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New To The Anxiety Support Community? Introduce Yourself Here!

Laura November 29th, 2014

Let us know more about you, what brings you to 7 Cups! We are glad you are here!

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inkmage June 9th, 2015

Hi all! :3 My name is Emy and I'm a high school graduate. I started having pretty bad anxiety and some depression after a super stressful junior year with school and some difficult friends. I didn't even realize it was so bad until I went to therapy. Now I'm taking mild medication,on summer vacation and feeling much better although I still have panic attacks once in a while. Good to meet you all!

Hey All! My name is Amber and I just joined today, I am 22. I have lived with anxiety my whole life but was not diagnosed until the Fall of 2013 when I was having one to two panic attacks a week and would be down for two days after. I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Depression, and suspicion of PTSD. I am a recent college grad with my bachelors in Psychology and Religious Studiesand spent the year getting bullied and emotionally abused by two of my three roommates. Since about March my counselor I was seeing at school and a staff member (Director of Students with Disabilities) started getting worried sick for me because I was not acting myself and withdrawing from everything. They were/are suspicious of a chemical imbalance and want me to talk to a psychiatrist or my Dr. but my PTSD is because of doctors and cannot bring myself to tell her. Ihaveparents who are not receptive of my medical or mental health, and no support as all my friends are 2+ hours from me, and so it was suggested to me to try support groups oran app for my phone to help. I have struggled for 19 yrs with being bullied and dealing with anxiety and doctors and medical problems so if you need help with those I am willing to talk, I also have been told by friendsI can give good adviceespecially withrelationships.

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huggerofcats March 26th, 2016

@bambivball Hi, I've also been trying to cope with medical issues. wish you the best of luck and so sorry about what happened.

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bales18 June 10th, 2015

hey guys I'm new to the support group and I take medication for my anxiety. I had my first panic attack in March of this year. My parents thought i had something physically wrong with me. i had my panic attack at school, that was the worst day of my life.

ilaynay June 10th, 2015

Ummmm... hi. I'm Sara. My primary diagnosis is depression, but I get a nice side order of anxiety too. And that's what's bothering me right now so... I guess here I am.

I've been on meds--various ones, trying to figure out the best combo--for... I lose track. Time is weird. Three years? More? Had some therapy near the beginning of that for a few months, was doing better and quit, and then a little over a year ago stress triggered a bad relapse so I went back into therapy. Different therapist this time, and I feel a lot better with this one, and I'm making good progress. I'm down to once a month visits. When the anxiety and depression hit me, though, they hit pretty hard.

And right now they seem to do so with suspiciously cyclical regularity. But my gyn tells me it's normal for women my age to start having dramatic hormonal shifts even if not yet actually menopausal. (No one ever told me that before. Argh. The things no one warns you about...) And my meds work fine the rest of the month, there are just some peaks where things get worse. So I'm trying to develop good coping skills to be more aware of times when I'm more vulnerable to those attacks and to be able to get myself through them a little better.

I used to be heavily involved in online forums (not here) and chats, but haven't really been since things got really bad the first time. I've found that such communities are particularly vulnerable to drama, and my threshold on that is really low right now. So I'm a bit nervous here, I guess. I don't know how involved I want to be in a community right now, or how much I want to talk to strangers about how I feel. But I feel like I can't talk freely with most people in my life for various reasons, and given that it seems like this might be worth trying. I'll start here in the forums and work up to a chat, I suppose.

When I started thinking about joining up, I was in the midst of a wave of high anxiety... It's weird to talk about because it doesn't seem to quite match up with typical descriptions of anxiety--there's no focus, no thought or thoughts that overwhelm me. It's just a big fuzzy nervousness. It was short-lived--I'm better now, maybe half an hour later--but I don't know if I can really call it a panic attack because again it doesn't really match what you hear about panic attacks being. I'm not afraid I'm going to die, or whatever, I'm just afraid. I just want to hide. (Afraid of what? Nothing specific. Whee.) Whether typing all these helped, or taking a step toward seeking support helped, or I just naturally got past it, I'm not sure...

