I want to release my sexual thoughts by writing sex stories, is it okay?
I feel I keep living with my fantasies which I ma not going to work on, but I feel guilty for even having such thoughts. How could I? I blame myself too much. I feel like if I express these desires in a sex story, I maybe able to let them out of my system. What do you think? Will it work or it's a bad idea?
@amiableFig7651
Some say it can help to focus first
on understanding the root cause.
It’s like the old saying:
“You can’t fix something until you know what’s broken”.
Once you know what is "broken",
then you can work on it and resolve it.
@amiableFig7651
I couldn't give an answer but I would say you need to explore the motives a bit more. Helpful, unhelpful, healthy, unhealthy, safe, harmful, reasons, excuses, outcomes, intentions, purpose, etc.
