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impartialLime3259 August 23rd, 2023

Hey I’m 17, Honestly I just want to make some connections. No matter how hard I try it just seems like I can’t make friends. I always try to text and make them feel needed, but I don’t feel like it’s done for me. I’m really just looking for friends if possible. Everyone have a great day!

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exuberantBlackberry9105 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 I can relate to that, Lime. You are not alone in feeling like you can't make friends. Even I don't have any real life friends. Trying and make people feel needed is great, but not getting that back for them can really hurt. It can make us feel like we aren't needed, even though we are needed.

I had a friend who would talk to me, spend time with me, and everything. I'd make her feel but never felt i got that back. Now, she doesn't even talk to me treats me like a stranger and I don't know what changed. It has been really hard on me and I feel so lonely, but I am not sharing that here because I don't want to make you feel bad. I just want you to know that others share similar experiences like you and that you aren't the only one feeling like that.

Wishing you all the best making new friends. Having friends can really help us in so many ways. But don't forget that not having friends is not a crime. ❤

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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@exuberantBlackberry9105

Thank you very much! I’m sorry that happened to you and I really wish you the best! You are a very nice person it seems, so thank you!

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exuberantBlackberry9105 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 You don't have to be for for that. You're welcome and wish YOU all the best. :)

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trueconfidant123 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259
Hey there! Welcome to 7 Cups! It's great to have you here. Making connections and finding friends can sometimes be a challenge, but this community is all about support and understanding. Feel free to reach out and start some conversations. We're here to listen and help. Have a wonderful time connecting with others! 😊🌟

kindHug676 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259

Welcome to 7cups!!! you've come to the right place. Here we are a very supportive space where you can be heard and valued. You'll find many caring people on here who are willing to bond friendships. 1:1 Listeners, member chats, forums. I'm glad you are seeking out friends, we are here to build them!

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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

Thank you!!

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thearcher19 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 Hey, I'm new here too. Used to not be able to make friends is something I had to deal with once too. I could be a friend to you, but may I first ask how old you are?

Wish you lots of love and luck in your life

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thearcher19 August 24th, 2023

@thearcher19 Wait, you already wrote that, sorry

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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@thearcher19

lol that’s ok. But we can try to be friends. I don’t know what I’m doing really, but we can give it a shot if you want. How old are you?

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thearcher19 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 sure, I'm 16

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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@thearcher19

nice not far apart

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thearcher19 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 yep, when'd you turn 17?

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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@thearcher19

just last month. U?

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thearcher19 August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 in April, could I give you my e-mail? would be better for me to chat there than on a browser
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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@thearcher19

hey I’m really sorry for the late response! I had some stuff goin on so really sorry, if you still wanna talk then any way is fine with me

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thearcher19 August 25th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 it's okay, sorry for the late response too, that's what I meant: I don't get any notifications from the browser. here's my e-mail: mimmyandherbooks@***.com (I know it's childish, made it when I was eleven and by then, I was constantly called 'Mimmy' 🙈)

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impartialLime3259 OP August 25th, 2023

Sent one just so you know! @thearcher19

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alanhaynes August 24th, 2023

@impartialLime3259 can you messeage me please


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impartialLime3259 OP August 24th, 2023

@alanhaynes

hey. Can’t really do one on one messages but I can do this

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buildabetterworld August 27th, 2023

@impartialLime3259

Hey there, it's great that you're reaching out for connections! Making friends can be challenging, especially when it feels like your efforts aren't reciprocated. Remember, building friendships takes time and patience. It's awesome that you make an effort to make others feel valued and needed – that's a wonderful trait. Finding friends who appreciate and reciprocate your efforts might take a bit, but don't give up. Keep being yourself and keep putting yourself out there, whether it's through shared interests, hobbies, or simply having conversations. You're not alone in wanting to connect, and I hope you find meaningful friendships that brighten your days. Have a fantastic day too! 🌟🤝

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impartialLime3259 OP August 27th, 2023

@buildabetterworld

you too! I wish you the best have a good day! Thanks

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