What goals are you working on today?
Many of my friends have a set goal during this tough pandemic. Some people may find it hard to keep motivated to stay at home. Of course! We haven't been confined to be inside the house for this long, under these extreme surreal conditions! Several people I know have diet goals, mental health goals, and straight up silly goals all while maintaining the safety of public health (6 feet apart, minimal social interaction)
Do you have a goal for this quarantine? I, myself, am working on my self image and working to get fit for college sports. How about you? What do you have in mind? If you don't have a goal, tell me your daily schedule you adjusted ever since online school started, or work at home, or whatever fits your circumstances.
It's a really tough time now. But 7cups is your safe space. We love you for being here, and I'd love to see you interact with this post. At any time you feel very different from this sudden change of lifestyle, do not hesitate to knock on my 7cups profile and send a quick message! Just remember, keep calm. This will all calm down soon. Worrying will only get you amped up about things you don't want to happen, nor would it get you anywhere! Stay positive. Manifest that good things will happen and believe it will. Keep hopeful, and try to stay happy during this tough time. Everything will be alright. 
Staying cool. ...not fond of very hot weather
I'm working on feeling good about myself & acting as confident as possible.
Most days I struggle to feel beautfiul, productive or comfortable in my own skin. There are many deep routed issues as to why...mainly parental issues but hopefully I can lift myself up. There are days where I feel expressive of my true-self and it feels so freeing. So, I'm hoping to get that today and in the futrure, it can be an everyday feeling.
Also, I'd like to read past a particularly hard part in my textbook but I'd rather work on personal uplifting.
Hope everyone is doing well. There's greatness in each and every one of us.
today,my goal is to not cry.smile more.Tomorrow is my graduation ceremony.Even though my family thinks i should be celebrated,I don't.What accomplishment did i really make?sure i got the grades,but i was depressed during all four years.I lost friends over it.and when i tried talking to my parents every year about the depression they brushed it off and i never got help all because im gay.So my goal is to fake being happy til i can be happy.Its not for me anyway
@quietComputer6281
Dont fake being happy. My experience, it doesn't work. I lie to myself but I still feel the pain and not understand why I feel the pain because I faked it for so long. A good goal might be to find things that make you feel something; something that isn't anything you would regret.
@RealTree3 how am i supposed to be happy when im to blame for my friends depression.when i lost my family.when i cant even stay interested in books,and get turned away when trying to get help? Everytime im at a family event when i just wanna sit and be alone,i force myself to pretend to be into it.Force myself to look as if im a part of things tho im suffering.I dont know what to do other than fake it.because if i say i feel suicidal my mom already said she would get adult custody of me and make sure im institutionalized for the rest of my life
@ginam22
I'm terribly sorry that you are going through this. You don't want to fake happiness because it is, fake; not real. There are many other ways to find a solution. You should try to keep looking. Don't let helplessness cripple you from finding the answer you've been so desperately looking for. I pray that things get better for you and that you find a way.
@RealTree3
Vous voulez dire que je me mens, en faite le problème social que je rencontre il est vieux de 10 ans ,les chose que je faite entre ne mon rien apporté de matériel, niveau expérience jai essayé de transformé les expériences professionnelles, mais c'était un dernier recours jai été blâmé, par les recruteurs, mais aussi par le reste jai perdu mon permi il a trois ans une fois pour un contrôle plus le manque de points (2)le temps est passé, je suis entrain de touché le fonds et hier jai troqué ma voiture pour une paire de tennis hight distance ,bof je compte beaucoup sur la reprise pour essayé de rebondir surtout pour l'argent, sa va être serré mais bon ,juste pour espérer m'élever dans la société encore une fois .en faite je réfléchis je me dis que vous avez raison ,mais il a tellement d'erreurs que je ne peux mentir ,reste le culte domestique et la cigarettes, c'est clair...je me mens ,j'avais un peu oublié, quand je regarde chez moi des fois je me dis mais jai tous laissé passé, sauf le futur ,pour construire il faut des repères quand on les lèvent c'est que l'on évolue. Le plus dure cest de gérer l'espace-temps.
I lie to me ,sure aha
I will do a workout and I will work on a job application, using notes given to me by a friend who is helping!
Todays goal is to make myself happy. In this caught up world, all I ever think of is making other satisfied with me. I spend so much time trying to make myself "fit in" various communities/groups that I forget about my emotions. I think it's time to take a breath and focus on myself...for my betterment.
I have 3 goals for today:
- Help a friend with her software project
- Finish a specific programming task at work
- Process and store the veggies I got from my garden yesterday
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@lilblackcat89 Really well-rounded selection here! Health, social, and personal/career! This made me think about ways I could select goals from more than just one or two facets of my life a day...
Well, I eventually managed to get out of my feel-sorry-for-myself state and actually did some work, spoke to clients and wrote correspondence. Goals for tomorrow: write letters for clients: do at least four jobs for clients; get new client file ready and start the day with a walk.
Today I wrote done some thoughts and ideas about projects. I've been job hunting and its tough right now so I'm trying to think on other things too.
Tomorrows goals are:
1. Volunteer
2. Spend time with housemates
3. Work on application (even if only completing another para) although ideally I'd like it on the page by the end of the day.
@lifegivesulemons
Hello!
I have definitely been part of the group of people who have been snacking a little too much and who have barely left their bed during quarantine. Doing so has caused me to gain weight. My self-esteem has been damaged to the point where I hate looking in the mirror, and I feel self-conscious when wearing clothes I used to love.
So, one of my goals is to lose weight, spefically about 20 pounds (since that's about how much I've gained since lockdown). I have been limiting how much I eat, as well as practicing some at-home exercises. It has been challenging, but deciding to work on my mental health first has certainly made me more motivated, confident, and determined to achieve my goal before I return to school in the Fall. :)
Hope everyone is doing well, and best of luck in accomplishing all of your goals as well! ❤️
De justesse ,j'ai pu me réveiller temps et ainsi faire mes courses,pour échapper la chaleur .ca va être ainsi jusqu' la fin des grosses chaleurs ,c'est dire dans le pire des cas fin octobre début novembre .je dois me trompé, cest pour cela qu en septembre mon projet aboutira,...🎰