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basilcandle
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PathStep 152 Compassion hearts336 Forum posts57 Forum upvotes67 Current upvotes67 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2021 Member sinceFebruary 8, 2020
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just someone who wants to be better
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Anxiety Support / by basilcandle
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September 17th, 2020
...See more hello! I just found on the internet a booklet about overcoming anxiety. I am so happy i found it and i hope it can help me forget about my fears step by step. ( i just needed to tell someone about it) 🥺 i really believe i can make a change
I feel so stuck and anxious
Anxiety Support / by basilcandle
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August 24th, 2020
...See more Hi! I m starting my sophomore year in september and i am scared. I lost contact with all my classmates and none of the groups of people in my class makes me feel like i belong. Since the lockdown started i kind of took a break from everything and i realised that some things work better without me. It s been so hard lately to try and get back in touch with people and save somehow the friendships because i am always the one who asks them to go out and they don t put enough effort in it and i feel so unwanted when i talk to the people i was close with one year ago. I would do aaanything to meet new people and make new friends. Eventhough i find it hard to open up to people again i just want to let all these past friendships let go.... and that s why i am so scared. I changed so much in the last year. I can t focus at my studies at all and i feel sorry for myself sometimes.... ok. That s all. Thank you so much for reading. I am so happy to be in this community... take care!
I changed so much
Anxiety Support / by basilcandle
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June 18th, 2020
...See more So i just finished my first year of high school and i feel so alone and also so insecure about the future. I have been feeling way more anxious than i used to be 7 months ago and i started to accept these fears but i keep wondering why i started to be so and why i can t change back. Every person i know is so confident and is like making fun of this disorders and everytime i meet other people they treat me in a strange way and then everything about me feels so wrong. I isolated myself from everybody and i am barely speaking to my " best friends". I feel so alone in this and i am afraid i will be this lonely antisocial and scared person for the rest of my life. My plans seem pointless and many things i enjoyed one year ago don t make sense anymore. I don t know what to do...:) Sorry, this is so long. Stay safe!< 3
Just need a little help with developing confidence
Anxiety Support / by basilcandle
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February 17th, 2020
...See more Hello! So one of my friends told me that is should just pretend i am confident and act like a book character or a celebrity who has tons of confidence. Can you suggest me someone?
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