Starting over in 50s = overwhelming

@anonuser2023

You are not alone ....... any time someone is going through a transition and starting over or something new they have those feelings of ...... what should I do? how can i get this done ASAP because honestly age is in the back of your mind ....... what ifs often lead people to take the procrastination road.

start small do one thing a day ........ network with old and new friends and acquaintances do not talk your self out of things but talk yourself up ..... you have a lot of life experience that is helpful.

@anonuser2023

I am going to bring up President Joe Biden in a non political way. He is 80 going on 81. And he is President, and running for re-election!! In his 80's!!!!!

So no you haven't reached a dead end. A plateau, sure. But lots of possibilities!!

@anonuser2023

I'm really glad you posted. Starting over is never easy, but when we are older, it seems like it's going to be more difficult and there is more of a question if we can. but people do it frequently - change companies, create companies and remake themselves at this age and older.

When you think about what you would like to do with your life today, what comes to mind? Are there things that you can see yourself doing now? If it wasn't about your confidence, what would be something you would enjoy and would want to do for work?

Sometimes with the experience that comes with this age group, consulting is an option.

Depression can be difficult to manage and does happen sometimes when there are major changes that are unexpected, or other things that may be going on. You might want to consider talking to your physician related to the depression. Depression can impact motivation and the ability to do what you want or need to do, as well as lack of energy, loss of interest in things that once interested you and other changes.

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the solidarity and inspiration. I've started working with a coach and hopefully can start building the life I've always said I wanted.

@anonuser2023 You're resilient and brave for trying different things. I can relate as I am doing the same thing in mid-life as well. I try to remember that there are no rules, no "right" way to do anything, and the future is not written so who knows what people, finances, jobs, etc will arrive.