This is a lot longer than I thought it would be, and I'm starting to ramble. So. Um. Hi.

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huggerofcats March 26th, 2016

@ilaynay Hi, a lot of my anxiety doesn't have a focus, either. It almost feels like my head is so overwhelmed with nervousness that I don't really have thoughts--at least not in concious word form (if that makes any sense). Sometimes, the anxiety will start off being driven by something, but I'll completely forget what I'm scared about by the time it gets really bad. So I might know where you're coming from.

I also don't think I'm going to die when I get "panic attacks," and since people always describe it like "feeling like you're going to die," it can really lead some people to question themselves. I looked up the definition of panic attack recently and got this (source):

"Shortness of breath or hyperventilation

Heart palpitations or a racing heart

Chest pain or discomfort

Trembling or shaking

Choking feeling

Feeling unreal or detached from your surroundings

Sweating

Nausea or upset stomach

Feeling dizzy, light-headed, or faint

Numbness or tingling sensations

Hot or cold flashes

Fear of dying, losing control, or going crazy"

So, based on this, not every person experiencing a panic attack feels like they're going to die. From what I've heard, a lot of people may interperate the physical symptoms of a panic attack that way, which especially makes sense if one is already in a state of panic. It probably depends on the person, though.

Hope this helps somebody! Feel free to correct me on anything.

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DiplomaticShade6349 June 10th, 2015

Im new here. This is the first time ive ever done something like this. Im not good at opening up and sharing because Ive never wanted to be a burden to anyone. I tend to worry an over think alot. When I try to sleep, i just lay there and worry an over think that i tend to make myself panic. So I dont sleep much. I see everyone around me happy and living their lives an im like...why cant i be happy? Instead i feel stressed and on edge all the time.

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Amylane July 22nd, 2015

Do what you can just for today

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hardworkingGio June 10th, 2015

Ehm... Hi! I've been struggling with anxiety since last year, but now is getting little by little worse. I'm worried that it'll be a big problem when in a few months I'll start working. Any tip about overcome anxiety? I don't want this to be aproblem in the futuresad

CuriousVishal June 10th, 2015

Hi all, Vishal here.. i have some social anxiety issues since I have never really been out of house since school days so talking and connecting while keeping connections is not really a strong point of mine which I hope to fix soon. thanks.

GeekGirlM June 11th, 2015

Hello everyone! Depression, anxiety, and insomnia are something I've struggled with most of my life. I was recently diagnosed with clinical depression, GAD, and chronic insomnia. We found the right medication for my depression, which has improved vastly over the past several months. However, my anxiety and insomnia are resisting improvement and in fact seem to be getting worse. (I currently take medication for both.)

When there is an actual cause for the anxiety, I can usually (mostly) pull myself out of it and continue to function. The real problem is when the anxiety and panic pops up out of nowhere. I feel helpless about it...which of course makes it worse. Ugh.

affectionateChestnut June 11th, 2015

Hey, I'm Micha. Two years ago I suffered from depression and it slowly turned into anxiety. Everything's been pretty much fine until now, but now my life is becoming more hectic due touniversity, and the anxiety attacks seem to never end. My parents are a great help, but we live far awayfrom each other, so there's only so much they can do, and I don'thave any friends I feel comfortable to speakabout this...Life is great :)

roobear1707 June 12th, 2015

Hi I'm Miranda, I've been struggling with anxiety for over four years now. Panic attacks are pretty common in my life, and I never really have anyone to talk to about them.

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WhimsyByrd June 12th, 2015

I hope your journey is glorious! And I'm happy to see someone start something like this the same time i am. Thank you for being brave enough to reach out for help.

rebelni June 12th, 2015

I get panic attacks some really bad some not so much.

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