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Peer Appreciation Program

October 27th, 2021

We present to you Peer Appreciation Program where you can observe and appreciate good qualities in a 7cups peer. The peer could be any fellow cupser- a fellow member, a fellow listener, anyone on cups basically or yourself, yes, you can appreciate yourself as well. Read more about it Here (clickable). โค


If you take time to observe and talk about a good quality in another, then that quality starts becoming a part of your personality.


Is that not amazing?!!


Use this form to Appreciate a fellow cupser or yourself:


Peer Appreciation Form (clickable)


The appreciation submitted through the above form will be posted in this thread!


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Want to join our team? Click here to apply.

Need tips for writing an appreciation message? Check out this wonderful post by @Hope

Got questions about the program? Read the FAQ here.

Have feedback for us? Write to us in this thread. We are all ears.

Appreciated someone or yourself, And/ Or you're a smile spreader who posted an appreciation? Please share your experience by clicking here. We'd like to encourage you more.

(Sunisshiningandsoareyou last updated this thread with additional information on 03/28/2023)


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TwoCreamTwoSugar December 12th, 2022

๐Ÿป @Kyoshi ๐ŸŒ™

Hi there, friend! You have received an appreciation from someone. I think you'll like it! That someone is...

๐ŸŒธ @cristlecares ! โ˜€๏ธ


How about we see what they have to say?



Kyoooooo๐Ÿ’œ you're amazinggggg๐ŸŒป I am soooo soooo glad to have met you on 7 cups and sooo glad to be one of your mentees๐Ÿ˜„ I always feel sooo at ease talking to you, sharing things with you and asking you questions (loads of questions hehe) I look upto you alot, the way you handle things in rooms, the way you answer questions, the way you treat others... You're just great at everything you do and I feel like I've got to learn sooo much from you๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ˜„ Thank you soooo much for all your constant support and kindness kyo๐ŸŒป Thank you for all your encouragement and care๐Ÿ’™ I wish you all the happiness in the world.... Sending lots and lots of hopes and wishes your way dearest kyo๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒป *hugs* ๐Ÿซ‚ and Cookiesssss๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช (PS : Thanks for all the beautiful songs and for introducing me to 'Victorious' xD) ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ



That's a really beautiful appreciation! It's clear how must cristleCARES about you!

But that's not all they sent. Before we get to the qualities that they think you exemplify most, let's see what they enclosed as a bit of a surprise for you!


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Wow! Those are BEAUTIFUL!

To go along with these beautiful roses, let's take a look at some of the qualities that cristlecares has mentioned that really shine through you, Kyoshi:

  • Supportive - They are kind and helpful ๐Ÿ‘ฅ
  • Respectful - They try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood ๐Ÿ‘‹
  • Patient - They take the time to calm down before they act ๐Ÿ™
  • Decisive - Despite uncertainty, they make decisions and move forward confidently โœ…
  • Great Communicator - They speak with everyoneโ€™s best interest in mind, are genuine, and are open to conversation ๐Ÿ’ฌ

* TwoCreamTwoSugar happily delivers this peer appreciation and wishes well Kyoshi and cristlecares. I sincerely thank the latter for this submission!*

A note for Kyoshi: thank you so much for being a shining example of what a mentor should be. It's clear that you have a profound and positive impact on those you mentor and the appreciation for this can be no clearer than what cristlecares has shared. You deserve every bit of this welcome appreciation and I hope it brightens your day!

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Kyoshi December 12th, 2022

@cristlecares this is too sweet ๐Ÿ˜ญโค๏ธ

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TwoCreamTwoSugar December 12th, 2022

๐ŸŒป @GloriaD ๐ŸŒป

Hi there, my friend! You've received a peer appreciation. Yay! Let's see who it's from!


Wait a minute.


It's from a "secret friend"! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

I wonder who may that be? Shall we see what they have to say?



One of the greatest gifts you can give me is your time; spending time with me at the moment when you are also going through something? My gods, she is one human worthy of the most beautiful of songs.

I don't have many nice words for you because I think you're one of the rare people who, like me, have a more profound appreciation for raw emotions. So I guess I'll go with "We live you."

