What's the ONE THING that you need to improve?
Hey everyone!
SolvedSolutionLife here!
You know, there's a lot of situations we're dealing with, right?
And sometimes we have qualities about ourselves that we want to improve so we can live life better, is that correct?
Well, I want to know what you want to improve and maybe I can help you out with that!
For starters, let me start with one thing about me that I wish to improve on.
That is: Patience
Having a lot of patience is hard to manage sometimes because we want it when we want it and right away. I find myself wanting things right away and never wanting to wait time to make it happen, or let it come. Throughout my life journey, there were life situations that taught me patience in many ways and I know there's some minor tweaks that I need to make in order to have that patience I need for future endeavors.
Let me know what your improvements are and we can definitely help each other out!
I need to improve my ability to say no, and to do what's best for my own mental health instead of doing what others want me to do. It's a challenge, I don't like making others upset, much less when they are upset because of me.
Me too. I'm very timid when it comes to asserting myself.
@braveSugar7964
me too.
today I told the waitress she was rude to my guests (because she really was) and I returned my food uneaten. I was shaking the whole time. But I would've felt 10 times worse if I said nothing.
My pessimistic outlook on things... My mind has me convinced that I should expect the worst, and that things rarely get better. This became a reoccurring problem in my teens, and eventually my brother took to calling me Eeyore 😣 lol. But yeah, that's something that's getting hard to live with.
Same here actually, it have became so disturbing
I need to improve the way I interact with people. For those I know well, I get so angry with them and I push them away. For those I don't know very well, I am extremely shy and awkward, and then I often end up being mean to them as well. It's not what I want to do, but I just keep doing it. I would love to have some friends that I can just have fun and laugh with.
I need to work on public speaking... confidence... Its like I know what to say but I get so scared... How are people so confident..?
I need to see the larger picture and not just the tiny tunnel view I'm used to
One thing i need to improve is to stop over-thinking and to not worry unnecessarily.
@learningtolive365 Me too. I feel ya. You got this! ❤️
My wellbeing.
Doing laundry. Depression/grief has me overwhelmed by a lot of basic tasks, but if I was keeping up with laundry better I'd be in clean clothes at work, feel better about myself, and not be facing an overwhelming pile of dirty laundry regularly. If I could get a dent in it and find my way back into a habit of it, it'd be manageable again.
I want to improve my prioritization. I have trouble knowing what needs done when and sometimes i just act on what i can do now. i try to keep a journal but sometimes is not really helpful. im a slow learner but when i do get doing what i am supposed to, im pretty good at it. its just knowing the order of importance and when it needs done. i guess i just have a bad sense of timing too.
I need to improve my self-discipline, otherwise I'm going to waste so many opportunities I can't really afford to waste.