Can we make a men’s issues community?
I’ve been trying really hard to find any avenue of support recently. I live in a major city and there are no men’s support groups where I am. There are few listeners on here that take men’s issues seriously. Finding a therapist where I am for men’s issues is extremely difficult with very few options. And I’ve attempted to post on here about what I’m dealing with just to hear crickets.
theres a women’s issues community and it’s not like men don’t go through their own trauma and their own challenges. I want to not feel like there’s zero places to turn to get help which is basically where I am right now.
I don't see why not, or at least a men's peer group. As long s people there don't abuse the intention.
In my experience I notice there's more women on the site, I can understand why men might want a space.
@CheeryMango
Also what do you mean by abuse the intention?
@aquaSpruce8551 I think an abuse is assuming from the start that men _always_ have bad intentions. That kind of narrative constantly repeated is one of the reasons why I am considering leaving 7 Cups at all.
Hi, @aquaSpruce8551. I understand your frustration, and it’s crucial to create spaces that address the challenges men face. We can certainly consider trialing a support initiative to see how it fosters engagement and activity. However, as Affy has mentioned we need to be mindful of potential issues, especially concerning moderation around sexism and gender stereotyping. If we find it leads to significant problems, we may need to reevaluate or seek alternative solutions. I will discuss your suggestion with the admin team and see their thoughts and I will circle back to this thread to share what we have agreed upon.
@AffyAvo
I think this is a wonderful idea! Everyone should have a place where they can go to talk about what they’re going through and how they’re feeling.
Just FYI, I do accept chats about men’s issues, womens’s issues, parenting issues, and sexual health issues, in addition to a myriad of other issues. Please feel free to reach out and request an appt time to talk if interested ;-)
May your day be filled with light, love, and laughter ;-)
~E
@aquaSpruce8551 I will support this idea!!!! Where do I sign up?!
@XneedsHelp In the last monthly update we told it was going to happen, it's near the bottom of the first post https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/MonthlyCommunityUpdates_2602/November2024CommunityUpdate_339575/
