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would you date a girl with scars

FallenAngel97 July 12th, 2015

K so I've been cutting for almost 3 years now. I'm gonna be hopefully getting help for it but what I'm really worried about is that no one is gonna want to date a girl with scars on her thighs ...so I just want to know if this worry is valid ..has anyone experience something like thsee thoughts. Any input would be helpful. Thank you.

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SleepingImages July 12th, 2015

Any person who holds your scars against you doesn't deserve you. My boyfriend has never even commented on my own. Honestly, if you get grief for them just say screw em!

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faithfulTriangle3777 August 7th, 2015

She's right, if a guy has a problem with it, he's not the right one and it's better to find out sooner than later.

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crimsonWater9736 July 12th, 2015

Everyone has some type of scar, physical or mental. Loving someone is about accepting who they are, good and bad. If someone can't accept all of who you are then they don't deserve you.smiley

Mynameisadam July 12th, 2015

I would and currently do, the past is the past, all you deserve is someone who will make your future brighter

July 12th, 2015

I most certainly would. Physical attributes change. (Gravity really works!) I'm more concerned (not afraid mind you) of internal scars.

AlexSnyder July 12th, 2015

A scar is something that can be viewed in many ways. Emotionally, physically, mentally, and in sport . There's probably way more I'm forgetting to say because people have different opinions and views on things. For me and the things I experienced, yes I would love a girl if she had scars. I would be there for her. Hold her tight to show I care, because I wouldn't want her to give up. Kiss her. I would do everything I could to help her. I would love her.

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AlexSnyder July 12th, 2015

Sorry I meant to say in spirt not sport.

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dollerina July 12th, 2015

of course.

OnceLostButWillBeFound July 12th, 2015

Yes,why not? I have scars too..

1Marceline1 July 23rd, 2015

Everyone has scars, some people's are just visible. I would date a person with scars for I have scars to. I don't think it should matter if people have scars or not!

BerryTea July 23rd, 2015

My boyfriend hasn't realise about them... Lol. Maybe it's because its always dark... Anyway...Everybody have problems. He should understand the problem you had (or have?) and should take care of you. Explain what happened to you, why you used to do that. We all have a dark or sad past. It's gonna be fine :)

AloLiz17 July 23rd, 2015

A person that judges you for your scars is a person not worthy of you. I would love a guy regardless if he had scars of not, because you fall in love with the content, not the cover. Also, I'm very proud of you reaching out for help!

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NeroBlack August 7th, 2015

As long as shes a great person and faithful then id date her.

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