I want you to know that you are better than me.
Hello Lovely people,
I want you all to know that you are better than me. If you've had a relationship then yes you are definitely 1000% better than me. Im almost 30 years old and ive never had a relationship in my life and have been told that i am very very ugly. I would show u my face here but then im sure i would hirt ur eyes. I was stupid and spent all my time focusing on school getting my bachelors and masters in computer science and not dating like everyone else. I have alot of regrets.
i hope that you guys find the love and happiness that you deserve because I know i wont. Just remember you are better than me , in every single way and i can never be as good as u guys.
take care everyone!!
@diplomaticBirch7532
Hello Wonderful Soul,
First, let me say that your message touched my heart deeply. I want you to know that you are incredibly valuable and worthy of love, just as you are. Please don't let anyone's hurtful words make you believe otherwise.
Your dedication to your education is admirable. Achieving a bachelor's and a master's in computer science is no small feat, and it's something to be immensely proud of. It shows your determination, intelligence, and hard work. These qualities are truly remarkable and inspiring.
It's important to remember that everyone’s journey is different. Relationships and love come at different times for everyone, and there's no right or wrong timeline. You are not behind, and you certainly are not less than anyone else.
Your heart seems to be filled with kindness and care for others, and that is beautiful. You deserve to find love and happiness, and it will come to you in its own time. Please be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to believe that you are just as deserving of love and happiness as anyone else.
Take care of yourself, and remember that you are special and important, just as you are.
🤍✨
@tranquilechoes
💛💛💛💛 love ur comment
@SummerKay2024
thank you so much but comforting someone and making them feel better is the least I can do for them 🤍✨
@diplomaticBirch7532 hi sweetie, first of all No one is better than anyone else ❤ we are all equals. Also only your actions can make a person ugly, not their looks. I'm 23 and I've never dated anyone. (Though I never plan too) 30 years old your barely a quarter way through life yet. So you chose to study get your degree, I think that means you did it the right way round. Now you have all that, now you can concentrate on having fun. Remember the most attractive thing a person can have is confidence. So we need to fix the fact you feel ugly. You know just a new haircut, a new kind of fashion/clothes well simple things like that can really boost your confidence. ❤ hugs you tightly, ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
While those things can definitely boost confidence, a lack of confidence can also be a result of your parents or any other family members depending on how they treated or mistreated you and raised you and spoke to you. Abusive parents are very traumatic especially when they’re abusive to their innocent children who don’t know enough to do anything about it and just have to suffer from trauma for who knows how long along with the affects and impact it’ll have on them and their life going forward. Some people even in adulthood are suffering from their childhood trauma and it’s impacting them in more than one way and affecting many aspects of their lives. Same thing goes for bullying and how teachers spoke to and treated their students and peer pressure can affect/impact someone too.
A new haircut and all that you mentioned are great ideas however for those who dealt or are dealing with any or all of the above won’t get their confidence with a new haircut.
Toxic abusive traumatizing people are very difficult to deal with and whatever they did is equally as difficult if not more difficult to get over.
I’m simply just saying for the sake of saying it. Not trying to downplay anything you said but if it feels that way I’m very sorry ❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown hi sweetie ❤ no offence taken, I appreciate your input ❤ I try to be supportive of everyone, what I say is not always correct, so I'm thankful for your honest opinion 🙂❤ I've never had parents or any family so I don't know much about that stuff. And yeah trauma is hard to deal with and get past😥
@diplomaticBirch7532
I’ve never dated much less ever been in an actual relationship with anyone nor have I ever had any friends either. But that doesn’t mean others (especially the ones who have or had friends and/or relationships) are better than you. No way. Not at all. Absolutely not.
Have you ever thought about the the reason why you’ve never been in a relationship is bc no one’s good enough to be in a relationship with you?
People typically think they don’t have friends or are in relationships bc they’re not good enough but they never tried looking at it from the point of view that I just presented to you.
If it makes you feel any better and more confident in yourself then I’ll be friends with you. I’m all in with that ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sure lets be friends. I would like to get to know u.
@diplomaticBirch7532
Glad u feel that way. Hugs ❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
Thank you ❤️❤️
@diplomaticBirch7532
I would like to tell you that true beauty really is within ur value, ur kindness, vulnerability, compassion those traits are hard to come by. I've known some pretty people that were just ugly.
My husband and I found love at 38 we met online and when we first met he always made comments like your way out of my league and always about outer beauty and the way he viewed himself. I had to teach him about self love and a boost that self esteem up.
You should be incredibly proud of urself for all ur achievements in ur degrees half of us find love and don't accomplish what you did. ✨️
Everyone's love journey is different so be kind and gentle with urself and let love come to you. When u least expect it you will find it 🙂
Im really happy that you found someone amazing in your life. Unfortunately where I live people value looks over personality.
I love that you greeted everyone by calling them lovely :) I truly believe that one has to have kindness in their heart to be willing to selflessly give out compliments like that to strangers. I'm not sure if it would be fair to judge how much better someone is based on their relationship status or anything honestly because everyone is different with different ways of dealing with life and with different life problems. We don't know what people's lives are like, we can't label a good, better, best to them cause we haven't lived them. What we do have is our own and sometimes it might play out differently than whatever expectations we have based on what we see around us but that doesn't mean it is the standard for how things should be for a person's life to be labelled as better.
