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Slowing Down With A Purpose ๐Ÿขโœจ

HachiBee December 9th, 2023

Heyo to our wonderful community ๐ŸŒŸ This is HachiBee bringing you another gentle reminder:ย Embrace the Art of Slowing Downย โœจ


โฉ Everything is so fast-paced these days and doesn't give us time to process anything. How could we when another thing is already happening before we could even process the first one ๐Ÿš€


๐Ÿƒ It's easy to get swept away in this whirlwind but here's the thing: slowing down is not just okay;ย it'sย essentialย โœจ


๐ŸŽ So here's a gentle reminder toย pause,ย breathย andย savor the presentย ๐Ÿ˜Œ


Why Slow Down?

Slowing Down allows us to reconnect with ourselves, appreciate the little moments, and cultivate a sense of calm in our daily lives.


Ways You Can Slow Down๏ปฟ

๐ŸŒปNature Breaksย what's more relaxing than seeing the life of nature around us, right? Getting up and strolling feeling the gentle breeze blowing and hear the rustling leaves.

๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ Scheduled check-insย Set specific times to check your messages or news updates. This prevents the overwhelming flood of information and allows you to maintain control.

๐ŸŒฌ๏ธ Breath in, Focus outย Take a deep breath and focus away from the overwhelming noise. Feel the air fill your lungs, bringing you back to the now.

๐Ÿต Savor the Sips May it be tea or coffee, take your time to savor each sips.


๐Ÿ’œย Remember

Slowing down is not a sign of weakness but a beautiful act of self-care. It's okay to take things at your own pace.


What are some small, everyday moments that you savor to slow down and appreciate life?

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

What an adorable picture and thoughtful reminder, Hachi, thank you for sharing. You're turtly amazing! ๐Ÿ’œ

Mindful pauses and taking breaks is super important. Sometimes I feel even just laying in bed and staring at the ceiling counts lol. That's my way of pausing without doing anything! xDย 

How about youu?๐Ÿ’œ

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LoveMyMoonflowers December 9th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Ah yes, the laying-in-bed-and-staring-at-the-ceiling. ๐Ÿ’™ a favourite classic. i love that one lol ๐ŸŒˆ

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 9th, 2023

@LoveMyMoonflowers I know rightttt?!๐Ÿค—

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HachiBee OP December 9th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Sunnn, thank you for your kind words! Glad you like the reminder ๐Ÿ˜ Right! It's definitely important to just take a pause and have time for ourselves ๐Ÿ’œ

Oh ceiling-gazing absolutely counts! ๐ŸŒŸ That's one of my pause time haha I would read a scene from my book, and then imagine it on the ceiling. It's like having my own 3D theater then ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿฟย 

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LoveMyMoonflowers December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

its definitely like a 3D theatre ๐Ÿ˜‚

Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

Aww yes indeed and woah I love that 3D theater idea lol, so much fun and vv relatable too!๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ’œ

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LoveMyMoonflowers December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

awwe hey hachi, thank you so much for this beautiful post (: i love how you included that sweet reminder that slowing down isnโ€™t a sign of weakness, but rather a way to practice self-care ๐Ÿ’™ i think many of us would need to be reminded of that (': including me lol, so thank you ๐ŸŒˆ

i used to visit a nearby park quite regularly ๐ŸŒณ itโ€™s so beautiful there, especially at nighttime. i always enjoyed the quiet, peaceful surroundings ๐Ÿฅฐ it gave me some more space to just think and reflect and *be.* to just slow down and savour the moment ๐Ÿ’œ

I havenโ€™t been there in a long while (': but i really hope iโ€™ll be able to go soonsies, hehe. ๐Ÿ’™ how about youu, hachi? ๐Ÿพย 

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HachiBee OP December 9th, 2023

@LoveMyMoonflowers

Aww hiii Moon ๐Ÿ˜„ Thank you for your kind wordss! ๐Ÿ’œ Glad you like the reminder, definitely a message we can all use from time to time. And yass, taking care of ourselves is definitely not a weakness ๐Ÿ’œโœจ

Ooohh that sounds like a lovely park and you got wonderful experiences there! ๐ŸŒณ Parks definitely have a magical property of offering peace and a space for refection โœจ I could only imagine how beautiful the stars must be at night. I hope you're able to revisit there soon ๐Ÿ’œ

As for me, my favorite way to slow down is reading bookss and writing occasionally ๐Ÿ“– Just imagining a different world and living it is a good way for me to just let go of worries and enjoy the moment ๐Ÿ’œ It's like watching in my own 3D theater at home ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿฟย 

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LoveMyMoonflowers December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

awwe thank you. i hope iโ€™ll be able to revisit the park as well :3ย 

reading books and writing every now and then sound awesome!๐Ÿฅฐ those are definitely lovely ways to slow down ๐ŸŒˆ

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communicativePond1728 December 9th, 2023

@HachiBee

But society and sociopaths demand we become robots and machines like them and forget about our natural rhythms and truths in exchange for technological and economic advancement.

