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sympatheticWalker9328 July 22nd, 2023

I don't have any friends, at all. I need a friend. Is there anyone?

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Optimisticempath July 23rd, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328 yes 🤗 how are you?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 24th, 2023

I'm good , how are you?😊

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passionateThinker3248 July 24th, 2023

Hello, I would like to be friends

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 24th, 2023

Then let's be .😊

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passionateThinker3248 July 24th, 2023

Awesome let's, anything you like to do for a hobby? I personally like to write; even though, I'm not that good at it yet

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 24th, 2023

That's great. I would love to see some of ur work, I'm sure it will be great. For me, I don't know if I have a hobby . But my interests lie in watching movies and doing skincare and stuff . Idk if you could possibly call skincare a hobby😝. But here we are ..

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passionateThinker3248 July 24th, 2023

Maybe someday when I feel more confident in my work. Skincare counts as a hobby. A hobby is just something you genuinely enjoy doing, so as.long as you enjoy doing skincare it's a hobby. Movies are great too

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 24th, 2023

I will be waiting for that day. ❤️❤️❤️

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passionateThinker3248 July 24th, 2023

Yes one day

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 25th, 2023

Idk how to message you . I would love to talk . If you know how to , can you help me out. I'm trying to message you but I'm not finding any option.

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passionateThinker3248 July 25th, 2023

I hope your day is going well

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

My day is going a bit low. But im fine. What about you? I was not being able to respond because there's some problems going on . I was not feeling I could talk to you because I didn't wanted to bring ur spirit down. I would love to chat with you ,but there seems to be no option for that.

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

I'm doing well, and I totally understand. Sometimes we need space to be alone and figure things out. Yeah there isn't an option for that, but we probably could make a post for us to use to talk like texting

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

Talking like this feels like we have no privacy. I'm not comfortable like that

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

That's cool and I totally understand. Don't want you to do anything you are uncomfortable with

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

Which country are you from? This way we are not over sharing 😆

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

How about yourself?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

I'm from India

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

That's cool, I actually had a friend when I started college who was from India and her family moved here

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

Oh thats nice. How about your pronouns?

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

That's a good question, I really have never thought about that. I just identify as myself. Well because I believe everyone is unique. How about yourself?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

Your favourite musicians?

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

That's a tough one, I go through phases with music. When I'm feeling creative I tend to listen to classical music. How about yourself?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

Even then, name some so I can get an idea of who you might like or not .

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

I don't know whether to say good morning or good night because of the timezone differences. It's morning here

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

It's 7:33 pm here .

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passionateThinker3248 August 5th, 2023

I'm glad you liked the song. I hope you get some good rest. I also apologize for my inconsistencies, I get busy because of my work as a caretaker of elderly.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

There's nothing to apologise for. It made me so happy that you work as a caretaker of elderly. It made my heart really happy honestly.

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

So what do you like to listen to? And thanks

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

It depends on the mood . If I'm having an existential crisis , I listen to even more sad music . There is this song my body is a cage by arcade fire. And one goes by the name " Jaane de mujhe" , it's a Hindi song . So I just listen to whatever my mood is . But that's just me

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

I get that, honestly the same for me. I listen to certain music depending on my mood as well. Do you have any pets?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

Do you?

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

Yes I do, I have cats and dogs

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

Sounds like a dream life.😍 By the way I don't even know your name.

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

My name is David, how about yours?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

My name is kanishka

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

Now that I know your name, it's nice to meet you kanishks

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passionateThinker3248 August 6th, 2023

Sorry I accidently misspelled your name

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

It's fine David. I'm glad to meet you too .🤗

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

I listened to my body is a cage, it's a good song. I honestly never heard it before.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

That's good .

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

What's your favorite color and why is it your favorite?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I actually don't know what is my favourite colour. But the one that I often wear is black . So maybe it is my favourite colour. As a child , I was obsessed with pink . Pink bag, pink shoes, pink shirt, pink everything. But now it's black I guess. With black, i really don't know why it's my favourite, with pink I knew because I was obsessed with Barbie and everything used to be so pink in that . I used to love it so much . What about you ?

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

My favorite color is actually 2 colors. They are pink and blue. I love them because they represent me in a way. As a guy I got along with both women and men equally, because I can relate to both I guess.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

Did u watched Barbie?

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

I did not watch the Barbie movie, have you?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I did

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

Did you like it? What movie genres do you like?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I liked it . I wouldn't say it was mind-blowing but it was good . I like science fiction, psychological thrillers, romantic ones and comedy . What about you?

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passionateThinker3248 August 7th, 2023

Those are good, I love comedy, science fiction, and action

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

That's nice.

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

Favorite animal or animals?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

I love dogs .

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

Dogs are cool, I have been fascinated with big cats since I was a kid. I want to raise either a Siberian tiger or a Jaguar from a cub and keep them as a pet

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

I'm actually scared of cats because of some incident that happened to me when I was little.

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

That's understandable, my biggest fear is heights

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

Ohh I'm also scared of heights and I'm also really claustrophobic.

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

Those are the worst, my other fear is of deep water in like the ocean or a lake, it's the idea of not knowing what's around

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

That's scary .

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

Definitely is, I hope your day went well

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

By the way how old are you David , i don't know if this is appropriate to ask . But I haven't seen you , so this will give me a lil bit of idea of how you might look like.

