Sun's Space 🌻

@exulansis00 *pokes Exuuu*

Sunnnn.....

*hugsss*

I just wanted to..... Wish you A merry Christmas and Happy new year my friend!

YOu amazing.

Bunny

"The way I see it, if something makes you sad when it ends, it must have been pretty wonderful when it was happening. Truth be told, I always felt it a bit lazy to just think of the world as sad, because so much of it is. Because everything ends. Everything dies. But if you step back, if you step back and look at the whole picture, if you're brave enough to allow yourself the gift of a really wide perspective, if you do that, you'll see that the end is not sad, Rebecca. It's just the start of the next incredibly beautiful thing." (This is Us) 💛

(Unsure if I've shared this before lol xD love the dialogue/ quote too much!) ✨

"No matter how much suffering you went through, you never wanted to let go of those memories.” ― Haruki Murakami

Oof this one hits hard hehe. It be like that sometimes. XD

(Now I'm going to ramble a bit lolll, in my "thinking deep" hour 😛)

Forever holding onto the familiar, known feelings. ♡

I feel, with familiarity comes comfort but also a certain "oh I'm still stuck here" vibe, some things are harder to let go of because of the familiarity it holds for us, despite the discomfort it causes, the 'not-so-nice' experiences even, it's difficult to let them go sometimes because that's all we've ever known, even those difficult 'negative' emotions, that take so much space in our mind, that we have no space left for positive emotions, experiences, people, so what do we do? We become repulsive and push these away. *-*

Which is a very valid thing, a simple example, something as kind, pure, sweet like an appreciation or even something like a "you did good" can feel rather uncomfortable, to those that have never been said that to, or worse who have heard and become used to hearing the opposite of this one all their life.

It is valid because you cannot expect someone who's just starting school to recite a poem to you, or even sing the Alphabet at that stage, alphabet is *bizarre* to them because they don't know, aren't aware of it, aren't "familiar" with it yet.

*Yet*, yes yet, just because they don't know it now, it doesn't mean they would never know or can never learn. They can, and will, at their own pace, with lots of encouragement, support and compassion in their learning journey.

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No wonder how many of us, are unable to let go of the past, no matter how difficult those events may have been, or how awful the feelings that came along with them were, it was what we "knew", what we know, and what we try to hold onto~ a sense of comfort with something we knew, even in an uncomfortable situation or person, or memory (sounds pretty twisted lol, but yeah, blame it on human brain xD)

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The good thing here? We can try unlearning some of this, in our own time.

Like that kiddo starts school, trying to learn the Alphabet, we can learn to unlearn some of our past, or atleast try to remove the "comfort" factor from it.

The harsh events, the painful memories, they shouldn't have to be stored in the name of comfort, they are anything but comfortable. And you deserve to free yourself from it, to try to live without the clinging memories that hold you back always from really living your life, from being who you really are, who you want to be, or even the ones that stop you from discovering yourself without them. There's more to you than what you've been told, and you should be allowed to explore, know, and fall in love with yourself, over whatever time you need for it, and ofcourse, always at *your* pace. ❤

To stepping out of the older "comfort zone"; To creating space for new and happier, healthier, better memories; To becoming more kind, more patient and more loving towards yourself and becoming familiar with the good things in life; To accepting the love and compassion you need and deserve; To healing; To growing; To becoming; To being; To living; To loving; To you! ❤

Hey hey lovely people, fluttering by to send some love your way! 🦋❤

I'm only a little away to add "can occassionally fold paper into beautiful little things" to my resume lolol! 😂

Oooh by the way, origami is so fun, join us in making cute butterflies Here (clickable). 🥰

Take careooo, lovelieees!🤗❤

*ding dong* there's a gift and a letter for you🤗❤️❤️❤️

To,

My sweetestheart 💖

The gift has infinite biiiiiggggg squeeshyy hugsss for you and has infinite virtual pizza 🍕 nomming coupon XD

Happy new year buddy and yayyy to our friendship- year #3.

I want you to know that my world would not have been this beautiful if I didn't meet my bestest buddy here. To be honest, I have always taken everything for granted in my life because nothing has been difficult for me to get. Everything was prepared and served in front of me. But it was only a friendship which never got so deep. This life will always thank you because you are the part of my life which is filled with the most beautiful colors and memories. I have never taken your company for granted. To understand the importance of anything in this life, I have learned from you and learned for you. I will always cherish and respect our friendship the most. Thank you dear, for filling my life with so many memories and colours. 🤗 I am lucky that this friendship of ours is for life. I hope that I always try to fill as many colors in your life as I have. My affection for you will remain like this forever.

Tanu❤️

"Oops! I seem to have come unplugged.. 😲 My team are working on plugging me back in as quickly as possible. Try again later!"

Noni is my unofficial twin lol!😃

🥳 balloons and party hats definitely make it better, no?🥰

Light hearted part aside, it's certainly important to acknowledge how we feel, no matter how uncomfortable or difficult or "incomprehensible" it seems.💛 ~ Y'alls reminder for the time you read this!🤗

*not so random hyperlink* 😛💛