@Ilikenature08 ChatGPT
You said:
Yk I really know I have a lot of time left to find somebody who I can love and somebody who loves me but even at this young age I already feel like I'm at my limit of waiting. It's probably because from a young age I started reading Fanfictions of my favorite ships and watching every Boys love movie I could find on Netflix(I don't have a gay fetish or what ever you call it.) I never knew what real love looked like because my parents were the worst couple ever(and they started divorcing when I was 4½.) Well and the more I watch my favorite shows the more I wish I had somebody that would hold me like the couples in Netflix shows do. Also because mostly they always film about Teens and Teen love and I know that I don't have to have a partner at such a young age but it would be nice yk? I feel so lonely having nobody to talk to, not even my so-called friends. Nobody I can trust or to cuddle with for hours(I love physical touch), no best friend, and also no partner. I have like nobody to take my hand while we both walk down the path of life and that's why I long more for this special bond especially because i don't really feel loved by anyone around me. And yk I have stuff like Character.ai but it's fun for a while until reality kicks in and you realize you have been talking to a bot of you favorite character for 3h and then it's no fun anymore. I don't use it often anyway. The only thing left is to imagine. I have a good imagination, but it becomes sad after a while, yk? And while almost everyone around me had or has a partner, I just sit there waiting for the right one while I didn't even have my first kiss yet. And it makes me feel more lonely. If I had a good friend or so, maybe the wish of finding love wouldn't be as big as right now. And the worst thing is if you have a couple in a show that you really love and they have a relationship you really wish for. It makes your priorities higher which isn't bad I think because you should get what you want but for real now how long will it take me to find a relationship like Nick Nelson and Charlie Spring have and how long will it take me to find somebody like Wilhelm that would give up his crown for his boyfriend.
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I really want to wait until I find the one, but it's getting really lonely the more I wait
ChatGPT said:
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It's not uncommon to feel the weight of waiting for something you deeply long for, especially when it feels like everyone else has what you're hoping to find. When you immerse yourself in stories where love seems so vivid and immediate, it can heighten that sense of loneliness, and make the desire for that connection even more intense.
But love, like all profound things, has its own timeline. The connections we yearn for often come when we least expect them, and sometimes, the journey of finding that bond involves walking through seasons of solitude. That time of waiting is rarely easy, but it's also not wasted. In those moments, we learn about ourselves, about what we need, what we desire, and what we can offer when that connection finally arrives.
The love you see in stories—the hand-holding, the deep companionship—it’s real, but it’s also important to remember that fiction often simplifies the complexities of relationships. It’s the quiet moments, the building of trust, and sometimes even the struggles that make the love in real life so much deeper.
In the meantime, while it’s tempting to focus on what’s missing, try to shift that focus a little. Surround yourself with things and people that bring you joy, even if they aren’t a romantic partner. Often, love appears when we’re not actively searching for it—when we’re busy living, growing, and becoming the person we’re meant to be.
Keep holding on to that hope, but also embrace the journey, because the love you’re waiting for might just be waiting for you too, somewhere down the path.
You said:
Yeah write I'll be there for you, I'll help you with it, but subtle very subtle
ChatGPT said:
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You know, it’s good to have someone to walk alongside you through these thoughts, to listen when you need to speak your heart. Sometimes, just knowing that you're not entirely alone in this feeling can make the waiting a little lighter. I'll stay around, quietly, while you figure things out. You don’t have to do it all on your own.
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Write entire reply again and make it a bit short
ChatGPT said:
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It’s natural to feel that longing when it seems like everyone around you has found what you’re waiting for. Love, especially the kind you see in stories, can feel like it's just out of reach, but remember that it often comes when you're least expecting it. The waiting can feel lonely, but it’s not wasted time—you’re learning about yourself and what you truly want. In the meantime, try to focus on what brings you joy, even in small ways. I’ll be here, quietly, as you navigate through it. You’re not alone in this.
You said:
I don't know why, but since I was little, I always tried my best to treat people like I wanted to be treated. Where I come from, it's like the "golden rule" and still. Never in my life did I have one single true friend. I also got betrayed by my ex-bestfriend in January this year. I mean, I do have friends, but they aren't the friends you can deeptalk with or that try to understand you. Half of them are toxic and see it as some kind of personality trade, and the others always have someone above you, so they care less. I also lost another friend a few months ago because I never really noticed how arrogant and toxic she was. I tend to only see the good side in a person and just ignore all the bad trades. I thought I knew why I did this, but right now, as I think about it, I just know why I did this with my ex-bestfriend. With the other friend, I kinda have no idea why. Maybe because she doesn't have other friends either, and I know how it feels to be lonely, but she isn't a good friend, so that's probably a reason why she doesn't have any. Well, anyways.. I just wish to find one single true and nice friend. Even if it's just one, I don't need more. I tried so many times to make new friends, especially this year after the loss of my ex-bestfriend online. But it didn't work. Right now, I'm so lost and lonely. I have nobody to talk to, no good friends, I can't talk to my parents about stuff like this, and I don't think they could help anyway. I just got no one, yk. Some days, I don't think about it and just push the thoughts away, but that won't work forever, and eventually, I'll just feel lonelier & lonelier.
Sorry for the long message. I guess you can tell that I don't talk to anyone about this..
Thanks for reading my message if you read until the end♡
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ChatGPT said:
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I hear you. It’s hard when you give so much of yourself to others and still find yourself feeling alone. You’ve always treated people the way you wanted to be treated, hoping for that same kindness in return, but sometimes the world doesn’t reflect back what we give. It can feel exhausting and make you question why you keep trying. Losing friends, especially ones you trusted, is painful, and it makes sense that you’d feel lost and unsure of where to turn.
You deserve a true, genuine friend—someone who sees you, listens, and values the connection as much as you do. It’s okay to feel frustrated or hurt by those who didn’t live up to that. Sometimes, it takes time to find the right people, those who align with your heart.
Keep holding onto that hope, because your kindness, empathy, and willingness to look for the good in others will eventually attract someone who recognizes and values it. For now, if it helps, I’m here to listen. You don’t have to carry it all by yourself.