Emotions
I dont feel good. Not at all. I crave for relationship, partner, love , romance. I have been alone for over 5 yrs now and The void kills me everyday. In fact Its getting bad and bad , my mental health has been so low and down. I cry everyday , My anxiety has been bad. I really dont think I can take it anymore.My friends and others (whoever I talked to here ) tell me I should focus on my career and not on getting a girlfriend / relationship, but they don't understand, they tell me that it's better to build my accolades up and then get a girlfriend, which may very well be true, and it's not to say I don't have pride and accomplishments in my work and my life, and Im proud that I'm a hard worker, and good friend and the things which I achieve, but these things feel empty without having someone to share it with, So what's the point? Wouldn't my greatest accolade be my making someone else happy? I hate every day, I am so Low and down.
@emotionalconnect1209
I would agree with you having someone to share your life with etc is worth more.
I would only say when we are too focused on finding a partner or friends they seem elusive. sometimes it is almost like the harder we look the worse it becomes.
Are you dating now and just not finding a good match? if not dating what kind of interactions do you see meeting someone?
@toughTiger6481
I have tried dating apps, socializing..But never got any chance to date anyone in lar 5 yrs
@emotionalconnect1209
From what i can see many Dating apps seem to be like resume surfing not true connection...very shallow IMO
The reality is many people meet in unconventional ways and without the plan to "find" someone. they connect maybe as friends or such until something sparks.
The hard part i never seem to get is why some seem to find a string of dates and someone else that I thought were far more interesting and such had a hard time meeting someone. No one knows the combination that works for everyone.
@emotionalconnect1209 Please take care. You are very lovely and deserve to be loved by someone significant.
It must be so sad and lonely, unbearable. I dont knoe how to help you in what you desire. But in the meantime, breathe deep, take a moment. Do things that you think make you relax and happy 💛. Maybe after you gather some energy, you can try again with a new outlook, have fun.
Sometimes all you can do is do the best to cheer yourself up. Afterwards comes the tips and tricks for dating haha
Take care
@WatchingThemorningBirds do you have close family member or someone you can rely on?
When I went in a similar moment, feeling so lonely and sad and wanting love so much, I could get through it charging up with my family. Maybe a get together with someone and ask them to spoil you extra sweet for a day if its possible. Well maybe it may be a bit embarassing to ask that. But if thats possible, in my case it helped a lot. Along with spoiling yourself too, maybe you like sweets? Do a weekly sweet treat and comfort yourself. Its a hard moment to deal, to feel so lonely
Good luck
I know how you feel dude. But, if you need someone else to be happy, you will not be happy never.
I disagree. Don’t you need interaction? A friend is a friend. A lover is a friend and lover. Just trying to say finding someone to be happy with isn't bad.
@emotionalconnect1209 I think I can understand you. Sometimes a partner is not just emotional support, but also an important driving force in life.
dont worry buddy you’ll find happiness soon . Don’t give up