U-n-I-verse💛
"Someday we'll look back on this time and wonder how we got through it. I have no idea how we'll do it, we just had to so we did."
Continuing to push through when you don't want to, is a choice, *you* make, that's how you'll get through it.
Through believing in yourself when you feel you don't have a reason to, by keeping the glimmer of hope alive in your heart when you've lost what it means to be hopeful and by crawling forward when you were stuck to even consider a direction!
Spoiler alert: but *you* are the fuel that'll drive you through!
And so, make it through, not because others tell you to but because you've got to tell yourself someday that you did, that you didn't give up on yourself when no one else held your hand.
Make it through, for you, because you're the best freaking thing ever happened to you, and the world, there was room for you here that's why you're here, there is need for you here and that's why you're here, you are worthy of existence, of admiration, of kindness, of love and that's also why you're here~ amongst the bright galaxies, the magical mountains and the serene rivers~ because though, the world looked spectacular as is with all the natural wonders, it still wasn't complete without *you*, the most special wonder, who makes it whole with their mere presence.
Your purpose in life isn't just to question meaning for your life, because it was always there. We don't question the Sun about why it chooses to rise from the East, we accept it as a universal fact!
You know what else is a universal fact? That you were always meant to be here, that you are a worthy presence as you are, that you have everything in you that you'll ever need to be here. That you are accepted, you are valid, you're loved as you are with a significant space in the universe only reserved for you and no one gets to question it otherwise, because this *(yo)UnIverse* is certainly inclusive of (you) and I, without you, it'll never be whole, nor the same.💛
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou awwwww yes agreed I am a very important part of this world😁😁😁😂😂😂😂 thanks for your kind message ❤ I will not give up not ever ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
awwwee nu but yu actually aree❤️❤️you’re one in 9billion and there aren’t even 9billion hoomans in the world :P❤️that’s how special yu are XD❤️❤️❤️and yu are infact vvvvvvvvv important to us and this world❤️without you a lot of our lives wouldn’t be complete- you’re sumone to everyone❤️yu mean a lot to- all of us❤️❤️
I love seeing that you’ve said that sm🥺💖it means soo much to mee💗you’re the strongest persun I know and known ever and I think if you can keep going it proves we all can too🩷💓
@iloveyouxx you know how to make me cry don't you😂😂 happy tears though ❤❤❤ I love you so much ❤❤❤ thankyou ❤ you da best
@Tinywhisper11
😭😂😂is the laughing emoji meant to represent happy tears😂😂😛? you’re so cute and funny omg😭😭😂😂😂😛❤️/lh❤️
trust me hehe I know I love you more❤️❤️❤️
I was only being genuine❤️:P yu mean so much to me❤️:3
that gif again😭❤️❤️
I don’t mind being with teenie forever hehe but that gif just looks so- onto sumthing xD😭
id just hav to drown yu in my luv again >:3❤️❤️❤️❤️I wouldn’t ever let you struggle as long as I’m around❤️hehehehe🐾❤️
@iloveyouxx awwwwww I love you mostestest and yes it is a weird gif, but I'm keeping you ❤ even if I have to kidnap you 😁❤ and those kitties awwww😍 I'm big kitty you the tiny kitty ❤ we are adorable ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
I love you mostestestestestest❤️
T^T❤️
we really are❤️❤️so so adorable :3🥺❤️❤️🐾
<333333333333333 I think it’s obvious why I love cats so much🥺💕🐾
@iloveyouxx awwwwwwwwwwwwww ❤❤❤ me too ❤
@Tinywhisper11 yes, yes you are 🤍
@unassumingEyes awwwww big giant tiny hugs for you ❤❤I love you
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
*hugs Sun if okay* this is so sweet ❤️ thank you. you’re the best *you* Sun. 💕
@LoveMyMoonflowers
Aww appreciate your kind comments always, Nii, thank youu for being the best *you* too. Hugs are always more than okay, of course. *hugs backkk* 🤗💗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Such an amazing post Sun ❤️ filled with wonderful reminders at a time when many of us need it the most ❤️
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou aww this is so sweet. you've come up with a really cute and funny way to put it, sun. thank you. i felt better reading this right now. and i really liked the first line of your post. i will save this post for me to read again on one of those super hard days. 💙💙
@exuberantBlackberry9105
Awww you're so welcome, Berry, I'm really glad it made you feel better today and yes of course, read it and remember as often.💙
Creating a care-kit for those super hard days is awesome hehe, starting with some wholesome reminders yay!
