Crying.
When was the last time you cried and why? You can share the last time you cried and why if you want. I feel like sharing it could help getting over it specially knowing there is someone here ready to support you.
@Idontbelongtothisplanet can't say exactly but like 3-4 weeks ago , I'm living alone in another city for my College away from my home , it's been a year now , just a month before I had a vacation at my home , but after I came , 1-2 weeks passed , I started feeling alone back again , I'm an introverted guy with low self esteem, and but trust and attachment issues, it's been a rough year here bc many ppl like left me so I'm already not doing well , I'm alone , I just wanted someone withme , I don't have any gf or any close person (all my friends are at hometown, I do have friends here in college but not much close) , and only one i miss even right now is my cat (you can see her in my pfp) , she's at my home bc i can't bring her , I raised her since she was 20 days old , she's 2.5yrs old now , I love her from my bottom of my heart and that day idk why I just felt I need her that time , i cried that time bc I missed her , I just wanted to feel her. Rn I'm doing good , i miss her more day by day , but yes I'm going to meet her again for my a small trip back to home in like 40-45 days , time passes quickly, I'll meet her soon so I'm excited abt that
@amicableZebra1684i am glad you are doing better and about to see her again!! also i get what you feel i lost 2 cats back in the day and even now i haven't been seeing my 2 cats for several reasons and i will not be able to see them for a couple months at least.
Hope you see yours soon , cats are just mythical creatures fr , they get attached to them so easily ❤️😇
@Idontbelongtothisplanet hugs you tightly ❤
@amicableZebra1684 awwww ❤ missing a pet is soooo hard, but I bet she's really proud of you for going to college, time does fly your right, she will be back in your arms in no time at all. As for feeling lonely, I know that's one of the worst feelings. But your doing really well, and the fact that you have made some friends there, is really good ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤ we are all here for you ❤
@Tinywhisper11 She actually knows I'm out for something, that's why she doesn't miss me at all , otherwise when I go back, she literally spends all day around me , she's an outdoor cat , she goes out normally for like atleast 2-3 days before coming back , but when I go home , she spends all day with me ❤️
@amicableZebra1684 she definitely loves you ❤ and she misses you, but in a good way. She knows you'll come back to her, whenever your able too ❤ she's a proud, happy kitty. You brought her up right ❤❤
I cried today. I have been feeling so overwhelmed with my job. I feel like everyone hates me. I feel like my coworkers hate me, I feel like my friends and family hate me. I am not sure if it’s a fake thought in my head or if it is true.
I came home from work and my fiancé gave me a long hug. On my drive home from work I explained to him what I was feeling about my coworkers and how upset it’s been making me feel. When I got home he gave me a long hug and it made me break down and cry.
I just can’t get out of my own head, and I can’t get out of my own way. Everyone tells me that it’s no big deal, but I can’t even think straight and my emotions feel like they’re spiraling.
@adventurousPomegranate5582 i"m so sorry you feel like this, but i'm glad your partner is taking care of you, as it should always be! 💖
Yes I felt so supported and heard in that moment. Thank you for this outlet!
@adventurousPomegranate5582 wraps you up in a cosy blanket and hugs you tightly ❤❤I'm sorry you are struggling with this 🙁 a good cry is sometimes all we need ❤❤
I 10000% agree. I felt a lot better today and was able to come into work with less intrusive thoughts and less anxiety!!! ð©·ð©·ð©·ð©·ð©·
@adventurousPomegranate5582 oh yaaay! That's good news ❤❤ well done sweetie ❤
@Idontbelongtothisplanet
Today. Everyday. There's been so much death this year. So much loss, trials, and tribulation. It seems to never stop. I jokingly told my husband that it seems like the universe is trying to turn us into villains.
@InconsiderateLemon4505 awww loosing people we care about is just so hard😥 bless you ❤gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
if I was a villain, I'd be🤔🤔🤔🤔 doctor evil😁 who would you be???
@Idontbelongtothisplanet last time I cried, was about 10 minutes ago. I cry alot lately, it's my sons birthday next Tuesday, he's a angel in heaven now. And I miss him so much😞
@Tinywhisper11 Oh my lord i am sorry!!! I can't imagine how it might feel for a mother to lose her son! i'm really really sorry and to be honest you are really strong to go on like this and even have the time to comfort others
@Idontbelongtothisplanet thankyou ❤ supporting others here, brings me happiness and a sense of purpose🙂❤
but yeah I would do anything to hold my boy again, see his face once more. I'm actually really really struggling right now. But I'm trying 🙂 ❤
@Tinywhisper11 i don't know if you are religious, but i prayed for you, and it's something i don't do often. I read some things on your profile and your situation truly saddens me, but i think i never saw someone strong like you. If i was in your situation i would go insane, you are really a great GREAT person and you deserve the world
@Idontbelongtothisplanet that's very sweet of you to say ❤ I believe in God and angels and heaven, but I don't class myself as any particular religion. So thankyou for the prayer ❤
@Tinywhisper11 so sorry to hear that , he sure is an angel and trust me he must be watching from heaven, so don't be sad , he won't like seeing you sad , , you sure are a strong person, I genuinely felt good after your comforting words, thankyou so much for that , You are doing such a wonderful job ❤️.
