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Dancersoul
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PathStep 243 Compassion hearts161 Forum posts391 Forum upvotes409 Current upvotes409 Age GroupAdult Last activeApril, 2021 Member sinceAugust 30, 2015
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I love reading, dancing, fashion, singing, my kitty,trivia and a good film that makes one think.
I am maintaining a large weight loss and hope to gain and give support to others.
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Why can't I be angry if I want
Relationship Stress / by Dancersoul
Last post
 February 27th, 2020
...See more So I'm usually very funny and happy at work and today was having a bad day I've been very depressed my job is been horrible my ex is in town to stressing me out my cat just had surgery so I wasn't feeling good and you know in the beginning of the day somebody even said you know you don't look yourself and I said I'm just having you know I just don't feel good so then I went to help them with something and something they said must have annoyed me or something they didn't oide me and they're like well you sound really nasty and I said I'm not allowed to have a bad day too I don't understand you know people take stuff personally I have the worst bosses sometimes and I let it go I say one thing and everybody gets mad at me so my day is over and all I kept thinking is that I feel guilty for having a bad day so I think I'm going to start becoming a voluntary mute and I'm not going to talk to anybody so I don't hurt anybody it's a horrible feeling because I'm a very social person and these mood swings I've been having I really starting to affect my relationships
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Sad and confused
Relationship Stress / by Dancersoul
Last post
 February 26th, 2020
...See more So a guy that I used to date has a new girlfriend and I saw pictures of them together in a place that I had always ask him to take me. but he is a player and I told him that I don't want to fool around with him while he has a new girlfriend and his answer was they are not that close. well I don't believe it and I think that because I'm not sleeping with him he's backing off. so he's come to town about a week he called me on the way to the States,called me when he got to the states and now he says he's sick which he is but I I asked him so are we going to get together while you're here and he said will you know I have to look at my calendar . he never used to say something like that like before he couldn't wait to see me and it just makes me sad that he doesn't want to see me anymore not so much romantically but he is the closest thing I have to a good friend and I don't have a lot of friends. I try everything but I've talked to my therapist about it and she agreed I am doing the best I can and not easy. Sometimes I just feel like it's too much of an effort to try when nothing comes of it and it just keeps me from going out at all
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breaking up? with a friend Plus
Relationship Stress / by Dancersoul
Last post
 November 3rd, 2019
...See more I've stayed friends with an ex for over 2 years now. Once in a while, it rolls over into more than that and I have decided to put an end to that, This is difficult as we have known each other for longer than that and have gotten closer each year.I remember Gweneth Paltrow calling her divorce a "conscious uncoupling" and I am liking it to that. My ex is a womanizer and I don't want to be a part of his harem. The problem is we have so much in common that when he is here we do fun things and I actually love his pad so I used to love to stay over. But I don't want to give the wrong impression so I am declining the invite. I have to admit I am sad at this among other things that are going on in my life but its a feeling of loss in many ways. My nephews are older and I used to take them out and do things but now have school and their own friends. I am a social yet private person in some ways and have a hard time keeping friendships going for whatever reason. I find myself doing many things on my own because there just isn't someone to do them with and I don't want to miss out on something that Id like to do regardless. Everyone have a great weekend Happy DIA DE LOS MUERTOS
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Relationships professional and personal
Depression Support / by Dancersoul
Last post
 March 27th, 2019
...See more I'm finding im sad more often than not and I have my first psychiatrist visit Monday I don't trust men I have trouble keeping friends and even at work i've had disagreements with people . I have a chronic pain issue and am a victim of childhood abuse. I try to do fun things but Monday is the worse! I almost cry each Monday morning getting ready for work I don't want to do it anymore I'd rather travel and see the world I wonder if I'll be strong enough emotional and physical
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Ldr over yet not
Relationship Stress / by Dancersoul
Last post
 March 25th, 2018
...See more The long-distance relationship that I had for about 7 months 8 months came to a close because I feel the person can't be trusted travels too much and is too close to his ex-wife it makes me very uncomfortable that I'm the one waiting and then when he's in town I'm happy it's just not healthy to be that way even now that we've trying to be friends quote it's hard for me he went away again on business and it was hard then I think actually the only thing I've learned in this is that I love the attention and being with someone thatliked the same things I do that appreciates Cultural Arts and things like I do I have trouble meeting people that I connect with and it makes me sad that I'm back at square one again I'm miss him now that he out of the country and he isn't what I need I need someone that will appreciate me and will love me
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