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Cognitive Skills Activity: Future Mental Health Scenario Analysis
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 December 2nd
...See more Ready to develop critical thinking, complexity awareness, perspective skills, and long-term orientation? We have an interesting activity for you! Scenario: Imagine a future where the prevalence of mental health challenges continues to rise due to various societal factors, such as increased stress, social isolation, and economic uncertainty. Instructions: 1. Research the Scenario: Gather information from credible sources on the factors contributing to the projected increase in mental health challenges. Explore different viewpoints and expert opinions on this issue. 2. Identify Key Factors: Identify the key factors and driving forces that contribute to the complexity of the scenario. Consider both short-term and long-term factors, such as the impact of technology, healthcare policies, and social support systems. 3. Create A Scenario: Develop 1 more future scenario that envisions how mental health challenges might evolve over the next 5 years. The scenario should cover a range of possibilities, from optimistic to pessimistic. 4. Analyze and Evaluate: Apply critical thinking skills to analyze and evaluate each scenario. Assess the credibility of the evidence and assumptions underlying each scenario. 5. Complexity Mapping: Create a visual representation (e.g., a mind map or diagram) that illustrates the interconnectedness of factors and causes within each scenario. Highlight potential cause-and-effect relationships. 6. Perspective Consideration: During your analysis, actively seek and incorporate insights from diverse and contrasting viewpoints. Consider how different stakeholders, including individuals, healthcare providers, and policymakers, might perceive and respond to each scenario. 7. Long-Term Vision: For each scenario, explore the long-term implications and potential outcomes for mental health and society as a whole. Formulate a vision or commitment that aligns with the broader context and takes into account the extended future. 8. Compare and Reflect: Compare and contrast the different scenarios, considering their complexity, credibility, and long-term implications. Reflect on what you've learned about the future of mental health and your ability to think critically and anticipate future developments. Share your brainstorming, analysis, or reflections in the comments to this post!
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Evolution of Values: Embracing Change
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 November 21st
...See more Values are fundamental beliefs and principles that guide our attitudes, behaviors, and decision-making. They play a crucial role in shaping our identities and influencing the way we interact with the world. It's fascinating how these values can transform throughout our lives due to a variety of factors. Life experiences often serve as catalysts for changes in our values. These experiences can be both positive and negative. For instance, personal achievements, such as landing a dream job or achieving a long-term goal, can lead to a greater emphasis on values like ambition or perseverance. On the other hand, facing adversity, loss, or hardship can prompt a reevaluation of values, placing greater importance on qualities like resilience, empathy, or compassion. Cultural exposure and diversity also contribute to the evolution of our values. Interacting with people from different backgrounds and belief systems can broaden our perspectives and lead to a deeper appreciation for values like tolerance, inclusivity, and cultural sensitivity. Moreover, as we progress through various life stages, such as adolescence, adulthood, or parenthood, our priorities and values often shift to align with our evolving responsibilities and personal growth. Think of a value that you have now that you did not used to have, or one that has become more important to you. What life experiences led to this value changing? How does this change affect you now? Please share your thoughts and experiences on how your values have evolved. Reflecting on the evolution of our values can help us embrace change while cultivating the Being (Relationship to Self) Dimension of the Inner Developmental Goals.
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Embracing Self-Awareness in My Journey
by Mushroomandswiss
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the role of self-awareness in my life, and how crucial it has been in shaping my personal growth. Self-awareness, for me, means taking the time to truly understand my thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, especially in moments of challenge or change. I’ve realized that when I take a step back to assess my reactions, I gain insight into why I respond the way I do. This awareness helps me make better decisions and act in a way that aligns with my values. One of the most powerful moments of self-awareness I’ve had was realizing when I was being too hard on myself. I tend to push myself really hard, and sometimes, I don’t notice when I’m burning out. Recognizing this pattern and taking a pause has been a game-changer. Now, when I feel overwhelmed, I try to take a breath and acknowledge my feelings instead of ignoring them or pushing them away. I’ve also noticed how being aware of my emotions has improved my relationships. I’m better able to communicate my feelings, which makes interactions smoother and more genuine. How do you stay connected with your own self-awareness? Are there moments when you’ve noticed something about yourself that helped you grow?
