anyone else alone??
Does anybody else feel like they are alone 24/7?? I have friends but I feel like I'm on my own all the time!
I can also relate, all my friends are married as so am I. With kids
. BtUT it just seems with age we grow apart and on top of things my married life I feel is fractured at best. What happened to the person I fell in love
@courteousPlum3937
I'm not married but I do know how it feels when a partner drifts apart. And it sucks and hurts. I know my pain might not be like yours, and I'm sorry you have to go through it.
Sorry to hear that. It’s not easy when things are not good with our spouse.
@ElyseMyers12368 You feel lonely whenever you feel lack of sympathy and understanding from other people. It can happen even with your closest friends or family around you. Actually, it doesn't matter the number of people, it can be only one person who understands you to clear the feeling of loneliness
@ElyseMyers12368 i feel the same exact way, my friends never really organize anything to hang out i just have like one best friend but not really a group so im never invited to much of anything and spend most of my time alone at home
@zadieluna
It is never fun by yourself..I legit talk to myself!
@ElyseMyers12368
Same here in reference to talking to myself and feeling alone. That's major loneliness to be doing that. I do not even have one friend or family member that is there for me/supportive. I am sorry that you are going through that as well.
@ElyseMyers12368
yes, i have a lot of wonderful friends but when I'm not with them, even sometimes when I am with them, I feel lonely, like I have no friends, and I'm just plain unwanted. i try to make a list in my head of all my friends and close family members and that can help. if it doesn't, blast music until you feel better
@ElyseMyers12368
Hi ! I can understand where you are coming from I personally went through this feeling as well where I am surrounded by my friends yet I felt like I was alone and had no one ! And it definitely isn't easy to deal with this feeling and you are so strong for going through it ! Talking to them about how you feel can help as your friends are there to support you as well especially if you are going through a tough time !
This is how my family makes me feel. Completely unloved and unwanted. And actually it’s not in my imagination my grandparents and godparents all told me my nuclear family was poisoning me and I did not listen. I loved them all.
Fast forward 40 years later, my mother died my father was demented and I found out my grandparents and godparents were right. Proof in writing. I knew I was not the favourite and I never felt loved but actual hatred?
I have spent my life trying to please people who hated me. And who actively were unpleasant to any friends I ever introduced to them, so much so that many people who loved me said “me or them”.
If your friends are there believe someone who did not - they care.
I can relate. I don’t open up to anyone so I feel alone and like I’m the only person dealing with anxiety issues.
I can relate. Even though I am surrounded by people most of the time, it feels like I'm alone. Sometimes it just feels like nobody cares, nobody is there for me and I have to deal with everything on my own.
