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Just need a little help with developing confidence

basilcandle February 16th, 2020

Hello! So one of my friends told me that is should just pretend i am confident and act like a book character or a celebrity who has tons of confidence. Can you suggest me someone?

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DistortionHeart February 16th, 2020

@basilcandle

take a deep breath and tell yourself "I can do this" it helps to have support that are cheering you along the way

whatever works best for you but i think pretending to be someone else makes you feel like your real self isn't good enough so I think to tell yourself "I am good enough" may be better than thinking your not good enough to be yourself

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basilcandle OP February 16th, 2020

@DistortionHeart

Thank you for your advice...:)

I just have a lot of problems when interacting with friends. I used to be so scared that they don t like me so i became very superficial.

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chonamgyulx1 February 17th, 2020

@basilcandle

I think the first step is to be okay with all your flaws bcs nobody escaped from being flawed.

More seemingly confident people are trying to "act" confident too, so you're not alone at all :)