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Reflection on my hopes, dreams, and desires
by allnaturalSky4753
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Reflection on my hopes, dreams, and desires for my life I reflected on my desires, areas for improvement, and opportunities for growth. Something I’ve always wanted to learn but haven’t is to further my education in school. I tried to be self aware, where I can do thoughtful introspection of my attitudes, and morals and values. I wanted to be in connection to my thoughts and desires, my needs and wants in life. I’ve identified my strengths and weaknesses better. I want to have actions where I know I am being true to my values in life. Finally, I’d like to notice over time some personal growth. I want to recognize areas where I want to improve, like health and fitness. I want to set meaningful goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely - SMART goals. I also want to use my organizational skills of creating charts and lists to keep progress of my goals. For my own well being I want to make sure that I have good health and wellness goals. I want to make sure that everyday I can reach a small goal of mine. I want to make sure that my goals are still important to me, and do regular check ins with myself weekly. I want to use my strengths to the best of my ability. How can we best affirm our strengths to create more meaning and life purpose into our lives? How can we try to improve our character weaknesses and turn them more into strengths?
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The perseverance: an unavoidable skill.
by patientShell1003
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more  Hi everybody, I think that we need perseverance in life. Perseverance is important because you will succeed in life with that. For example, perseverance can help you to do all the study that you want to do. If you study, you will be able to have a good future. Perseverance can also help you in other aspects of your life. It can help you if you have difficulty to find an apartment or it will help you to find the right job that you want to do in future. In my life, I need to be perseverant, in my studies but also in the rest of my life. For example, I already had personal issues. So, I tried to get help to feel better. I try to call helplines because when I have problems, it affects me all the time. No matter what I tried to do, I was not able to solve my problems and feel better. I cannot have the support of my parents because even if they tell me that they are not judging, they are always judging me when I am not feeling well. For example, at school, I want to succeed, and my mom wants that too. If I have 59% or less, my mom will judge me. For example, I got 41% in a math exam that worth 3% of the session. When I told my mom that I failed, she told me that I will never succeed at school. My mom already told me that she does not accept me when I am not feeling well. Nobody is perfect. But we are all able to do better the next time. Perseverance is an important skill in life because even if you are always judged in life and that the other people do not support you, you can always succeed even if you failed one time.   Now it is your turn to think:  1-Do you think that perseverance is important in life? Why or why not?  2- What are your future projects? How will you do them? Will you need perseverance to do them? Why or why not?   
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Trusting Your Inner Compass for Decision-Making
by Mushroomandswiss
Last post
 Monday
...See more I've been thinking a lot about how we can trust our own inner compass when making decisions. For a long time, I’ve looked to others for advice or tried to follow what’s expected of me. But recently, I’ve realized how important it is to listen to my own instincts and values. When I actually take a moment to pause and tune in to how I’m feeling, it often leads me to make choices that feel truer to who I am. There are still times when it’s hard to trust myself. External opinions can be loud, and it’s easy to second-guess what I truly want. But I’ve learned that when I make the effort to trust my gut, even if it feels uncertain, I often feel more aligned and at peace with my decisions. It’s not about having the perfect answer, but rather about honoring what feels right in my heart, even if it’s not what others would choose. In the end, embracing my inner compass has helped me make decisions that fit with my values and long-term goals, and I’ve become more confident in myself. It’s been a huge part of my growth, and I’m learning to trust myself more each day. How do you typically navigate tough decisions? Do you find it easy to trust your inner compass, or do you tend to rely on other factors more?
