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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
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December 12th
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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December 10th
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
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Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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December 4th
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Am I the only one who doesnt like Christmas?
by ladyofborders
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5 hours ago
...See more Same concept as last year, it just bothers me a little how people tend to celebrate Christmas with Christmas music or decorations (i dont know how differently to word this so im sorry if it seems like im repeating the same post from last year)
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Anti Anxiety Toolbox
by Sueperu
Last post
Tuesday
...See more Ensuring we have the best mindset for the holiday I've recognised that I am very often focused on my perfectionism and the semantics of occassions and events and I miss out on the meaning and the moments. I often find myself afterward thinking oh I should have enjoyed that moment with my family or I should have taken some time to enjoy that occassion. So for the holiday, let's set our mindsets right and ensure we have the right inner dialogue. Let's focus on the meaning and the moments rather than being anxious over how it will go or overwhelmed by what it needs to be like or frustrated with how it isn't. Here are some healthy alternatives to our general holiday mindsets: For the anxiety: Change: I am worried about how this should be or that should be or who should be doing what or whether to do it this way or that To: Let me just take a deep breath and a step back and enjoy this moment however it is unfolding and with whomever. Its not such a big deal how it goes or who is doing what. It matters more that its my moment, my holiday For the perfectionism: Change: I have to do this and that. You shouldn't do it that way. Is everything in order? To: Let me be a little more laid back and just enjoy the joy and have fun. It does not have to be perfect. Its fun either way. Let me remind myself to enjoy the moments For the overwhelm: Change: There is so much to do To: Let's just go with the flow. Do a little at a time. But most importantly taking time to be with family and friends. Taking me-time. Taking time for fun and relaxation. Not focusing on go go go. Just remembering to slow down and take in the moment. For the loneliness Change: I have no one to spend the holiday with To: I have this glorious opportunity to focus on myself and have some me-time. Reminder: there are those who are wishing for some peace and quiet during this time. I would love to hear what mindset corrections you have. Happy holidays everyone. We got this. We're going to enjoy our holiday this year and its going to be beautiful and peaceful.
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HOW I BATTLE ANXIETY AND WIN!
by juliak1968
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December 14th
...See more Anxiety is a rotten thief that tries to steal our happiness away, and anxiety can only occur when you're not focused on something that advances your life from the smallest thing like making your bed and then look at the progress and it feels good. (I had to learn the hard way and I suffered SEVERELY! My anxiety got so terrible that I had to be admitted to the hospital. I found that keeping busy doing anything at all helps. ANYTHING CONSTRUCTIVE When I feel the anxiety starting, I consider it a challenge and a fight that I must win, (This takes a real creative effort) I try to quickly focus on anything (one of my hobbies like drawing, logging onto 7Cups, Playing a few games of chess online, etc. Nothing hard but maybe looking at your cellphone's photo gallery, or looking / reading through old text messages and maybe sending a text with a creatively edited photo. I use 7Cups as a distraction often (which is what brought me here tonight). When our thoughts are blank, the anxiety sneaks in, but when we are focused on something (Productive, Practical, Positive and/or creative), it diverts our attention and hence we no longer are paying attention to anxiety. Learn to hate anxiety and start finding creative distractions and look for ways like singing out-loud, or listening to the radio while sketching a silly doodle, or doing a crossword puzzle. I write poems about my anxiety also. I make little to do lists so I can keep my thoughts directed at progress in my life. Keep it simple and give yourself a lot of self care! Blessings, Day
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Struggling with Low Motivation as a Student
by wittyPineapple7657
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December 10th
...See more Hello everyone, I'm currently a university student studying abroad in Japan. Recently, I've been feeling overwhelmed with the amount of knowledge I need to learn and the tasks I have to complete. But for some reason, I've lost all motivation. I often skip classes and spend most of my time at home doing nothing. This behavior frustrates me, and I feel stuck in a cycle l can't seem to break. I want to end this unproductive and painful way of living, but I don't know how to take the first step. If anyone has experienced something similar or has advice on how to regain motivation and balance, I would be really grateful for your suggestions. Thank you for reading my post!
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Need OCD accountability buddy
by inthequeue
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December 8th
...See more Hello, I'm a recovering OCD suffered. I'm planning on going on a 3 month ban from my OCD compulsions. Anyone with OCD , who want to keep me accountable and check in daily, and support each other ?
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What do you like to write about?
by TJItalia
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December 7th
...See more I like to journal about what I am grateful for and the emotions I am feeling. After a panic attack I often write about the trigger and how I coped. 
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Anxious thoughts ruining my life and relationship
by exuberantApple4373
Last post
December 4th
...See more I keep having constant anxious thoughts about my relationship with my boyfriend whose parents seem to be in love with each other but live apart for work/taking care of their parent. Further, Im not really sure if we have socioeconomic parity between us. I'm rooting for my boyfriend to be his best version and in fact have dedicated all my energy into his betterment, completely ignoring mine, although he never asked me to and is a wonderful man with a promise of a successful future. His mother does talk to me seldom but seems to not care much about my life, though my boyfriend says she does and teh reason is him updating her on my life when he goes back home to her. I love this man, but I have  a lot of anxiety that's recurring. Please advice me on this, preferably without asking me to break up with him.
