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Helping Others (Self Esteem Challenge)

CheeryMango August 9th, 2021

Hello everyone!

Welcome to Day 6 of our Self-Esteem Icebreakers in celebration of the 30 Day Self-Esteem Challenge across the community.

Today's theme is "Helping Others".

How does it feel when you help someone?

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou August 9th, 2021
It is one rewarding feeling to be able to help someone, even more rewarding when they actually feel supported ! " one person can't support everyone , but everyone can support one person atleast and that should count for something in the Universe' s tally " . I feel good when I help someone, but I truly believe the best kind of good deeds are when you don't expect anything in return and do it simply because you want to help someone ~ being kind ofcourse is always the "Cool" ~ so long the heart knows you did good genuinely ~ it feels great ! ❤

Thankyou for the ice-breaker, @CheeryMango ! How about you ?
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faithlove1111 August 11th, 2021

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou, well said indeed. You do not expect returns or get kick backs from the good deed of helping others. Helping others comes from our consiousness and awareness of others.

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou August 11th, 2021

Aw glad you agree @faithlove1111 and yes ofcourse , thankyou for your reply ! Much appreciated ❤

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lyricalAngel70 August 21st, 2021

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
I loved your answer, thank you for sharing.
It is true that helping someone selflessly is like feeding your own soul unknowingly. heart

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SeriouslyLey123 August 9th, 2021

@CheeryMango
It honestly makes me super happy, I'm the kinda person who helps those to make myself feel good. So when others are happy, I'm happy.

EveryMindMatters August 9th, 2021

Hi everyone! Great question again. When I help someone it makes my day feel a little brighter and makes me smile a little wider. Something little to me could mean a lot to someone else, like holding a door open for someone could make the other persons day. Today I was helping an elderly relative of mine and I love how appreciative he was, it has really made my day. What did everyone else do today to help someone ? ❤️

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faithlove1111 August 11th, 2021

@EveryMindMatters, So proud of you for taking time to help your relative.

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Clio9876 August 9th, 2021

To be able to help someone is to be needed. It makes me feel wanted and having a purpose.

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faithlove1111 August 11th, 2021

@Clio9876, It feels good to be part of a helpful and sharing community.

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mytwistedsoul August 9th, 2021

I enjoy helping others. It makes me feel good to know that I may have helped make their day alittle easier. If they felt alone - maybe it helped them to know they were in someone's thoughts. Or if they needed someone to talk to - I can offer to listen. There's an older couple that lives closest to the house that we've been helping more then we used to - that really feels nice because they aren't as physically able to do alot of the things they used to

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faithlove1111 August 11th, 2021

@mytwistedsoul

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Storyhymns1234 August 9th, 2021

I feel empowered, happy and supported.

HeartstoHeaven August 9th, 2021

Treating wounds of others with compassion and helping them is the best feeling in the world !!heart

D7cups August 9th, 2021

Its heaven to make others smile by helping them. heart

LovetoGod August 9th, 2021

@CheeryMango
It feels really so good after helping someone. It gives me pleasure. Listening to someone and helping them in their hard times is really kind work. And I appreciate every listener here who do that. Sometimes, after listening someone's problems and their experience gives me motivation and inspiration that there are so many people on the same path. Moreover, when we get positive reviews, it feels like blessing and it makes me feel so happy ❤✨

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faithlove1111 August 11th, 2021

@LovetoGod, Thank you for your motivating and kind words. Thank you to you too for being there for us.

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LovetoGod August 11th, 2021

@faithlove1111
Awww welcome ❤

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Star996 August 9th, 2021

@CheeryMango

It feels magical! I love the feeling I get when somebody tells me I have helped them a lot! It's a sense of thankfulness at the same time. Like, thanking ourselves for helping others, kinda, hehe. I love helping others a lot. Helping others is something really close to my heart. We never know what someone is going through, so I never stop helping. Yes, this did take a toll on me, haha. I am working towards the path of self care now, but I still haven't stopped helping people. I only help people when I can, and I make sure to give it my best. Helping others is really awesome! A bit of help can be a huge blessing to someone!

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August 9th, 2021

@Star996

have others here now...can not think of good words to you, but, feel heart

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Star996 August 9th, 2021

@Amelia2324

Thank you, Amelia! That was really sweet! Glad you understand me in a unique way! wink

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