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passionateThinker3248 August 8th, 2023

Yeah I'm not comfortable mentioning my age, but to answer your question I'm 31. I'm not old but not young either

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

Oh that's great. You have so much more wisdom and experience in life than me . And I know this is not something people are comfortable to talk about ,that's why I was skeptical if i should ask or not . But thank you for telling me even though u were not comfortable with it

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passionateThinker3248 August 9th, 2023

So I have never told you what originally brought me here to the app?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 9th, 2023

Yeah you haven't. But i would love to hear your story if you are comfortable.

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passionateThinker3248 August 9th, 2023

I appreciate all that, I'm just an old soul honestly. I do appreciate your kindness.


It's not a long story. I originally came here because of my best friend. Me and her are going through a breakup I believe. She became distant with me suddenly and I've been trying to save our friendship since November. I actually have stopped contacting her and officially let go. I shouldn't have to beg for her to be my friend and on top of that she doesn't even acknowledge me anymore. The stress of all that became too much and really brought me down, made me feel worthless and I was depressed. So I came here hoping that being here I could somehow find help. That's the short version of the story

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 9th, 2023

Yeah you are right u shouldn't have to beg people for anything, be it friendship, love or anything. Maybe she didn't felt the same thing that she did before. It happens . I know it's so cruel . But it does happen. There's no need for you to beg her if she doesn't want to continue this friendship. Just wish her well and maybe cultivate new friendship. I need you to respect yourself enough to let go of any person who doesn't want to be with you, as your well wisher. It's not going to be easy , healing is not linear. But you have to do it ,for yourself.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 9th, 2023

And I would love to be there for you emotionally through thick and thin. ❤️

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passionateThinker3248 August 9th, 2023

I appreciate all that, it has been hard without her. I haven't contacted her for a while. I truly appreciate your kindness and I'll help you if I can too

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 9th, 2023

It must have been . I understand that. But this too shall pass 🤗

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passionateThinker3248 August 10th, 2023

Thanks, it shall pass and better days are ahead for both of us.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 10th, 2023

Yeah absolutely ❤️

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passionateThinker3248 August 10th, 2023

I hope your day ends up being a good one. My day was quite busy

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 10th, 2023

Thanks, i hope you take rest and are taking care of yourself.

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steamrocks July 24th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328

Just when you think it is the bleakest time in your life, someone will walk into it and surprise you. I lost my best friend of nearly two years. he just instagrammed me almost out of the blue that he was "uncomfortable" with me and wanted to end it, then removed me from his ***, I saw him once after that and he didn't even make eye contact! In the weeks that followed, I have been shopping at a couple of big box hardware stores and almost accidentally struck up conversations with several of the people that waited on me and in one case, a customer that was looking for some of the same things that I was. In that last case, we wound up talking for over an hour in the store and exchanged contact information. We have been good friends ever since. So see, it can happen ANYWHERE, Be open to it, don't be shy, don't be afraid to start a conversation with someone if you find an opening, and by all means LOOK FOR AN OPENING, The meek will not inherit this part of the earth.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP July 25th, 2023

Wow, that sounds like a good start of a story. I know sometimes people we consider our friends do things like that. That must have felt really hard and I can relate to you because the same kind of thing happened to me as well when i was in school but its all in the past. And i will look forward to your advice on being open for friendship , maybe I can cultivate really good friendship through that. Thank you for your thoughts.

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Sudmantohelp August 5th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328

I can be your friend. Please reach out and we can happily connect


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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 5th, 2023

I would also love to be your friend, but I don't know any ways to message people from here directly:-(

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tae0was0here August 5th, 2023

if anyone wants to be friends msg me

she her

teen

loves reading and music(chase atlantic)

obsessed with psychology


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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

Would love to be friends but I don't know how to message people from here.

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tae0was0here August 6th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328

If you just press anyones profile pic then it leads to their profile and there is a message button or a 'chat now' button, click that and yeah.💕

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

There isn't in mine 🥲

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 6th, 2023

Can you message me first . Because I asked someone and they said only listeners can message like this .

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conscientiousTurtle2232 August 13th, 2023

@tae0was0here I'd like to be your friend. I'm currently lost I'll be open to you so it would be helpful to me if you could become my friend.

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tae0was0here August 13th, 2023

could you msg me then?

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Littlejuicy173 August 7th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328 yo how are you walker???

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I'm good , what about you ?😊

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August 7th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328

💖Hi Walker! It is so nice to meet you! I hope you find all you need here at 7cups, we have support chat rooms, sharing circle, exploration garden, and more! These rooms is where you can share your thoughts and make new friendships! I'd love to get to know you more!

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

Thank you for ur kind words. I would love to know you too🤗

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raspberrywriter444 August 7th, 2023

yess me! how r u?

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I'm great, how are you?

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playcandies August 7th, 2023

@sympatheticWalker9328

Hi there! I'm always available to talk if you need. If you don't mind being my friend of course. This platform is a pretty good way to make friends. Make sure to stay safe though!

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 7th, 2023

I would love to be your friend. Thanks for your kindness.

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SweetSwaggerLee August 8th, 2023

Is it this simple? Just asking?

I'm not a listener, but I'll listen.

I need friends, too.

I've burned every bridge.

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sympatheticWalker9328 OP August 8th, 2023

Well you tried to connect ,thats the first step. So yeah i believe you can ❤️

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