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Being in Relationship with Myself: Cultivating Presence
by Sel3ne
Last post
 Monday
...See more One of the most profound lessons I’ve learned in my journey is the importance of being in a relationship with myself—of truly showing up for me. For so long, I thought presence was about being fully engaged with others, but I’ve realised that the foundation of presence lies in how I connect with myself.  To me, presence means being in the here and now without judgment or distractions. It’s about stepping out of autopilot mode and choosing to notice what’s happening within and around me. Yet, being present isn’t always easy. My mind often pulls me into the past, replaying old stories, or it rushes ahead into the future, filled with plans or worries. In those moments, I gently remind myself to pause and ask: “What’s happening right now? What am I feeling, sensing, or experiencing in this moment?”. When I embrace presence, I notice life in sharper detail—the way sunlight filters through the window, the rhythm of my breath, or even the subtle weight of emotions I might otherwise ignore. It’s in these moments of open-ended presence that I find clarity and connection, not just with the world but with myself.  Being present with myself also requires letting go of judgment. When I notice self-criticism creeping in, I try to acknowledge it without letting it take over. Instead of judging my emotions or thoughts, I strive to hold them with curiosity and compassion, asking,  “What might this be trying to tell me?” It’s not always comfortable. Sometimes, being fully present means facing the parts of myself, I’d rather avoid—fear, doubt, or pain. But I’ve learned that these moments are where true growth happens. When I stay with myself, even through discomfort, I find a deeper sense of grounding and self-trust.   The gift of presence is that it helps me make the most of the opportunities of the now. Whether it’s savouring a quiet moment, noticing something beautiful, or simply allowing myself to rest, presence reminds me that life is happening here,  not in the past or the future.   1.  How often do you take time to be fully present with yourself? What helps you reconnect when you feel distracted or disconnected?   2.  What does being in a judgment-free relationship with yourself look like for you? How might this deepen your self-awareness?  I’d love to hear your reflections and learn from you, guys. How do you cultivate presence in your daily life? 🌿💚
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Values Clarification
by allnaturalSky4753
Last post
 Monday
...See more Values Clarification  Learning about the first dimension of the Inner Development goals was very interesting and informative. There was a lot of talk to find out where we are at in our lives and to assess ourselves how we are doing. I clicked on the link to the VIA institute to find out my top character strengths and abilities. I learned where I want my character traits to grow and change from doing the exercises. I felt more connection to myself and want to practice some exercises. I want to write down every night three things that went well for the day.  I am very hard on myself and sometimes criticize myself for slow progress on my goals. My top three values describe who I am and are very important to me. I always want to learn in order to grow. My strengths give me new perspectives on how I see myself and the world. I appreciate myself a lot more. I do better now with goal identification, prioritization, and follow through. I am more aware of my needs and values. I am trying to work on my personality and my own personal challenges. I think I have good emotional resilience but I can always work on that. I will work better on creating more helpful thoughts that affect my choices when I have a challenge. I recognize my life areas that need to be given more attention to. My three character traits and top values were honesty, love, and spirituality. I agree with these words to describe myself. What do other people think? What character traits did you agree with from doing the quiz? What values do you value in yourself and other people?
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Identifying and Remembering Self
by BeesOnFlowers
Last post
 Monday
...See more Self acceptance has always been such a difficult subject for me. I tend to get into relationships where I'm the fixer, whether it's romantic, platonic, or just peer. I want to help someone and I often don the white scrubs of a clinical therapist and sit with one knee hooked over the other (even if it hurts after an hour). That's all to say that I often meet problems with being stifled. It's easy to nod and accept others, but recognizing your own boundaries can be difficult. My values and beliefs take such a back seat, I don't even look at them half the time! But it's not healthy to forget yourself so often. To ignore your feelings for the sake of others.  It comes as second nature to so many of us, but sometimes we treat ourselves so dismissively. This is a behavior I had to recognize and actively dwell over. After a long day of listening to my family's struggles and woes, I sit down and journal. I made myself a rule to never journal about any one else's problems- to leave that for their own journals. Mine is for me. How do I feel? What are my goals? Did I have fun today? What did I succeed at? What are my plans tomorrow?     That's a form of mindfulness! It helps strengthen your relationship with yourself. It's not selfish to say 'I'.    That's a hard fact to learn.  When you put your feelings on the back burner, we run the risk of it boiling over out of eyesight.    Don't forget to tend to them too. 🌼 What ways have you found to help you stay mindful and accepting of your own feelings?
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Developing Gratitude
by blissart
Last post
 Monday
...See more Gratitude simply means showing appreciation and thankfulness for the things in life that are meaningful and valuable to us. Just taking a moment to notice and acknowledge the things we are grateful for can improve our outlook, boost our mood, and help us feel more positive in the face of challenges. Gratitude is that one quality which I try to remain consciously aware of in my daily life. Sounding simple, I remember when I first laid my hands on a book called “Magic” and tried to attempt the simple exercises to note things I felt grateful for, it seemed like a big task. May be our minds are conditioned to focus more on negative and “want” list than appreciate what we already have been bestowed with. Over the time, I learnt that like any other muscle, gratitude can too be developed by practice and exercise. Started with things like health and relationship to slowly appreciating the items I overlooked always like a simple cup of coffee made me feel grateful for the efforts of all the people from plantation to processing to packaging to delivery, the list can be endless and once we train our mind find gratitude the game gets amazing. How does feeling grateful make you feel? Can you list any routine thing, often overlooked earlier and for whom you can feel grateful for?