We live you, Gloria. All of us whose lives you've amazingly touched, whose hearts you've showered with your kindness and compassion, and whose days are somewhat brighter because of your presence.

We live you, Gloria :)



Wow, that's a really powerful and beautiful appreciation. โค๏ธ It's abundantly clear that this "secret friend" appreciates you sincerely and deeply. You deserve it, too!


But it appears they didn't stop there. They've enclosed something special for you, too. ๐Ÿ’› Let's see what the surprise is:


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Wise words to live by. It seems the enlightenment of this secret friend is as abundant as their appreciation for you. No doubt helped along by your contributions to their healing journey.

But there's one more thing this friend wanted to share... and that is a few of the qualities that they think you show very well:

  • Empathetic - They look to understand and share the feelings of another ๐Ÿ‘‚
  • Humble - They humbly admit when they are wrong ๐Ÿ‘
  • Innovative - They are open to new ideas and discussions ๐ŸŒŸ
  • Great Communicator - They speak with everyoneโ€™s best interest in mind, are genuine, and are open to conversation ๐Ÿ’ฌ
  • Emotionally Intelligent - They read emotional cues and respond appropriately ๐Ÿ“ก

* TwoCreamTwoSugar happily delivers this peer appreciation and wishes well GloriaD and this "secret friend". I sincerely thank the latter for this submission!*

A note for GloriaD: I really appreciate how powerful of an impact you have on our community through and through. While I may not be able to see all of it of course, seeing an appreciation like this one truly shows how positive of an impact you are having on the lives of others here. For that, I am so thankful! This secret friend of yours clearly thinks very highly of you and I am so glad to be able to put together this post for you. I wish you nothing but the best! ๐Ÿ’™

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GloriaD December 12th, 2022

@TwoCreamTwoSugar

Thank you for this bright and colourful appreciation post Cream ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’› I had an idea of who it might be, and am on my way to thank them! ๐Ÿฅฐ๐ŸŒป

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gentleemperor December 12th, 2022

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ @Liv125 ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

~ You've been appreciated by a Secret Friend ๐Ÿ’›


I'm a bit late with this appreciation post you you probably know who your Secret Friend is ๐Ÿ™ˆ


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Here is the message your Secret Friend left for you

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Your secret friend wants you to know that they think you are

Supportive - They are kind and helpful ๐Ÿ’›

Cheerful - They are fun to be around ๐Ÿ’›

Great Communicator - They speak with everyoneโ€™s best interest in mind, are genuine, and are open to conversation ๐Ÿ’›

Optimistic - They focus on cultivating positivity, to bring out the best in everyone ๐Ÿ’›

Emotionally Intelligent - They read emotional cues and respond appropriately ๐Ÿ’›


๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

Liv - Sorry for being late with this post but I'm happy to share some appreciation your way. You totally deserve it! You're always supportive and positive and I really enjoy your company and the talks we've had. I'm glad that you joined the PAT team and you're a wonderful listener, team member and friend. ๐ŸŒŸ

Secret Friend - Weee, I like what you did with the appreciation and agree with everything you mentioned. We haven't talked much but I'm happy to have that you're joining in the game and appreciate you so much for your work on the PAT team and for being part of the community. ๐ŸŒŸ

Can't wait to see more of both of you. You're both kind people who I'm happy to have met. ๐Ÿ’›


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gentleemperor December 12th, 2022

@Liv125 I forgot this little gift from your Secret Friend

https://imgur.com/a/ed6NlgG

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Liv125 December 13th, 2022

Awww thank you so much, im so happy you posted the appreciation and i really am thankful ๐Ÿ˜Š You layed it out beautifully- also for some reason i wanted to call you penguin haha!- and its totally okay if its late, i appreciate you taking the time to make it ๐Ÿ’– To my appreciator, thank you so much as welll it is really kind and lovely of you to leave such a heartfelt and sweet message <3 It was a pleasant surprise, and i love the cat a lot! :) I hope both of you enjoy the rest of your days!!