Why slow down when it's dangerous toย reconnect with ourselves, appreciate the little moments, and cultivate a sense of calm in our daily lives?

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HachiBee OP December 10th, 2023

@communicativePond1728

Heyy, Pond. I appreciate your thought-provoking perspective ๐Ÿ’ญ And I totally get what you're saying, in that rush and constant demand for technological and economic advancement steers us away from our natural rhythm and truth ๐Ÿค–

You asked a real question, it's like the world is is shoutingย "Speed up or get up or get left behind!"ย right? ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’จ

The way I see it, slowing down isn't just about stopping everything,ย it's about finding a middle ground and a balanceย ๐Ÿ”ต

Sure, it might seem risky to slow down in a world that's go, go, go. But in reality, appreciating the little moments, and cultivating calm are essential for our well-being ๐Ÿƒ

It's not about ditching progress but making sure we don't lose ourselves in the race.

Society might make it seem dangerous to slow down, but what's the real danger? Maybe it's in never giving ourselves to justย be and to enjoy the moment ๐ŸŒˆ

So slowing down, it's like reclaiming our own rhythm and sayingย "Hey, I'm a person, not a machine!"ย And finding balance that honors both personal fulfillment and societal demands ๐Ÿ’œโœจ

Your insights really highlights the importance of intentional and mindful living ๐Ÿ˜„

How do you manage to strike this balance in your own life? ๐ŸŒŸ

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communicativePond1728 December 10th, 2023

@HachiBeeย 

I wrote a post recently about some ways I do that. Maybe I'll find it and link it

communicativePond1728 December 10th, 2023

@HachiBee Thank you for valuing my voice.

Here is a link to some ways and things I've found that have helped me integrate.

https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/General_2447/OnceUponaTimeinaLandFarFarAwayITookSomethingPersonally_319129/

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HachiBee OP December 10th, 2023

@communicativePond1728

You're welcome, every voice is valuable ๐Ÿ˜โœจ That's really an amazing post, thank you for sharing it. And I'm so glad these all worked for you! You seem like a really an insightful person ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’œ

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communicativePond1728 February 11th

@HachiBee thanks so much hachibee, you too.

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Warpedme December 10th, 2023

I just want to say thank you for this reminder for all of us. Thank you. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿค—

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HachiBee OP December 11th, 2023

@Warpedme

๐Ÿค— โœจ You're very welcome! I'm glad you like my reminders. I hope you're making time for yourself too. Wishing you a wonderful journey ahead ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ’œ

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Warpedme December 11th, 2023

I meditate and workout everyday. I try to always practice gratitude and compassion like you beautiful souls at 7 Cups. Hope, some friendly reminders, and Christmas magic ๐Ÿ’ซ makes me have no doubt my journey will be wonderful. I hope we all have the journey we're destined to have as we progress on the path that is life together. Hugs and beautiful journeys. "Don't Stop Believin'." ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒŒ๐Ÿ’œ

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HachiBee OP December 11th, 2023

@Warpedme

๐Ÿค— Yay! That all sounds awesome! It must feel good to meditate and workout, it's relaxing and good for the body! ๐Ÿ’ชโœจ There's definitely something about practicing gratitude and compassion that makes us feel good ๐Ÿ’œ I'm there with you on not stopping on believing, it's definitely ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’ซ

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KatePersephone December 11th, 2023

@HachiBee
What are some small, everyday moments that you savor to slow down and appreciate life?

watching sunsets!!

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HachiBee OP December 11th, 2023

@KateDoskocilova

๐ŸŒˆ Oohh! I love me some sunsets too. Watching them is definitely relaxing! ๐ŸŒ… We used to live in a nearby seaside, and I really miss watching sunset (+sunrise). I hope you get to watch sunsets all the time! ๐Ÿ’œโœจ

LoveMyMoonflowers December 11th, 2023

@KateDoskocilova

sunsets are always so lovely to watch ๐Ÿ’›

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PetiteSouris December 11th, 2023

@HachiBee

What are some small, everyday moments that you savor to slow down and appreciate life?

