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in love with my best friend

User Profile: mza24
mza24 January 1st

its eating me up inside. 

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User Profile: LittleBlackCloud
LittleBlackCloud January 4th

@mza24

hii!

have u talked to them about it?

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User Profile: mza24
mza24 OP January 4th

@LittleBlackCloud

i haven't, i can't. i know she doesn't feel the same, and i don't want to damage the relationship we have. it's what keeps me afloat and so i don't want to ruin it or even just make it slightly uncomfortable.

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User Profile: LittleBlackCloud
LittleBlackCloud January 5th

@mza24

Ohh, that must be really tough. R u really sure that she doesn't feel the same? She might be hiding her feelings. But it does make sense that u dont want to ruin things. 🙂 i really hope you figure things out. Even though i havent had the same experience, im sure it must be really hard. But im there for you 💜 even though it might be hard keep smiling!

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User Profile: mza24
mza24 OP January 6th

@LittleBlackCloud

yeah im quite sure, she is bi but expresses more interest in men, and is quite often saying things like 'i wish i had a crush' and 'i want a boyfriend' etc so at least right now ive got no shot 🥲

thanks for the words of support, they mean a lot <3 i hope youre doing well yourself 

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Do you possibly think she's saying to gage your reaction? Maybe she's hinting at wanting to date you but doesn't know how to approach it (might be experiencing the same thing as you)

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User Profile: mza24
mza24 OP January 9th

@fairmindedBalsam4236 i suppose its not outside the realm of possibility but all things considered its pretty unlikely. i know her like the back of my hand, im quite sure she doesnt see me like that right now. the chances are too low to be worth the risk of telling her, and also im really unsure on how my romantic feelings work in the first place and i dont know how to figure it out which is something id want to do before telling her anything

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That makes sense, don't wait too long figuring out though. You only get life one sometimes chances only once, I hope everything works out for you my friend 🫂

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