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Feel unwelcome and sad

theboymoana November 23rd, 2023

Lately most places cups feel unwelcome sad not belong ☹️so much new people group chats ignore me all time don’t understand why ignore and mean to me not even for reason 😭😭 when get confused things they talk about no one explain what means just ignore ignore ignore some people go in room and right I say something they say oh nevermind bye and go different room 

even autism forum get ignored ask thing but they answer all rest people act like why doesn’t know all these word for things just don’t make sense why need big words for something like a lot or whatever thing don’t understand is ☹️ know I am stupid don’t understand anything but isn’t fault have intellectual disability and not understand all English words ☹️

use to someone mean to me couple times week now mean every time come on here and make me really really sad☹️☹️😭😭😭why is ok people mean to me and why always people tell me just ignore them because how can ignore ? Can’t ignore so much people be mean not let me be part cups anymore 

have people tell me shut up and leave and whole life people want me shut up leave and not fair say that ☹️ do not want leave want stay and want people stop be mean to me 😭😭😭 when first come here two people was mean to me over over over over for almost year and tell mods and report them and do screenshot things and nothing ever happen but when finally I get upset enough be mean back get trouble every time only stop happening when one them age up and other one not so mean without friend there but just now happening again with lot people and make so upset 😭 why is ok treat me like not welcome and not even like person ☹️☹️😭one person few days ago keep call me she and tell them i am not she so they call me IT like not even person 

cups suppose help but let people bully me be mean me and no one stop them just all is me suppose ignore it Happening but CANT 😭 why is ok don’t understand ☹️😭😭😭😭☹️☹️😢😢😭

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glisteningLight2506 November 23rd, 2023

@theboymoana I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to remember that everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect. It's not okay for people to be mean or dismissive, and I can understand how hurtful and frustrating that must be for you.


Dealing with online negativity can be challenging, and it's unfortunate that you're experiencing it. It's important to prioritize your well-being, and if a particular online space is consistently making you feel unwelcome and unhappy, you might want to consider finding a more supportive community.

While it's true that ignoring negative comments can be one strategy, it's also important for moderators and administrators in online communities to address and prevent bullying and harassment. If reporting incidents hasn't yielded results, you might consider reaching out to the moderators again or exploring different platforms where you can connect with more understanding and supportive individuals.

It's not fair for anyone to be treated poorly because of differences or disabilities. You are valuable, and your feelings are valid. If you have friends or family you trust, consider talking to them about what you're going through. You don't have to face this alone.

Remember, there are supportive communities and people who will appreciate you for who you are. If you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to people you trust or seek professional support. There are organizations and hotlines that can provide assistance and understanding. You deserve kindness and respect.
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theboymoana OP November 26th, 2023

@glisteningLight2506

more supportive community where ? No where welcome no where is not fair tell leave go somewhere else just because mods not care how get treated here not fair i am allowed be ignore ignore ignore allow get mean comments to me all time and what mods do tell them nothing or change subject or say be supportive please 

does nothing think them people be nice that is what happens ? NO just nahoa suppose pretend not happens pretend is ok be ignored be bullied months and months and months and now not matter just be ban soon probably because freak out stupid group chat because sick them all allow ignore ignore ignore be mean mean mean mean mean 

mods Not care no one make thing different no one make different ever they not care all them care nahoa say someone name when not there nahoa not accept fake lie apology from person pretend they don’t ignore me over over over over on purpose 

then what happen ? Not help just make shut up go away and that what suppose happen ? Shut up go way find new place go because nahoa 14 not allow use social media got no friends no help not matter 😭😭😭😭😭😭☹️😭☹️😭☹️☹️☹️😭😭😭😢😢😢

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AffyAvo November 24th, 2023

@theboymoana Oh no! I'm sorry you do not feel welcome in the chatrooms all the time.

You are definitely welcome in the forums and you can flag if there's a problem.

In the group chats, does it help if a discussion is going on where someone is leading a session?

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theboymoana OP November 26th, 2023

@AffyAvo helps someone there but still people ignore not care is not fair ask help all time does matter get help ? No never helps ignore ignore ignore ignore ignore nahoa need help just like let people ignore be mean group chats only care when nahoa so upset freaking out in group chats but them NOT care WHY am upset not matter upset from people allow ignore me they just want nahoa SHUT UP GO AWAY no room stupid kid like nahoa deserve be hurt is how life suppose be hurt nahoa and that ok 

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Tinywhisper11 November 24th, 2023

@theboymoana hey sweetie, it's not ok for anyone to bully you😥 how are you feeling right now?

I hope you don't leave us😞 there are many people here who love, like me ❤ gives you a giant festive tiny hug ❤❤ sends lots of love your way ❤❤

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theboymoana OP November 26th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

feel sad and soon maybe banned cups because freak out so upset in group chat and mods not care why just want nahoa shut up mute me let people ignore treat like nothing trash them not care why upset only care make nahoa shut up go away not care stupid nahoa is just deserve have lot people hate nahoa no reason deserve so much ignore ignore ignore ignore ignore no reason deserve all make comments how stupid nahoa am understand nothing 

never will change none them care mods don’t care Obs don’t care report don’t care nothing matter ever 

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Tinywhisper11 November 26th, 2023

@theboymoana 😥 gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ sits with you for a while ❤❤

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Kristynsmama November 26th, 2023

@theboymoana

im sorry to hear that you are experiencing this at 7 cups.  It sounds like you really love this community and want to be accepted just as you are and that is not happening.

I agree with your other responses.  Reach out to the moderators everything something happens.  It is their job to make sure the rooms feel safe and inclusive for everyone.  Sometimes things slip through the cracks, esp if a room is busy and has a lot of conversation happening.

I hope that these responses help you to feel a little more supported.  You aren’t alone my friend.

As Always,

Kristy

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theboymoana OP November 26th, 2023

@Kristynsmama

mods not care ask help all time not ever changes not get help no one care 😭😭😭only when care is nahoa get really really upset can’t take any more and care just make nahoa shut up mute from chat do they care why so much upset ? No not care just want shut up go away 😭

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Kristynsmama November 26th, 2023

@theboymoana

im sorry you feel this way.  I wish I could change it, but I don’t have the qualifications to do so..  *Sits down next to you and @Tinywhisper11.

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