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I feel so stuck and anxious

basilcandle August 23rd, 2020

Hi! I m starting my sophomore year in september and i am scared. I lost contact with all my classmates and none of the groups of people in my class makes me feel like i belong. Since the lockdown started i kind of took a break from everything and i realised that some things work better without me. It s been so hard lately to try and get back in touch with people and save somehow the friendships because i am always the one who asks them to go out and they don t put enough effort in it and i feel so unwanted when i talk to the people i was close with one year ago. I would do aaanything to meet new people and make new friends. Eventhough i find it hard to open up to people again i just want to let all these past friendships let go.... and that s why i am so scared. I changed so much in the last year. I can t focus at my studies at all and i feel sorry for myself sometimes....

ok. That s all. Thank you so much for reading. I am so happy to be in this community... take care!

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emily2803 August 23rd, 2020

@basilcandle Hi! I can understand how you feel and it can be really difficult to be starting a new school year, especially without good support systems like your friends. It sounds like you're feeling anxious about making new friends that can be better and more beneficial to you. I'm glad that the community has been helpful for you and that you're able to talk about your issues. If you ever feel the need to have a conversation with one of the community Listeners, just know that we're here for you and are more than happy to help you work through your thoughts. Talking can be really therapeutic and can help quell some of your nervousness. This is a process that I'm sure you're going to work through! You're such an amazing person. <3

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basilcandle OP August 24th, 2020

@emily2803

Yess the people on this website helped me so much! Ohh your replies make me feel so hopeful and confident about myself! Thank youu

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emily2803 August 24th, 2020

@basilcandle I'm glad that you're able to feel a lot more confident in yourself and have your thoughts be heard by the other Listeners! We're here to make you feel heard and help you work towards becoming the best version of yourself.

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