go?

CatDaddy60 OP July 11th
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Hi, Lovely.  So far, today has been a day on the right path.  I have actually had a couple of days that I tried to veer off onto that other path but didn't feel like I had the energy!  Strange blessing to feel that way, but I am grateful for it.

Last night I responded to someone else on here with the same struggle and was able to give advice based on what I have done that help, i.e. help yourself avoid things by turning on safe search filter in your browser.  You can try to outsmart yourself by turning off the filter, but it is a deliberate effort and one more step that gets in your way to make you think about it.    

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@CatDaddy60 I completely understand you. I've struggled with the same thing since I was 8. I know... I was very, very young. I admire your reflection and accountability. You can do this! 💙

CatDaddy60 OP July 13th
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Thanks Lindor! All the best in your walk.

Lena09876 July 13th
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Where are you in your journey right now?

CatDaddy60 OP July 13th
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Hi Lena, thank you for asking. In a good day. Have not stepped off the path, and spent all day out with my wife. Peace.

mytwistedsoul July 16th
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@CatDaddy60 Sounds like a good day! 

Maslow July 16th
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@CatDaddy60How is it going?

CatDaddy60 OP July 17th
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Hey Maslow, I'm keeping in check. My thinking is starting to come back to a balanced place so I don't crave and get compulsive. Thanks for asking.

MrsHope19 July 22nd
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@CatDaddy60Hi! I want to check on you and let you know you can count on me if you need somebody to listen to you without judgment, as I relate a lot.

CatDaddy60 OP July 22nd
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Thank you MrsHope. I'm doing fairly well ... actually, quite well compared to several weeks ago. My mind is operating differently and the crave to impulse is not in control!


i appreciate your offer. Are you a Listener? Not sure I want to air everything here - though I have at times!

CatDaddy60 OP July 25th
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Hi Hope, yes, would appreciate a listener. I tried to send a message through your account, but not sure it made it.

CaptainGat July 23rd
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@CatDaddy60

How are you coming along the recovery?


CatDaddy60 OP July 23rd
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Hey Cap'n, thanks for asking. I'm staying on a pretty balanced path. One of the things that's helped is just having things to keep me busy. I haven't sunk deep into a quagmire where I've lost track of time and myself and things that should be doing, so I'm feeling better. Just have to keep checking along in the right direction.

QueerDragonsRule July 27th
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Hey CatDaddy60! I hope your day is going great <3. Have you kept your walk?

CatDaddy60 OP July 27th
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Hey, QDR, today has been good day. Thanks for asking. I didn't stumble off the path.

mytwistedsoul August 7th
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@CatDaddy60 How's that walk going? 

CatDaddy60 OP August 8th
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Hey Twist, thanks for asking. Not bad! Had an opportunity to fall down, but didn't.

CatDaddy60 OP August 8th
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Hey Twist, thanks for asking. Not bad! Had an opportunity to fall down, but didn't.

mytwistedsoul August 8th
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@CatDaddy60 That is great news! Woohoo! You got this! You're doing great!