Missed Connections, Severed Connection, and Closure.
Have you ever had a connection with a member or listener here on 7 Cups of Tea and it ended either with them leaving the platform or blocking you? How do you deal with it? How do you find acceptance or closure?
If you have someone in mind, or thinking generally, what would you want to say to them?
Please share if you are comfortable doing so. ❤️
@LovingPeacefulHeart
i have had a couple of experiences found a listener i thought went well 2 times and then they sort of disappeared i sent messages but nothing... I have no problem as that is a volunteer type role and they are not obligated to stay doing it perhaps it was draining on them etc.
The other was a long running person helped me a lot but they told me they were moving on and are not on app hardly at all anymore i miss the chats we had but am happy they had a breakthrough with what they were working on too.
@LovingPeacefulHeart I was blocked by two different listeners whom I considered as friends for no fault of mine in my old account (deleted now). I dealt with it pretty badly with one of those blocks got my account suspended for 2 straight weeks. It was never easy for me as I felt they could have communicated the issue (if ever there was any) than to resort to blocking!
I would like to tell them to grow up and learn to deal with things in a mature manner, to communicate accordingly before resorting to hurting others, to practice what you preach through your various badges (i.e. block only when there is a good enough reason to do so, as per the guidelines communicated by 7 cups)