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Trust
by zealousRose5745
Last post
 Monday
...See more When we allow ourselves to trust, it makes sense that we are allowing ourselves to be at least a little vulnerable on some level.  We "give" trust and sometimes, for me,  this has meant committing to a certain expectation.  But something shifted about my definition of trust expanded after studying the section of the course focused on Collaborating/Social Skills.  I'd not previously recognize how trust actually empowers us to build more in community with others.  Not trusting can lead us to refuse bigger opportunities to participate in positive change. How have you grown stronger by leaning on another person (or people)?
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The things you tell yourself
by zealousRose5745
Last post
 Monday
...See more I've been thinking about how we practice self-acceptance and compassion in order to allow ourselves to remain fully present and engaged.  Lately, I've observed that I could use a little tuneup when it comes to practicing compassion toward myself. I've even scheduled times at the beginning and end of each day for some affirmations.  I know in the past, some affirmations don't quite feel authentic for me.  I've learned that when I craft or edit affirmations to speak with extra context, they feel more true for me. For example, when I am feeling ineffective at my job and lacking confidence, instead of simply, "I am worthy of being confident," I might tell myself, "I have the training, compassion, and experience to make a positive difference in the lives of others."   What affirmations have you written for yourself that have been powerful in allowing you to feel safe in your vulnerability.  
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More on compassion and compassion fatigue
by zealousRose5745
Last post
 Monday
...See more Hi again, Just today, a member opened our conversation by asking if being a listener felt "draining." I told the member that I understood exactly what they meant and that the question is a valid one.  However, I said, one of the reasons that I am serving as a listener is because I actually don't find it draining.  I find it to be fulfilling. But my exchange, this topic, is a relatable one. I wrote an earlier post, reflecting on how we might protect and nurture the compassion in ourselves.  In the 7cups community, compassion serves as a driving force in supporting those who are in need of a safe space.  If we don't preserve and care for our compassion, the risk of compassion fatigue is a real one. Compassion fatigue is a set of feelings and behaviors that occur when we serve in a capacity where we either experience repeated exposure to secondhand trauma or we feel overwhelmed. or burnt out by the combination of our heavy workload and the feeling that we're not provided the resources to be effective. (Barrera-Algaren, et al., 2024).   We are potentially at risk of these within our community.  Though most of us are serving as volunteers, we do often hear and support others in this community through processing traumatic experiences.  More importantly, this role, like that of a social worker or other caring professions, relies on us having compassion in order to be effective.  (Barrera-Algaren, et al., 2024) Serving here at 7cups as a listener is connected to an internship I am completing as a graduate social work student.  Though I do have a number of required listening hours, my service is also not mandatory.  So I asked myself whether I might relate more to feeling "drained" if my role here were more formal?I do recognize that this is role that requires compassion, I've never felt asked to give beyond what I'm able to offer. I have not really taken advantage of the extensive support offered through the mentors and communities within the platform, but I'm aware that there are other resources if I need them. One of the most powerful characteristics of serving here is the understanding of just how many other fellow listeners like us are available to provide additional encouragement and different perspectives.  In the few months that I've been connected with 7cups, I've had other listeners post and reach out in appreciation of myself, or the greater community. But what have I missed?  How do you find that the relationships within this community might actually build our capacity for compassion rather than "draining" it (as my chat this morning questioned)? References Barrera-Algarín, E., Castro-Ibáñez, R., Vallejo-Andrada, A., & Martínez-Fernández, R. (2024). Compassion Fatigue Syndrome in Social Workers and Its relationship with Emotional Intelligence. Social Work, 69(1), 24-36. https://doi.org/10.1093/sw/swad038 [https://doi.org/10.1093/sw/swad038]
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Choosing animals over humans
by searchingSoul01
Last post
 Monday
...See more I read something last year, or maybe earlier, that said: 'We never push away pets or animals but only humans when we are very low. The reason is that we feel they won’t judge us or maybe because they feel like a safe place.' To some extent, I feel this reflects the reality of our time.   I don’t personally feel this way, but I understand it. The world may not always seem like a good place—it’s a place where many people appear "bad." Still, I truly believe that nobody is inherently bad. Often, it’s just that people are selfish, or maybe overly selfish, as they try to protect themselves, their interests, or those they care about.   But then, there are people who genuinely care—people who offer their help with good intentions. Isn’t it a bit strange that, in our vulnerability, we often choose animals over humans? I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that—animals are incredible companions, and I feel that too. But from the perspective of someone who genuinely wants to help, it might sting. They may wonder:Is that animal better than me? This isn’t about saying one choice is right or wrong; it’s just something I’ve been reflecting on.
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