What more can we add to ✨Berry's Special Care Kit✨ for those days we need a little extra fuel to carry forward?😮
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou i sure will hehe, thanks for this post. aww that image is so cute, i love it.🍓🍓
@exuberantBlackberry9105
Yay, I'm happy you liked it hehe and happy self-caring!💛
No I am empty i am always hatred
@honestTurtle581
Feeling empty is something I can relate with, on many days, it's a difficult one to deal with.
The mix of feeling empty and hated is really emotionally exhaustive and challenging to cope with. :/
What makes you feel empty and hated, if you'd like to share more?💛 (if forums don't feel as comfortable to share, you can always try connecting with available/ active listeners for 1-1 chats)
I am used to this i don't feel anything now
I took all types of mental torcher almost
Sexually abused done
Family hating done
Loss of frds done
Manipulated done
Toxic relationship done Ignored by other done
Relations siblings hate done
Oh addicted done
I am addicted to trying to move on
This is to much
Bullied daily that is also done
Striped nak*ed done
Publicallly scolded by father done
Se*xual abused by frds to me
At childhood itslef
I know what is left to get hurt mentally?
this has became a joke to me now
Ah family torchers for not to attend to sisters marriage done.
Anything else
Ah yes family torchers for to get more marks done
I tried to k*ll myself for this with a knife
At childhood
There are more.
My sisters irritates me giving torcher
They hate me they don't talk they don't evn let me talk to others.
What is left to take.?
@honestTurtle581
It breaks my heart to hear how awfully people around have treated you. :/ You did not deserve their abuse and torture. It's a pity how some people don't care about hurting others and inflicting pain upon them. :/ Truly beyond me, the mindset some of these carry, that let's them sleep peacefully at night after making someone else's life so much harder! (':
Super valid to feel exhausted after enduring such pains in life, constantly needing to battle for feeling safe.
I understand not feeling too hopeful about some of the good ones out there, about accepting kindness for yourself or even about things getting better when you've been repeatedly shown otherwise, it is absolutely okay to not believe things till you experience them for yourself, or when someone tells you that you're loved till you have more "evidence" for believing them, but also want to mention here that I think it's quite brave of you to create your account on 7 cups, signing up here to seek support and connect with people, to provide yourself the chance of being heard and cared for.
You do deserve that, all of the good, safe, better things in life and I so hope, our community is able to share compassion and kindness with you.
Yes, it isn't the same as finding a safe space in your near-surroundings, with people who were "supposed" to not-treat you so unkindly, nor does it ever truly feel magically okay after being through so much (': but here's some hoping, it's a little something to encourage you in keep going, despite how difficult it feels.
Sending lots of strength your way. 💛
Yeah thanks about this
I am seeing about those i want to get rid of addiction first thats all matters largely now
@honestTurtle581
No worries. :)
It's commendable you've been able to decide on where to invest your attention and care currently, that should require your focus the most, and wishing you all the best for it.
Overcoming addiction isn't the breeziest journey, but it's so worth it, freeing yourself from its shackles, as well as providing to yourself, the care you need and the compassion you deserve.
We have an addiction support community here, if you'd like to check out?
Having supportive peers to connect with, share our struggles, experiences and thoughts with might be helpful in feeling less-alone in this journey. Even better when we find someone who relates and can empathize with us more. Thoughts? :)
Here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thank you for this. I needed to be reminded that I am loved and that I matter cause honestly sometimes it doesn't feel that way. Seeing this post brought a smile to my face.
Hey hey @livedexperiences, so good to see you and glad you stumbled across this post and that it made you smile.💛
I see you practice counseling off-cups, and have been on-cups as a listener for a good time now, devoting so much of your time and energy in making people feel seen and heard, providing them the safe and non-judgmental space to feel as comfortable in talking and getting things off their mind.
Not so much limited to what you "do" for others, but more for your values, experiences, beliefs, character and the grit you carry. You offer a lot to the world and your presence does make a massive difference, even on days you don't feel it does.🤗
It's really understandable to have days where you don't feel as loved or that you matter enough, and I think especially on those days, it's needed to take an extra-conscious effort in showing us some compassion, reminding ourselves that it's okay to feel how we do, but that'll never take away the good we do, the great we are and the best we deserve.💛