I like hiking and taking pictures and videos of my hikes. It helps me to appreciateย things in life that we often overlook, such as the leaves rustling in the wind, water trickling down a creak, the sounds of birds while searching for food in the early morning hours.ย 

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HachiBee OP December 11th, 2023

@PetiteSouris

๐ŸŒณThat's sooo truee, the nature is often overlooked with so much happening in our lives. I'm glad you enjoy hiking and keeping memories ๐Ÿ“ธ It's great that you're taking time to appreciate them and it's making you feel good and relaxed doing so ๐ŸŒˆ Nature definitely have that good-for-the-mind-and-heart magic ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ’œ

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Tinywhisper11 December 11th, 2023

@HachiBee "life is short, if you don't slow down and look around once in a while, you might just miss it"-Ferris beullers day off

bee I can't possibly slow down anymoreโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟ

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Tinywhisper11 December 11th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ 14 days to go ๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ…

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HachiBee OP December 11th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

โ›„โœจ Yass! 14... We're almost theree ๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ„

๐Ÿ˜‚ Haha, zooming through life works too! ๐ŸŒˆ There's something to appreciate through speeding with style (I'm imagining flowy hair in the wind haha) ๐Ÿ˜Žโœจ Love the quote, in those slow moments is where the special things are ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒŸย 

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Tinywhisper11 December 12th, 2023

@HachiBee I do zoom around in my automobile๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ I set my wheelchair on fire ๐Ÿ”ฅnow I drive around in hot wheels ๐Ÿ˜Žโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟzooommmm!โ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟโ™ฟ

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diplomaticPond3423 December 11th, 2023

What do you do when you are not used to slowing down and feel guilty or lazy dor doing so ?

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HachiBee OP December 12th, 2023

@diplomaticPond3423

๐Ÿ˜„ Hii there, thank you for that question ๐Ÿ’ญ I get transitioning from a fast-paced lifestyle to taking a slower approach can be challenging, it sure is a lot to get used to ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’จ

It's also understandable the guilt that often comes with it and something a lot of us can relate to, that feeling of "This is so lazy, I have to do something" can be pretty powerful, pushing us to take action just to avoid the sense of our time being wasted ๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ

It's okay to acknowledge that these feelings is part of the adjustment. Learning to appreciate the rest and downtime is a journey, and it's completely normal to have these thoughts ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’ซ

It's helpful to remind ourselves that slowing down and taking breaks is not laziness; it's essential for our well-being. It allows us to recharge, avoid burnout and maintain balance in our lives. Recognize that slowing down is a part of a healthy lifestyle, and it doesn't make us lazy or unproductive ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŸ

And most importantly, be kind to yourself. Practicing self-compassion allows us to take it easy on ourselves. Understand that it's okay to prioritize self-care, and it doesn't diminish our worth or productivity ๐Ÿ˜Œ

Remember, the process of slowing down is a personal journey, and it's okay to take it one step at a time. Allow yourself the grace to embrace moments without feeling guilt ๐Ÿ’œโœจ

How do you currently manage stress or overwhelming feelings of day-to-day life? ๐ŸŒŸ

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bouncyMusic133 December 12th, 2023

@HachiBee

Thank you so much for this post. Such a good reminder for me to SLoooooowwww down.ย 

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HachiBee OP December 13th, 2023

@bouncyMusic133

You're very welcome, Music. Glad you like the reminder ๐Ÿ˜Š It is important that we slow down and take time for ourselves once in a while for our overall well-being ๐Ÿ’œโœจ

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yellowPineapple239 December 13th, 2023

@HachiBeeIn a gentle reminder to slow down, HachiBee encourages embracing moments of calm amidst life's rush, emphasizing the importance of self-care and appreciating the little joys. The community echoes these sentiments, sharing personal experiencesโ€”from gazing at the ceiling to enjoying natureโ€”to find solace and presence in daily life. Despite societal pressures, the discussion reflects the necessity of balance, mindfulness, and self-compassion in navigating the hustle while nurturing our well-being.

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HachiBee OP December 13th, 2023

@yellowPineapple239

๐Ÿ’ซ Heyy there, thanks for your insights ๐Ÿ˜Š It is nice to have a meaningful discussions that promotes the importance of self-care and throw in ideas of ways we can relax and enjoy the moment of downtimes even in the hastiness of our lives ๐ŸŒˆโœจ

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