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My PTSD is killing me!!
by Happyness04
Last post
December 2nd
...See more I was sexually abused consequently, for about 4 years in my early childhood. Now, it's five years from then, and I feel like I've reached my tipping point! Up until the past two to three months I've never had panic attacks or anxiety! I have suicidal thoughts often though, but I've never really gone through with it. I mean, I've intentionally harmed myself a couple of times, but I've never been able to see it through to the final blow. The worst part is, the two culprits, both of which were oblivious to the other, were my cousins. And our moms re super tight!! So, most times it feels like my silence is going to keep the peace intact, and not ruin our moms relationships. But, right now my silence is coting me my sanity, and I felt like, if I don't talk to someone, or anyone I'm going to go insane! Gosh!!! The pain is maddening!!! I don't know what to do anymore? I mean, I couldn't even sleep last night! I'm having a serious headache, and I don't know, nothing makes sense! It's like my body wants to live, or more like scared to die. But my soul, and my heart, and my entire being are fed up!
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Anxiety
by MilkyOaksWay
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December 1st
...See more Hey all, For the last 2-3 months, I (18M) have started feeling anxious over everyday activities (heavy breathing, a sense of worry combined with a deep pit feeling in my chest, trouble sleeping—e.g., waking up hours before I am supposed to, being very alert and not able to get back to sleep). Though not socially, per se, I’d say that I am a very extroverted person compared to my peers. Recently, this has gotten worse; for over a month now, I have been worrying about nothing—seriously, nothing at all—yet my mind races, filled with worry and overthinking. My heart rate elevates, I feel overwhelmed, and my throat tightens to the point where I start to gag and feel like I'm going to vomit. These episodes can happen at any point of the day, even at work or while sitting on the couch relaxing, and can last for hours. They have begun to happen much more frequently, which is starting to affect my life. These episodes are more likely to occur when I am in social settings, even if it’s relaxed and I can keep to myself, like at an event where I start to over-worry and gag, which is unusual for me because I would call myself social (although I grew up as an extremely shy kid, but that suddenly went away a few years ago). During these episodes, I have been doing the standard breathing exercises I've seen online. They help somewhat, but still aren't enough for me. In my personal life, no drastic events have taken place; actually, I’d say life is going very well. I've just finished high school with better-than-expected grades and am on summer break for a few months (I'm in the Southern Hemisphere). I have successfully enrolled in university to pursue a degree I have always wanted to do, without the stress of being able to pay for it either. To be honest, I feel guilty for feeling this way; I have everything going for me with all the opportunities I've been privileged to have while others are suffering more than me. I have spoken to close friends about what I am going through, and they say I am experiencing standard anxiety symptoms. But what do you think? Should I go to my GP with this? (I have a new doctor I have never seen and I am afraid this will get brushed over (I also would like to keep this private as I feel embrassed to be 'broken' and that I feel like this and I don't want to talk about it with my parents)
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Exam Anxiety
by aacv125
Last post
November 24th
...See more Hi. I recently discovered this website and I'm so glad that I did. It's so wonderful that I'm able to communicate with different people, share my thoughts and feelings and possibly relate to the experiences of others. So, I have an extremely important exam coming up in about 3 months and I still a lot of material to cover. This has been making me feel really anxious and also giving me panic attacks every so often. I also procrastinate a lot and get distracted quite easily. I also struggle to go to bed early, although I've made some progress on this over the last few weeks. Even though I did change some of my older unhealthy habits, I still have some of the left and sometimes return back to them. It's tremendously challenging to maintain new habits and do away with older ones. Luckily, my mom did recently tell me to take it easy and that it's not the end of the world if you don't pass this exam.  How do I stay calm, disciplined and study effectively? How do I also form new habits and prevent myself from backsliding? Thanks in advance.
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Anxiety
by meowcat1216
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November 24th
...See more So what is your most effective way to deal with anxiety?
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Accepting anxiety as a part of your life.
by Amy7469
Last post
November 22nd
...See more I know, this is a pretty wilds statement. How can I accept something as a part of my life if it literally tries to ruin my life on a daily basis?! Well I've done some thinking. Sometimes bad things happen in your life that you have absolutely no control over, like an accident or a loss. For that you often hear about the 7 stages of grief.  1. Shock 2. Denial 3. Anger  4. Guilt  5. Depression  6. Reconstruction  7. Acceptance  This does fall into the category of grief, but as i was looking i found myself relating to these steps in terms of my anxiety. The only difference is that go through a new episode of anxiety on a daily basis. I came to the conclusion that if a person is able to heal after going through these 7 steps when the go through grief, then I can heal my daily episodes by ensuring that i go through all these steps a day and not get stuck on Anger or Depression. This will allow it to build up, eventually making it worse.  Try doing some self reflection at the end of the day, checking where on the list you got stuck today and try again tomorrow.  You've got this!

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