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I suffer from chronic loneliness and deep loneliness leaves behind a deep ache that begs for some relief, some form of connection. A long-lasting emptiness has crept into my existence, ripping my soul apart. Each passing moment feels heavier as the absence of human warmth and understanding linger relentlessly. All in all, loneliness is something that cannot be satiated and makes me feel hollow, squeezing my heart tightly of all the happiness.
@Silverwillows8128
We are here for you. Your words paint a vivid picture of your pain, and I'm truly sorry you're feeling this way. We are here to listen, support, and share this journey with you. You're not alone in this, and your feelings are valid. Take care.
@trueconfidant123
I can't thank you enough for your kind words and your virtual hugs. May god bless you.
@Silverwillows8128
Thank "you" for being you. 💙
@ConcernedCi @trueconfidant123
You guys are too sweet. My heart is melting
It is the worst feeling, the struggle is so hard to overpass and the heart weakens. Im so sorry that you are going through this. Please pray for a miracle im your life. It will happen
@ivoryEyes698
Thank you for the hope. I will pray for the best
@jddjunior
I will think about it. That is a good suggestion
@Silverwillows8128
Hey there, I can relate to what you were saying. At times of loneliness, you feel like like doing nothing. I can relate with you.
I am a guy at 20 studying for my A levs.
If you are comfortable maybe we can talk.
@sympatheticLand8268
Yes we can
@Silverwillows8128
Hey there, recently it's been going amazing for me, and I have made some drastic changes. I would definitely be willing to share some of the experience that I have had that has genuinely helped me. How would be willing to communicate?
@Silverwillows8128 awww sweetie I'm sorry😥 lonliness is a horrible horrible thing 😞 and I question. With billions of people in the world, how can one feel lonely??it's very sad. Gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
Aww thank you. That is really very sweet of you to say that.
@Silverwillows8128 If you are feeling lonely, you are not the only one. Please understand this. Whenever you have thoughts of loneliness, remind yourself what is going on well in your life. What are you grateful for? Do you have good material happiness? Do you live close to a forest? Do you have, birds visiting you? Can you feed them? Do you have a good job? In fact, you can write down a list of that you are grateful for in your life. Is there anything you can take up in your loneliness, like meditation, prayers, learning to dance, music, instruments, etc so that you feel complete on your own? I lost my mother this year and believe me it feels terrible. She would be unhappy in her afterlife if I wasted away my life. So I have decided to be grateful for the smallest thing that is going right in my life. So what are you grateful for? Does this practice help your loneliness in any way? Let us know. Please know that you are not the only one feeling like this. You are brave to talk to us about it.
@Artemis215 I will give that a try. I have also decided to meditate every day for my mental health.
@Silverwillows8128 - Wow, I was so thankful I came across this post today. I've been feeling something very similar for a long time now and I feel very much for you. You're not alone. I too crave that warmth and connection you're talking about and I too understand how hard it is to find in this world sometimes. Just know that it's out there. I see you and appreciate you. What you've expressed here, although painful, is very, very human and beautiful. It reveals that you have a deep, warm heart that is very capable of wonderful things. Sending love your way 😊
@HSP37
Thank you for resonating with me and validating my emotions.
@Silverwillows8128: Loneliness is when you feel alone and like you don't have anyone to talk to or spend time with. It's a feeling of emptiness and sadness that can happen to anyone, and it's important to reach out to friends, family, or someone you trust if you ever feel this way. You're not alone in feeling lonely, and there are people who care about you and want to be there for you when you need them.
My best wishes with you.
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I just joined, and this post really hit close to home. The loneliness I feel is overwhelming at times. For some reason it’s nice to know I’m not the only one who battles this. Makes it feel like it is something we can overcome, you know?
@Greythelonely13 I kinda feel hopeless about my pain
Yep, I feel that way sometimes too. If I can help in any way, please let me know.
It takes courage to share how you feel. You should be proud of that!! I feel the same way sometimes I really do understand how it can feel so lonely and I think I feel it more than I just turned 40 this year it's harder to make friends. We are here for you... hugs!
@LotusFlower285
Thank you for understanding my loneliness. Blessings on your way.
@Silverwillows8128 my pleasure! :)
It takes a lot of courage to talk about issues like this and to be able to talk about it in such detail couldn't have been easy. I am proud of you for taking this chance and I want you to remember you are cherished, you are loved, and you are welcome.
@Ahawk
Thank you for reminding me of that
@SociusVj Thank you for your suggestions.
@Silverwillows8128
I feel every word of that original post and it just reminds me how lonely so many of us are. I'm just a few months away from hitting 2 years on my third divorce. The youngest of my kids turned 18 last month. For the last 20+ years I've have tried a few times to create and blend families, my home has always been full of people and love. Now I'm about to turn 43, my kids are grown and doing their own things, and I sit alone all the time. I am very much an introvert and have moved across the country twice. I have a few friends I talk to on the phone but they live so far away. At this point I'm coming to terms with the idea/fact that I will be alone from this point forward
@Sid980
My apologies for an extreme delay in response. Your experience is understandably challenging, and it's common to feel lonely after significant life changes like divorce and when your children become independent.
@Silverwillows8128
You're not alone. We're here for you. We're always here to listen. Please reach out if you ever wanna talk. Don't forget you're loved.