It's okay to cry, to feel the weight of your grief. But please know you're not alone. His memory will be cherished, No matter how you choose to spend the day, you'll be holding him close in your heart. So don't be sad and cry , we all are with you here.
@amicableZebra1684 🙂❤ thankyou, his birthday the staff and other residents here at the carehome pay their respects and out flowers by his cross in the garden ❤ I buy a cake that we share out here. And I've wrote him a poem, I'm going to attach it to a balloon and let it float up to heaven ❤ I spend the day just sat by his cross, talking to him. I bought him a skateboard🙂 there's a large chest under the willow tree where is cross is, I put all his presents, letters I write him, and things I make him in there. I just wish he was here😥 I'm not sure how I'm gonna make it through this next 6 days
@Tinywhisper11 I'm sure he'll love his presents , his skateboard and sure your poem will reach him ❤️, we all are with you , he is happy in heaven knowing how much you are about him , I'll pray for happiness for you , your son and everyone around you to God 🙏🛐❤️
@amicableZebra1684 ❤🙂 thankyou ❤ your very sweet ❤
I am so sorry for your loss!! Sending you virtual hugs and comfort to wherever you are right now ❤️ your feelings and emotions are valid and you are allowed to cry and feel what you’re feeling! Xo
@adventurousPomegranate5582 thankyou for your kind words ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
That is so sad. I never lost a child, the pain throughout the year and especially on his birthday must be awful/horrible. I am sending you my love and support. You are stronger than you know.
@TJItalia ❤❤ thanks sweetie ❤❤
Yesterday, when my colleague that I thought liked me told me he’s engaged and getting married next week. I was crushed and thought that I’m not good enough for anyone.
@SabrinPatience aw that's cute i'm sorry for what happened! you are more than enough, you were just unlucky.
Thanks you ❤️ I guess I should be patient like my name!
@SabrinPatience awww sweetie I'm so sorry 😥 wraps you up in a cosy blanket and hugs you tightly ❤ you are more than enough ❤ your prince will find you, never give up ❤❤
Thank you for your kind words 🥰 Hopefully he’ll find me before I give up in love
@SabrinPatience awww sweetie never give up on love ❤
@Idontbelongtothisplanet My last time crying was separation from my friends that I just made. It's just the feeling of making new friends just to be apart. I cried so bad because some are across the end of the world and the distance is killing me. I'm the shy type and if I make friends, I will cherish this friendship because it means fate let us meet. Up till now, I want to go back...
@Vane26 😥 that's sad, I'm sorry sweetie. But you know friends come and go, due to life's circumstances, so always treasure the memories of them being part of your life, if only for a little bit ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
@Idontbelongtothisplanet so I've noticed you haven't talked about the last time you cried, no pressure of you don't want to share ❤ but if you do, we are here for you to ❤
@Tinywhisper11 oh yes i would share but it's rather embarassing. The reason why i cried is pretty pathetic and i don't wanna share it because it's really stupid and embarassing, only a loser would cry over what i cried.
@Idontbelongtothisplanet 🤔🤔 was you watching the simpsons??? Or did you stub your toe????
@Tinywhisper11 😂😂
@Tinywhisper11 no no, nothing like that... it's serious but, yeah..
@Idontbelongtothisplanet your not a baby for showing your emotions ❤ no reason that makes you cry is silly ❤ whatever you've been through, whatever your going through, I will keep you in my prayers ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 thanks, really, you are the person with the biggest heart i have ever talked to.
@Idontbelongtothisplanet awww that's sweet of you to say ❤
I have daily crying spells, often several times a day. My life is just a complete disaster.
@nicePapaya7316 gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤
Few hours ago. I felt lost at a crossroad that I pass almost everyday for my entire life. And suddenly I was lost. Just a fraction of second. But gave me a huge panic attack and after that, well. I just hate it.
@BlackKitten2019 gives you a hug ❤ and a map to show you the way ❤ sorry your feeling lost
About 5 days ago. My daughter has deleted me from social media and has said that she needs a break from me. All because I was thinking about taking a mental health course like her. Says I have copied her for her whole life. Which isn’t true at all.
@blueAcai236 What? that sounds crazy! Hm i don't know. I also took distance from my mother recently and i think she is really hurt. I don't know how it feels. I could probably tell you why your daughter did that, but i am not able to, because the reason sounds so bizarre.. i am really sorry anyways, i hope you get better as soon as possible
My daughter has always been very opinions. I have raised her to speak her mind. I’m not really sure what she may be going through. I’m hoping by allowing her this space will help her
Also feel free to give me any insight you may have. I really don’t want to do anything to make any of my kids feel badly.
Hi BlueAcai, I get how much this hurts and especially how it’ hurts when a loved one misunderstands us.
i really think this will pass if you give your daughter a lot of space. Like “hang her out to dry” amount of space.
You’ve worked so hard, sacrificed so much for her to be well set up on life. Unfortunately, she has a lot of maturing to do so give it time,
The key thing is to shift your focus on caring for yourself and your feelings because the distance wont be easy. But perhaps now is the time to explore and deepen other relationships.
Best wishes. MaryintheTrees
@blueAcai236 give her some time ❤ perhaps a calm heart to heart with her when she's calmed down
