Little Help Please….

@bellsbum19 I hear you, it's not just a sport it's your outlet, something to keep you going when times get rough. Why did your parents stop you going? Without this outlet, it's sounds like you have nothing left to keep you going. That's probably why your chest has got worse, and your energy is low. Is there any chance you can go back to hockey?

@Tinywhisper11

i can’t go back to hockey, it’s too late 😞. My parents took me out just because they didn’t want me to do it anymore. It seems like everything is for them nowadays….

@bellsbum19 that's really sad😞 I'm sorry sweetie. It's really terrible how parents can put thmselves first all the time. I wish I could help you😢 hey! Maybe you should start a fight club thingy, only with hockey😁 yeah! I'm not good at advice😂😂😂 I'm sorry your parents are the way they are, gives you a giant festive tiny hug ❤squeezes you tightly. When you grow up a successfull millionaire, their the ones who are gonna be sorry.

Maybe you can do something that involves hockey and not the sport itself. Maybe an announcer or write about hockey?

That usually works for me when I'm depressed about missing a person.

@survivor4life831

I’ve thought about that, but it seems like everything that involves hockey just makes me sad. And if I don’t get to play ever again then it makes me feel terrible. Thanks for the thought though. 

You can and will get back into it, it's just a matter of time. Have you tried expressing this to your parents and negotiating? Do you know why they have taken you out? It's important to know these perspectives so you can know how to approach them about it. Im sure with it being a big family legacy, they can resonate with how you are feeling. If all else fails, you can still definitely come to it when you're able to make your own decisions.

@intelligentWatermelon440

so my dad hates sports he says that my brothers and I should be taken out of sports and that it teaches us nothing. My mom does everything he says and i most likely won’t be going back. 

@intelligentWatermelon440

i have tried telling them how it feels to not be playing but they thought that it was inappropriate and that I was being dramatic 

Sports are so important for a lot of reasons. I really hope you're able to get back on the ice soon and sorry you're going through this.

@intelligentWatermelon440

thanks for your tips and for answering my post. 

@bellsbum19 You make perfect sense and don't sound dramatic. It sounds exactly like how it would feel if someone took music away from me. I'm sorry it hurts like that, it's a very important thing to you and your feeling of loss is not dramatic, it's 100% valid. At some point you'll be able to decide on your own to play and you might be able to play unofficially some until then. And it'll hurt less after some time and you should find it easier to do similar activities again. 

@RidireEmerald

thanks for saying that. What kind of music do you like? I really like music too. My favorite artist is Jessie Murph. What kind of music do you like? Who is your favorite? 

@bellsbum19 Actually I write and play my own music a lot. I like classical piano, but I enjoy listening to most music so it's hard to pick favourites. 

@RidireEmerald

wow that’s amazing, i tried writing my own music but I feel like it’s just terrible!

@bellsbum19 I'm sure it's good. You don't have to be perfect at it, as long as it makes you happy. 

@RidireEmerald

thanks I hope that one day i hear you on the radio