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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 12th, 2022

the *link* to view the card

(Lateeee to the party but here after like 2 empty tissue boxes๐Ÿคง)

@GloriaD

Thankyouu for such a beautiful post and for your kind words, Gloria. You are incredible! โค

We are in a platform, where every other person is kind, and has their own way to practice kindness, so it's reasonable how there's multiple moments where someone says or does something that makes us feel so warm and fuzzy. But then there's these moments, and these *certain* acts of kindness that seeps in and sets in the corner-most chambers of our heart, and manages to pull across all the heart strings *at once*.

This right here is one of these moments, and I'm happy that such moments are not very often, because it helps restore the rarity and makes it even more special, something to hold onto more dearly.

I've been crying, would be an understatement, an absolute understatement, because ummm this ain't no normal crying, it's one of those- "I don't have enough strength to hold this much kindness and warmth, nor the space for it, so I'm going to sit and sob till I'm able to absorb every last bit of it and more"-crying moment.

I just don't know what to say. :') You got me, you completely got me and it's going to take a long time to actually absorb it all, perhaps no rush to do it mhm? Going to take it slow and allow myself to really *feel* it. โค

I could actually guess it was you, because of some of the phrases used here xD and then got the confirmation too haha. @CosmicMiracle, I am no human, but an epic being? Says who? Someone who holds the power to make a human turn into an epic being in a snap? Someone who traverses the darkest spaces and lights them up hanging around with the shiniest fairy lights in the world? Someone who breathes pixie dust?

Someone who isn't a human herself either, but a miracle, and the rare, special kind of miracle in the universe of miracles too.

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Thankyouuuu for everything! ๐Ÿฅบโค

[Lucky me, you were my pair for the secret friend game this week, Cosmic, I couldn't let this one go]

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CosmicMiracle December 13th, 2022
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou I wish the day would come when I would write something and people won't know it's me ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

You made me cry :'( my rose was runny and I keep hiccuping like an American first-grader who just experienced being bullied for the first time except mine was because I had my first taste of KFC (and OMG it was heaven!) which is all sorts of happy ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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I will process what you wrote and I will get back to you, you angel lightworker you! <3
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CosmicMiracle December 13th, 2022
It posted twice so I'll send you a new gift for this one :p

A song from my heart, something I dedicate to people who share my tribe of rare people who thrive in the darkness and become the lightest of beings <3

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@Sunisshiningandsoareyou enjoy this song <3
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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 13th, 2022

Hello @LovelyMango1, your strength and honesty is being appreciated by your peer @comfortableSpring7236 ๐Ÿงก

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Keep walking forward in your healing journey, Mango, people like you who brave their fears, and exhibit a strong sense of resilience and honesty while sharing their story, are a true inspiration. ๐Ÿงก


Thankyou for looking out for your peer, Spring, I appreciate you taking the time to give that encouraging boost to Mango. ๐Ÿงก Keep up the great work!

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 13th, 2022

Hey hey @PatientLake8712, you're appreciated oh-so-warmly by @HopefulDazaii, for being Supportive, Kind, Respectful, Patient, Understanding, Empathetic and Cheerful. ๐Ÿ’™

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Keep up the great work, Lake, it's wonderful to have listeners like *you* who make so much of a difference with their compassionate presence and kind words. ๐Ÿ’™

I'm really glad you got the needed company and support, Dazaii, you're so appreciated for giving it back to your peer~ the kindness, the warmth, the hugs, you name it. ๐Ÿ’™

๐Ÿค—Sending many hugs y'alls way!๐Ÿค—

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CosmicMiracle December 13th, 2022

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ Appreciation Messages ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ for ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ @amiableBunny4016 ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ

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Quality you are appreciated for:

Supportive - They are kind and helpful
Empathetic - They look to understand and share the feelings of another
Resilient - They bounce back when things fall apart
Determined - They steel their resolve and keep going forward even when they feel discouraged
Cheerful - They are fun to be around

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"Bunny spreads kindness and cares a lot!" - anonymous

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"@amiableBunny4016, thank you so, so much for your support to everyone on 7 cups! We are all your friends here, and thanks so much for being such a kind supportive friend and inspiring us all" - anonymous

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Hi, Bunny! I know you've been through a lot in this life. Your struggles are unimaginable at such a young age, yet you remain a smile spreader, a soul enlightener, and an overall source of love, kindness, and compassion. Thank you for your presence, your time, your effort, and the pieces of you that you share with us in this community <3

And to your anonymous friend, thank you for appreciating Bunny. Know that you are also a driving force as to why there are magical people in this world. It's not just a simple appreciation message, that's food for the soul <3 thank you!!!

