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User Profile: MindfulTimer890
MindfulTimer890 May 26th, 2019

I feel so sad because it seems like every boy I like doesnt like me back. Im very shy and too insecure to even approach a guy. I dont have the confidence to approach boys because Im afraid they wont like me back and hugely because Im scared that almost every boy is or will be homophobic.

I shut down and start crying and getting depressed whenever I see a cute boy or someone I like, just because I think Im not good enough for them.

Ive never had a boyfriend but I want one so bad. I just want someone who will love me and someone I can talk too about things.

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User Profile: Dancersoul
Dancersoul May 26th, 2019

@MindfulTimer890

Hey there I go through this at times. Have you asked yourself why you want a bfriend? What do you think he will do for you that you cant do without him By that I mean are you putting a hope that he will change your life?

Now I know why I want one because I get lonely but I started doing things on my own to fill the void.

Do you have meetup groups where you can meet other single teens? Not sure your exact age but make sure you dont want one because everyone else has one

I do hope you find a good one! You will sometimes we get things when we least expect them

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User Profile: MindfulTimer890
MindfulTimer890 OP May 28th, 2019

Hey @Dancersoul.

Thank you for replying back to me. I think I want one because I mean it seems like everyone has one or is getting one. And but its also because Ive gone through my entire first few years of life while never having been in a relationship and its kind of concerning me even though its not important. But seeing as Ill be going to college soon, and what not. But in the end I just want someone wholl love me and someone wholl support me and be there for me.

I mean Im not aware of any groups or events for single teens like me, but I mean it does sound like a good opportunity to meet up and find other LGTBQ teens.

But, thank you both for your input on this.

: )

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