I dedicate this video to you and your anonymous friend:
Experience the Underwater World Through the Eyes of a Free Diver <3

What I love about this is the fact that we can relate his exploration of the underwater world to how we discover our inner selves <3 I know you both have gone through challenges and difficulties, and it leads you to get to know yourself better :) I am so proud of you both :)

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amiableBunny4016 December 13th, 2022

@CosmicMiracle,

Thank you Cosmic for creating beautiful post! Thank you for being such an empathetic and beautiful human being โค๏ธ this made my day! *Hugs and cookies if wanted*

Dear anonymous person,

I truly thank you so much for your kind and lovely and beautiful appreciation โค๏ธ whoever you are, you are amazing and loved and cared about. I don't know who or where you are but you deserve alot of happiness. This has made me smile after a long time of suffering! I'm so glad I could help you out!! Be your beautiful self always.

Bunny


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CosmicMiracle December 13th, 2022

๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ

๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ @JuliaEWriter is being appreciated! ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ

๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ–ค๐ŸŒˆ

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QUALITIES:

Resilient - They bounce back when things fall apart
Coachable - They have the desire to improve
Patient - They take the time to calm down before they act
Motivated - They are internally motivated to achieve their goals
Determined - They steel their resolve and keep going forward even when they feel discouraged
Supportive - They are kind and helpful
Respectful - They try to make sure everyone feels respected and understood
Resilient - They bounce back when things fall apart

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"Julia is so nice!! She made my day and I think she is a super nice member!" - anonymous

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"Julia is a very nice person and very supportive and very very kind she is always positive in the forums and chatrooms" - anonymous

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Thank you, anonymous peers for taking the time to fill out our form and send this appreciation message for Julia :) you're both lightworkers that this world deserves :)

And to Julia, I hope you know that you are cared for and you're touching people's lives <3 thank you for the gift of you <3

For you three, I dedicate this video. I don't know what impactful title to tag it with so let me tell you my opinion of it :)

It's about a doggo who was just rescued by the new owner. You can see how she was crying because she's seen what the dog went through and it broke her heart. But the dog, bless her kind heart and compassionate soul, assured (in its own way) the crying owner that things will be okay. That they now have each other <3

I dedicate this video because it symbolizes our connection to each other here in 7Cups. Members offer each other support, and so do listeners. Listeners provide support to members and members provide lessons to listeners. It's always a two-way street and that's what's magical about all of us <3

Don't forget your magic, okay? :) Much love <3

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Harsvin December 13th, 2022

๐Ÿ’ ๐Ÿ’Hey @kindcherry2
we have a lovely appreciation message written by @JuliaEWriter ๐Ÿ’ ๐Ÿ’

Cherry is described as :


๐Ÿ’ Supportive - They are kind and helpful

๐Ÿ’ Cheerful - They are fun to be around

๐Ÿ’ Optimistic - They focus on cultivating positivity, to bring out the best in everyone

๐Ÿ’ Having Growth Mindset - Instead of being stuck with an existing set of skills they believe growth is always possible

๐Ÿ’ Agile - They change course as needed



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๐Ÿ’ @kindcherry2 thank you so much for offering kindness, compassion and support to your peer. You are an amazing listener and it means a lot to make a difference in someone's day. We appreciate everything in you do ๐Ÿ’

๐Ÿ’ @JuliaEWriter
thank you for writing such a lovely message to cherry ๐Ÿ’


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NGC224 December 14th, 2022

@Fristo What a wonderful idea. As a community, we should cherish our peers and not to take them for granted. As an ancient Chinese idiom says, "When you eat the fruit, remember the tree; when you drink from the stream, remember its origin" (่ฝๅ…ถๅฎž่€…ๆ€ๅ…ถ ๏ผŒ้ฅฎๅ…ถๆต่€…ๆ€€ๅ…ถๆบ) Thank you all for being an invaluable part of our community.

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 14th, 2022

@NGC224

This is beautiful, thank*you* for being a part of the community! โค

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